He tells me that I am not a good wife or mother! I don't think I can go on like this anymore, what should I do?
Q. This have been bothering me for quite sometime now. My husband and me used to have very good relationship. I always take care of him when his home even though I'm already tired from work I make it a point to cook and give time to him and our five ...
A. 27 June 2011: I'm so sorry but your husband is a complete bully. I have raised 2 children on my own and its no walk in the park, tell him to get his backside home , take your child for a couple of weeks and you swoon of on holiday because you DESERVE it after the ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?
Q. Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...
A. 27 June 2011: you and your family is what counts now ! your mind will be in turmoil over this and quite rightly so, but ask yourself this, heas cheated on you twice now i know it can happen but he must have been seeing both girls more than once to get them both ... (read in full...)
I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long
Q. hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was ...
A. 27 June 2011: update,,,, to all of you who pitied the wife and made out i got what i deserved, now one year and a half on, i have my own business, in a stable relationship and very happy ,i was just going threw my old messages and contemplating how i was feeling ... (read in full...)
Why do people chase you and then drop you?
Q. as your aware my last question was over my ex i moved on and met someone else, at first he was really funny told that i was the one, and that he loved me dearly we went on holiday together but he woud blow hot and cold with me, i felt real close to ...
A. 28 December 2010: a massive thankyou to everyone for there advice xx... (read in full...)
Why do people chase you and then drop you?
Q. as your aware my last question was over my ex i moved on and met someone else, at first he was really funny told that i was the one, and that he loved me dearly we went on holiday together but he woud blow hot and cold with me, i felt real close to ...
A. 29 November 2010: thankyou to all who replied to my question, i think most of you were right and he used me, i just dont understand people with those motives but ill be more watchfull from now on, thanks again xx... (read in full...)
I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long
Q. hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was ...
A. 18 May 2010: can any one give me advice on how to move on, as i said before he left to go back to his wife last years, well in the jan 2010 he wrote me letters asking for me back.i said i wont go back unless he divorced which he hasnt as im sure you all sumised ... (read in full...)
He strung me along for a whole year, while he had another gf...where do I go from here?
Q. i was with my partner for 12 years and have an 11 year old son, we have been apart 1yr now he said his feelings had changed so he moved out , he often said he regretted his decision and is relly upset that he hurt me , he has been in hospital with ...
A. 18 May 2010: i feel for you, but you have to ask him and he has to be truthful, does he want to be with you, he seems very confused about what he wants,either that hes just a scoundrel who uses people,but first and foremost is your feelings and your sons,we cant ... (read in full...)
My husband has cheated in the past and now I think he may be having another affair!
Q. I hope you can help me I have been married for 22 years and have 2 teenage children. I think my husband is having an affair he is very secretive with his phone I have found txt messages he has sent to a woman he denies everything. He has had an ...
A. 27 February 2010: i think you know the answer already, your cheking his phone and you are always jelous this is destroying you , you have to build your self esteme ive been in a relationshi like that and it didint get better for me trust is a hard thing to gain and ... (read in full...)
His other women are making me miserable but he is denying me a divorce
Q. Married for 33 years.My husband used to be rude sometimes, and very lovely others. 15years ago I got a phonecall telling me he has a son out of our marriage and still is this woman. I had a very rough time.Asked him for divorce. he denied. ...
A. 27 February 2010: why id divorce such a bad thing im fed up with people saying keep trying the bottom line is you dont feel loved he isnt faithfull but he doesnt want a divorce well thats tough because if you do then it wont stop you but it seems like you want to ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it hard to think clearly because of my deep affection for him, can anyone share their opinions on my situation?
Q. Hi, I've been with my BF since 2001 and we have had our ups and downs but I do love him and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I have a real chemistry with him physically and he has been very loving, generous and loyal to me. However, he has ...
A. 22 February 2010: OMG what a B...... why are you with this selfish mean ignorant pig headed person who does he think he is you wouldnt treat a dog in that manner, on one hand you have to acept that he doesnt want to marry or live with you thats an issue in its self ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him if there may be a chance in the future once his head is back in play?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for around 6mths and he's recently left his wife. The last 6 weeks have been hell. He's completely changed. Last week he said he needed some space to sort things out and his divorce etc, he said he loved me and that once ...
A. 22 February 2010: sweetie i know its hard ive been having the same crap for 4 years with a man who keeps changing his mind i know its very hard but back of big time you wont gain respect by chasing him men can be very good a saying thingd at the time then changing ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with an EXTREMELY insecure girlfriend?
Q. How do I deal with an EXTREMELY insecure girlfriend? I am going to flat out say this, she is crazy. When I call her back to ask what is wrong, she pushes me away until we fight. But when I do not call back about something she then thinks "oh he d...
A. 22 February 2010: does she know shes being unreasonable ? and i so have you asked her why she feels this way, woman need the feel as if there your all, but if she has rel insecurities about herself then she needs help to overcome them, the fighting seeemed to be as ... (read in full...)
I don't like my father's inappropriate behaviour! Should I be worried?
Q. I think my father is acting really weird. I've never been too close to him and whenever he wanted to kiss or hug me like my mother does, i silently rejected him because I didn't like it. That made him angry and we started to argue about unimportant ...
A. 8 February 2010: i woul keep my distant and go with your gut instincts my dad was like that when i was younger and its totally changed my behaviour toward him im always backing of if he gives me a hug and its been 20 years... (read in full...)
For anyone out there who has been cheated on.. can you tell me when the pain starts to subside?
Q. Hi everyone, For anyone out there who has been cheated on.. can you tell me when the pain starts to subside? Only three weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend of eight years has been having an affair for the past year - and possibly the ent...
A. 8 February 2010: hi there, i had to reply to your question, i like you had the wind taken from my sail so to speak so ill tell you and see if you relate to it, SHOCKED to the core like my life was in slow motion and everything was surreal, i screamed with tears ... (read in full...)
I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long
Q. hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was ...
A. 8 February 2010: thankyou to all who replied x heather... (read in full...)
I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long
Q. hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was ...
A. 7 February 2010: can i just say when i met him he lived in his own house and told me hed been seperated for 2 years, i had no idea at the time what lay ahead as soon as i found out his wife was foning him i called it of so he could sort things out he assured me that ... (read in full...)
I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long
Q. hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was ...
A. 7 February 2010: can i just say when i met him he lived in his own house and told me hed been seperated for 2 years, i had no idea at the time what lay ahead as soon as i found out his wife was foning him i called it of so he could sort things out he assured me that ... (read in full...)
Broken up because of family/religion but I can't get over him!
Q. My case might be unique cause I am from a very conservative background. I am a very religious Hindu and i CANNOT go against my parents to marry a guy they disapprove of. But emotions took over me, and i fell in love for a Buddhist guy! He loves me ...
A. 6 February 2010: i am sick and tired of religion, im inlove with a man whos seperated hes catholic and has trouble coming to terms with whats hes doing , love is the most powerfull thing above any religion , nobody would tel me who i should and shouldnt be with, why ... (read in full...)
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