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writes:I'm not a jealous person and ive always taken it well when my boyfriends in the past have commented on a girl on tv or an actress and said how sexy she is. I dont really care, they're celebrities, you cant be with them, i like Daniel Craig as well but its not like i'll ever get with him.But i'vé never been with a boy who i've (knowingly) seen eyeing up other women infront of me. My boyfriend blatantly does it. He was doing it with his friend last week, his friend told him off because i was there and he said "oh dont be silly, im allowed to do that!" Yesterday i made a joke out of him doing it and his response was "well i do it all the time get over it!" I tried to take it on the chin, and he tried to be all over me afterwards but inside i was really pissed off and REALLY paranoid thoughts were running through my head.Like he must be looking at them because im not beautiful enough to him or something. He actually now talks about it when he sees a pair of legs he likes since i made the joke about it as if i'm loving it! I'm sure he wouldnt like it if every time i saw a nice looking man i commented on them! am i right to be pissed off? what can i do about it?
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (6 June 2009):
Not only are you right, kept quiet about it. This guy is obviously lacking something. you need to let him know its a problem, he wont see it as a big deal. It makes me wonder how much he cares for you.
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reader, happytobe  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 You're totally right! I understand that guys have a natural instinct to think women are attractive. And it's even okay to think it, they can't help that. But to blatantly take notice of it right in front of you is rude and inconsiderate and even a blow to the self confidence. There are guys out there that won't do that to their girlfriends. You need to talk to this guy. If he refuses to stop, dump him. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings at all. There are guys out there (like my boyfriend for example so yes it's really real!) who will love you comletely and though he can still point out a pretty girl if asked doesn't pay any attention to them or even gives them a second glance! They love and are completely happy with their girlfriend and think she's the most beautiful girl in the world. If he's not willing to change then dump him and find the boy that was made to think that way about you! Good luck to you on that my dear.
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