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writes:my friend has a girlfriend and i am starting to really like her.we spoke a little on facebook after i first met her but since i added her on msn the other day we have spoke everytime she has come on which is a few times a week. i thought that she was very attractive when i first saw her and it went away a little because i hardly saw her. but now i know a lot more about her and we have alot in common. i really like her because the last few days i have waited from about 7pm to after 11pm (because our internet gets swiched off around 11pm) just for her to come online so i can speak to her. if i have had a bad day she always makes me feel better and everytime i hear the noise to signal someone has come online i always get butterflies because i think its her but it isn't. my friend is very over protective because he thinks something is going on between us when there isn't and she hasn't cheated or anything before and they have split up recently but got back together. she always talk to me about him about what she doesn't like and i can see them breaking up soon. i want to tell her that i like her but i don't know how she'll react because i think she likes me in a way but im not sure. should i tell her the way i feel?should i tell my friend who clearly doesn't trust me or her anymore?thanks for your comments
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 How much do you like your friend? Are you willing to lose his friendship? And if you do tell her how you feel you may lose both friendships.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 March 2011):
 Not until they break up. You're honestly not being a very good friend. If you pursue her, you and this guy will not be friends anymore. That's something to be aware of.
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reader, Heisenberg +, writes (24 March 2011):
If you value his friendship, absolutely not. It's alright to have a on-going friendship with her, but you'd have to set boundaries for yourself. If you don't value the friendship, it's still tricky, but at least you have a course of action planned out. I will say, though, that relationships that in scandal have a tendency not to work out.
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