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Why does he lose his erection when he's about to ejaculate?

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Question - (6 August 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

The sex is great but y does he loose his irection when it's time to cum. The only way he does cum is by oral or a handjob. It's frustrating he can't finish inside me. What can be wrong ?

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A female reader, hunkydory United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2009):

I agree with what everyone else is saying. Try giving him handjobs/blowjobs and wait till he can feel it coming and just as it is about to grind together and then when he does ejaculate it will be inside you. It will be easier if you just work up to it, and dont give up it might take a few tries at this xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

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We have great sex he gets hard real hard but when it comes to shooting in me he loses his hard on I do give him oral and hand jobs I don't mind that I love pleasing him. Just wish I knew what makes him like that.

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A male reader, deadduderc United States +, writes (7 August 2009):

Well you should still try blowing him for a while before having regular intercourse and it'll probably happen for you.

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A male reader, deadduderc United States +, writes (7 August 2009):

Perhaps vaginal sex doesn't excite your man very much. You might want to try blowing him until he is very close to orgasm and then quickly grind into him and see what happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

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No we want a baby but he can never complete it

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A female reader, Hesty United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2009):

Are you using condoms?

If not he could just be affraid of getting you preganant and it's causing him to become a little inhibited.

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