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writes:Im dating this guy who is a little older than me. he is the nicest person in the world, and i do belive i love him. i trust him. etc. and i think im ready to lose my virginity to him. but as hes a bit older hes had experince with girls and i dont know what to do. i dont want to be "bad".. any advise? x Reply to this Question
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reader, soccerplaya11  +, writes (12 August 2009):
i recently just lost my virginity with my gf, who was also a virgin. Honestly if the guy is on top like i was, there isnt really anything a girl can do. what my gf did was moan a little to kinda keep me turned on, everything else during the sex will be more than enough pleasure to keep ur bf interested lol.
also i would recommend ur bf fingering you before actual intercourse as it will help "open" you up a little more and use a lot of lube as it will probly hurt the first time.
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reader, nazeena  +, writes (7 August 2009):
You should have a talk with your boyfriend. if he's a understanding person then you should be ok. Take your time, don't rush into sex too fast. I wouldn't say that anyone is bad at sex, everyone just have different ways of doing things, especially in your case first time. Just let him lead you...and I am sure if he knows your a vergin he will take his time with you and make you enjoy the moment, and you never know you might turn out to be the best to him.
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reader, hunkydory +, writes (7 August 2009):
Have you talked this over with your bf? Its best if you work your way up to having sex with him e.g. hand fondeling. and see where things go, it will just happen. you cant be 'bad' as such in bed cause everyone does things differently, after a while you will find a way that will work for you.
Good luck xx
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