He asked me to pay for dinner on the second date! What should I think about this?
Q. If a man asks a woman to pay for dinner on the 2nd date what should she think ?...
A. 31 March 2011: It's only money. And only the second date. I wouldn't read too much into it. Granted, he probably shouldn't have just dumped the entire bill into your lap. Maybe he's just testing you out; seeing how you'll react? Most women have an expectation that ... (read in full...)
Why do so many women hate porn?
Q. Maybe I'm opening a can of worms here, but why are so many woman so vehemently against porn? What is there about it that makes it so evil? I read so many questions from women who are disgusted by their partner's porn use. Some consider it as b...
A. 31 March 2011: Usually it's because of the objectification of woman that most porn espouses. And, then, of course, there's the absurd idea that one person is all that is needed to fulfill ones needs, which isn't really the case, most times; especially in yo... (read in full...)
I miss him yet I don't miss him at the same time!
Q. i made my ex a friend. he seems not too enthusiastic about it, even when he had begged for it for a long time. i thout i loved him so much when he was gone, but now that he is back in my life am not too sure about it. neither is he...though he sends...
A. 24 March 2011: If it's a friendship that you both are attempting, it would be best to focus in the now, and limit reminiscing as much as possible. We have a tendency to put a much better spin on memories. ... (read in full...)
She didnt respond when I proposed to her, how can I tell her that I love her?
Q. i met a girl in my school and i fell in love with her and i proposed her and she didn't gave response but i still love her but she doesn't. how can i tell her that i am in love with her...
A. 24 March 2011: It's quite alright to be a little smitten with someone, at you age. Marriage is a bit of a long term situation, man. I don't really think it's something you should be planning at the ages of 16-17. Especially if it's one-sided. Focus on your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend's girlfirend that I like her?
Q. my friend has a girlfriend and i am starting to really like her. we spoke a little on facebook after i first met her but since i added her on msn the other day we have spoke everytime she has come on which is a few times a week. i thought that she...
A. 24 March 2011: If you value his friendship, absolutely not. It's alright to have a on-going friendship with her, but you'd have to set boundaries for yourself. If you don't value the friendship, it's still tricky, but at least you have a course of action planne... (read in full...)
He was having sex with another girl while I was pregnant, I know he has done me wrong but he has my heart.....what should I do?
Q. Need help please!.... I have known this guy since 2006 we dated for almost 3yrs.. We broke up for good 10 months ago.... We started to go back out in 09 of October im now pregnant by him I will have the baby in 5 days .... im so in love with him I ...
A. 24 March 2011: It's time to focus less on that relationship and more on your upcoming child. The same goes for him. I seriously doubt that relationship is going to work out, which is probably a good thing, in the long run. If he's willing to step out a month... (read in full...)
Do I forgive him for cheating?
Q. Recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me. From the very beginning we both made it clear how fond we were of each other. We both agreed that honesty and trust was the number one thing we looked for in a relationship, especially me i made it very ...
A. 23 March 2011: A kiss is a little more forgivable than a sexual act, I would think. While this certainly should indicate that there is a problem, it's not necessarily, or shouldn't be, anyway, something to end this relationship over. Everyone f's up sometimes... (read in full...)
My friend is always on my mind -- I think I'm in love and I don't want to screw it up
Q. I think im in love with my flatmate, im not sure how she feels about me. My other flatmates and friends keep saying we look like a couple. She is always on my mind and when she is around im always happier, she always comes onto my room and we talk ...
A. 23 March 2011: You could casually and jokingly bring it up during one of those chat sessions. See how she responds. You'll know pretty quickly if there is any semblance of truth in a positive reaction. ... (read in full...)
Sweet man or sociopath?
Q. if a man is charming does it always have to mean that they are trying to schmooze? my new guy is rather over the top charming towards me, i have told him it makes me uneasy and he said he flatters me coz he wants me to like him. he is not a silly ...
A. 23 March 2011: It's perfectly natural to want to win someone you enjoy over with a little charm. Sometimes to an excess, even, if you really like them. I'd take it as a compliment, if anything. Give him a chance to either prove or disprove your fears. It shouldn't ... (read in full...)
Should I quit while I'm still young?
Q. My life feels like a vicious circle. My partner and i have recently decided to start a fresh after a 3 month break. We have had a on off relationship for the past 8 yrs. We have a couple of kids together who are both still young. It was he who s...
A. 23 March 2011: I don't think it's unreasonable to ask that he curb his drinking, especially since it adds nothing constructive to your life, your kids lives and your relationship. If it's something he's unwilling to do, or even come to the conclusion himself, I ... (read in full...)
My b/f took his ex's side over mine and now I don't trust him
Q. this might be long sorry... ok so ive been with my partner for over 3 yrs the first few months were amazing then one day im in class and get a text from him sayin that it was childish of me texting his ex abusin her. he never asked me if i did he ...
A. 23 March 2011: Honestly, I would focus in on his more recent behavior, and not something that occurred more than 2 years ago. You're at an age where you start shedding some of those immaturities, so I wouldn't judge too harshly for a little he-said she-said.
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Guy and feelings--how can we get you to open up?
Q. I tell my guy I like him and that he turns me on but I don't get that from him. The other day I got him to say he likes me and he said that he's already told me that he liked me and cared BUT I certainly don't remember that. You ladies know when a ...
A. 23 March 2011: Some men aren't able to articulate those feelings, or even able to really identify with them; usually expressing them through actions, like providing for you, etc.
I mean, if you really want to know, there is no harm in asking very poignant... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and won't dump her for me
Q. i dont know how to word this so long story short.... the guy i like likes me to, he says he loves me bt he has a nother gf but wont dump her........ What do i do...
A. 23 March 2011: It's really not worth pursuing. Move on and find someone a little less fickle. ... (read in full...)
Are there second chances at love?
Q. First off, I want to apologize for the length of this question. I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in December because he decided he wanted to be with someone else. I was in a depression for close to 2 months and anytime I tried moving on,...
A. 23 March 2011: You're still pretty young to be making life-long plans with anyone. I wouldn't get too hung up on the relationships early in your life.
So yes, your feelings are natural, albeit a bit misplaced, I would recommend just enjoying the relationship with... (read in full...)
12 year old looking at porn?
Q. my 12 yeras son is looking on porn on his computer its that normal...
A. 23 March 2011: Of course it is, he's entering puberty. I'm willing to bet it has more to do with seeing an exposed breast, and less to do with uh, lets call it nuances of porn.
Buy him a couple Playboys, or something, and try to work up the courage to talk to ... (read in full...)
After sex it takes him about 30 minutes to recover,is this normal?
Q. My partner is 20 turning 21 and after he cums hes penis starts to die and it takes him around 30mins or more for him to have another erection is this normal? or dose he have a problem i don't know for he was my first sexual partner please help...
A. 23 March 2011: No, that appears to be normal. Recovery times, as it were, vary from man to man. Some require almost none at all, while others need upwards to an hour or more. ... (read in full...)
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