Are these spots friction marks?
Q. Its not really a relationship problem, but moreso of a health question (if its okay to post them here). I recently got back from Hilton Head Island, SC, and everything was fine down there. After two hours of being on wave runners, we went...
A. 1 October 2011: Its been a while since I logged on. The spots only lasted 3 days before they went away. They did appear, however, after wearing the swimming trunks again, so I concluded that it was the new swimming trunks that did it. I cut out the mesh and tossed ... (read in full...)
My partner feels a failure because I can't cum. What should I do?
Q. My partner likes to watch me cum or know that i have cum , but I want to ,but can't.I don't believe in faking it.If I spend time on masturbating , I can occasionally but as I am have a very high sex drive surely this should be easy.i don't wan't my ...
A. 24 July 2011: Every man and women is different. Some women can produce a lot of fluid down there, others cannot. Either way it is perfectly normal!! The best thing to do is have a talk with your partner and explain that you're just not a woman like that on a ... (read in full...)
Qeustions for the guys ...do you prefer bigger women ?
Q. Qeustion for the men. What do you think about bigger women ? Would you ever date one, or do you prefer smaller women, do you find bigger women attractive or do find slim women more attractive ? I ask this because well im trying to start dating and ...
A. 24 July 2011: Every person is different. I know some people that will only date blond hair blue eyed people. I know a gentleman who will only date Christians. There's a woman I work with who refuses to date a guy who is older than her and she must be at least 4 ... (read in full...)
Is the fact that we are meeting again a sign, or am I looking too deep?
Q. "If you truly love someone, you should let them go; if they come back, it was meant to be; if they don't, it never was." Is this really true? I'm one who believes in fate, not coincidence. I tend to over-think things through though. I've been going ...
A. 24 July 2011: First off, I just want to say that, yes, you are over thinking things. Just because you're meeting up again doesn't mean in the slightest that you're each other's soul mates and that its going to be a happily ever after. Like most kids your age, the ... (read in full...)
Torn between two women...I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down
Q. Ok, I'm a 22 year old college student. I am torn between two women. I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down. They both have feelings for me and want to exclusively date. So I have classes with one of these girls 4 times a ...
A. 24 July 2011: From the way you're even describing it, you seem more drawn to the first girl. Not only is she more readily available to hang out with, but you see her more often and seem to have more things in common, considering you're taking the same few classes ... (read in full...)
My mom thinks I'm too young to have a boyfriend!
Q. Dear Cupid, My mom is being so protective over me ! I have a boyfriend, we're both fourteen and madly in love with each other. I thought telling her the truth that i have a boyfriend would be so much better but it turned out worse ! Whenever...
A. 8 July 2010: I find this very humorous as this sounds like my sister to a lesser extreme. However, you have to understand that your mother has gone through the exact same things as you. Everyone goes through the stage you're in at the moment, the "puppy love" ... (read in full...)
Help! I would love to be more than just her friend but am scared if she rejects me I'll lose that friendship.
Q. I am in love with one girl which I had known for 4 years. At the current moment, we are very close friends. I had always wanted to start a relationship with her, however, I got this feeling that she just treats me as a good friend and afraid that ...
A. 24 May 2009: I don't mean to be a pessimist or anything, but I think your "love" may be just a strong connection and infatuation with this friend. You have to understand that for love to happen, it has to be both ways and that the love has to bud and grow within ... (read in full...)
Is it true men like the chase?
Q. I met this new guy, we have been dating for 2 weeks, but ive become obsessed, dreaming about him, thinking about him everyday, wanting to speak to him every day (but i dont) as i dont want to scare him off.... im 22 is this normal? im worried im ...
A. 24 May 2009: Every guy is different, and you know that :-)
Personally I hate the "chasing" part of the relationship. If I could, I'd fast forward to like 3 months into the relationship when things have settled down a bit (lol).
I know that there are guys t... (read in full...)
Still a virgin and also, how do I help my friend?
Q. I'm 16 years old nd still a virgin. I've been called romantic and sensitive. Isn't that what all girls like? I can't seem to get a girl. Even if my life depended on it. Help!!!... Also, my friend has a cheating boyfriend. I love her more than any...
A. 24 May 2009: I'll answer your question in 3 parts.
As for the first part, being a virgin isn't all that bad. I was a virgin up until I was 15, but I lost my virginity to a girl who had a bad home-life and wanted to get pregnant so she could move in with me.... (read in full...)
Hand-job Disaster
Q. Okay sooooo my 1st bf and i (i'm his 1st gf too) very recently just experimented by taking things to 3rd base..i did the basing. to be precise, i gave him a hand job, a pretty weak one seeing as i had no clue what i was really doing. but it did do ...
A. 24 May 2009: First off, I want to say that you're better than a lot of "first time" girls out there. My ex used to give me handjobs, but she would always stop right before I "exploded" (I also thought that the word you chose was funny). In that aspect, there's ... (read in full...)
He's my first boyfriend, and I don't know how far I want to go
Q. I just started dating, and I've been dating this boy for a little over a month, we broke up briefly but now we are together and happy. Its always been a huge goal of mine to wait until i graduate to have sex, but other things are okay...i think. i...
A. 26 April 2009: I'll answer your second question first, as it is the easiest to answer.
I would say that you should start out as slow as you need to. Find out more about each other, spots that turn each other one, and just not even sexual stuff, hang out and just... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my b/f's uncle!
Q. Hi , well here's my situation ... I'm 14 years old, and I'm completely in love with a 24 year old. Believe it or not, I know its not an infatuation. If you, yourself, are in love- then you KNOW you are in love, you don't question it. Now, this...
A. 26 April 2009: All I can really say is that you're 14 years old. You have so much of life that you still have to live, and that you are probably just really infatuated with him. Love is something that doesn't just happen, you have to be in a real serious ... (read in full...)
1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin
Q. When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...
A. 11 January 2009: The first time I had sex with a girl, she didn't bleed either, and I'm 100% sure she was a virgin. The hymen being broken tends to be the time when you actually "bleed"
See, that can happen if you play sports and have a tampon in. I know lots of ... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex, how can I win her back?
Q. Ok, so.... Here goes. I've been split up from my ex for a while now, around 6 months, and i want her back. I was desperately in love with her and i still am. There's a hitch though. We haven't talked in those six months (she's since changed her numb...
A. 14 July 2008: Unfortunately this has happened to all of us, my friend. Like you said, you've heard the "get over it" speech and stuff, but from what I'm hearing:
She wants to move on.
As much as that hurts to hear, you need to understand her feelings as well... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think he's the reason I don't want to have sex, what do I say?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He is the sweetest guy ever. He is always thinking of me first and buying me things when i dont expect it. We've talked about having sex. I love him more than anything but I'm not sure if i want to have sex ...
A. 14 July 2008: The best advice is to talk about it. If you truly don't want to have sex, and he's as sweet as you say he is, he'll understand. If he gets mad or whatever, and doesn't want to respect you, that's his own fault. You have to think about your own self ... (read in full...)
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