How do you cope when you find out your crush doesn't like you back?
Q. Okay everyone, I need help. See I'm pretty young, and I've never been a person to let my emotions get the best of me. So recently I started liking someone after about two years, and through therapy. This person I liked was a GUY! Yes shocker. ...
A. 10 June 2010: Rejection is unfortunately a part of life. Believe me, being gay, many gay men have experienced the one-sided crush on their straight friend; it happens.
As another reader mentioned, if he's still willing to be your friend (as some still suffer f... (read in full...)
Does he really have ED or is he seeing someone else?
Q. Another day, another burning question. So I slept over my boyfriend's place last night and noticed the following: 1) A note I had sent him back in January that he has kept on his fridge is no longer there 2) A picture of us that he had as hi...
A. 30 May 2010: Hi! You're trying to find a reason why you might be to blame for his change in attitude about your relationship. Don't! One thing I've learned about relationships is this: you can only really rely on what someone else thinks/feels about things by ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's mum is a pain in the bum!!!
Q. ok i recently posted about my gf and her mum well her mum has used her brains to get her daughter to think she was ok so she could text me. The following thing: I am warning you... dont ever contact my daughter again... she is 19 and does not ...
A. 18 November 2009: Show your girlfriend the text message. It's not her mum's place to intervene, nor should age be the focus of debate. The girl is consensual, you have her brother and father's blessing. The issue is between the girl and her mum. Just wash your ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lives in a defense mechanism and won't let me inside.
Q. I've been in a somewhat new relationship. We've been talking for months and months, but only a few back actually made things officially exclusive. Anyway, my girlfriend has a tendency to keep to herself about things that bother her. She remains ...
A. 18 November 2009: You've been open and supportive of her, and still she's afraid to connect on that level with you. Try not to be insulted. There issue here IS trust, as you stated. Have you shared with her that it makes you feel this way? Regardless of what you ... (read in full...)
One thing finally goes right for me, and now my dad is being unreasonable. Please help me understand this!
Q. Ok so i need some quick advice. Bad. I've had a rough time with relationships. Out of the 3 ive been in, ive been cheated on 3 times. Ive finally found an amazing girl, we've been talking since this past friday, so not so long. But we both thin...
A. 17 November 2009: Hi Nick!
The online dating scene is relatively new in the eyes of many parents today. They grew up without the internet, and in it's infancy a lot of horror stories emerged as to how it's properties could be abused: men posing as teenage girls, e... (read in full...)
How can I maintain a healthy relationship?
Q. So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...
A. 17 November 2009: Yeah it sounds like a pretty positive conversation. Good for you! Thanks for keeping our advice in mind and hope everything works out well. Goodluck!... (read in full...)
Guys only - circumcision advice needed!
Q. ok this is a strictly GUYS ONLY question, so please i suggest that girls, dont read this. i developed a urinary tract infection, so my doc said that it is best if i get a circumcision done, as it will prevent further infections.so th...
A. 17 November 2009: I agree with duce. You can't put it back on. I would say though you shouldn't buy into the stigma surrounding circumcision when people say that it's a matter of good hygiene and appearance. If men were better off without a foreskin to begin with, ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend?
Q. Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend? I am not close with the couple that is getting married and my birthday is the only day out of the year that it is all about me. He gives me a ...
A. 16 November 2009: Would you go to the wedding if it weren't on your birthday? Having said that you don't like the woman getting married, I'm curious to know.
Of course if you're heart is in the right place about the whole thing, if you don't want to go to the wedd... (read in full...)
How can I maintain a healthy relationship?
Q. So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...
A. 16 November 2009: I don't mean to say 'avoid' her or disappear from her life...What other stuff is going on in your life? Studies? Work? Think more about that and bettering yourself right now. I'm saying that if she wants to be friends with you, then you'll need ... (read in full...)
The wounds are really deep and the healing process is being tough...pleae help me with your advice...
Q. Hi, I'm Luque , and I'm 23 years old. I'm feeling really lonely and without any direction, I've been feeling like crying all this week and I really can't describe what I feel, it's like a deep deep sadness, I've been through a lot of stuff in the ...
A. 14 November 2009: Being rejected by the people that you love and would expect to support you the most, your parents, can be incredibly difficult. One thing I hope you learn about yourself in this situation, is that you are the most powerful and strong person that ... (read in full...)
How can I do better in school?
Q. I am a university student and my friends and groupmates doubt my ability to do well in my studies. It is definitely not a good feeling and I am beginning to feel increasingly inferior and lost the confidence in myself after this. Exams is next week ...
A. 14 November 2009: What kind of friends of yours think you're not going to do well? Have you ever heard of the virtue of positive thinking? If the people around you don't believe in you, then find new friends to surround yourself with! People who believe in you, ... (read in full...)
I am having fantasies about my pregnant neighbor!
Q. i have a young couple as next door neighbours. my problem is that the wife is 5 months pregnant. and i have started having fantasies about her. ever since she got the baby bump. its almost like a pregnancy fetish. and i am not too happy about ...
A. 14 November 2009: Hey. Everyone's wired differently, and there are many different things that might turn different people on. As the old addage goes, "different strokes for different folks," you know? Having taken advice from another poster on this sight, allo... (read in full...)
Lately she has been acting like she is mad at me.
Q. I have been dating this girl for around 2 months now, and lately she has been acting like she is mad at me. For the first few weeks everything was fine, we got along, we kissed, we cuddled, that sort of stuff. For about 2 weeks now she has been ...
A. 14 November 2009: Well, in my opinion, if you think that something is really bothering her and you've talked to her about it and she denies it, then you can't really force her into communicating with you. If you've been direct with her and said something to the... (read in full...)
How can I maintain a healthy relationship?
Q. So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...
A. 14 November 2009: Having a child with each other certainly does up the stakes when it comes to staying in contact...I agree with DoubleM. We don't know you or her anymore intimately than what you've stated here...My advice is as mentioned as well. The only thing I ... (read in full...)
Could this mean she still has feelings for me?
Q. Me and my ex broke up back in August. However we remained friends. About 2 months later I brought up the idea of hangin out 'just as friends' and she said we could. Well one morning she texts me and says that she didn't want to hang out. Well one ...
A. 12 November 2009: It's hard to interpret something like a Facebook friend request. You don't know what her intention was, and guessing isn't helping.
I'm not sure exactly what you want out of the situation between you and her. Do you know what you want? In my op... (read in full...)
How can I maintain a healthy relationship?
Q. So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...
A. 12 November 2009: The issue is trust. You can't really force her to trust you, or speed things up in that regard. If you keep being the person that you say you've grown into, that's all anyone can expect. The more you respect her free-will in this situation, the ... (read in full...)
I hate that he has this power over me!
Q. This was a friend of mine for a while, he knew I liked him and ran hot and cold. Playing me. I was quite drunk when I saw him last week, and he made a move on me. I was so happy. But then after making out until it was late I just wanted to go to ...
A. 11 November 2009: It's an addiction like any other. Be healthy and quit this relationship cold-turkey! Imagine the perfect relationship and ask yourself how is it different from the one that you're in? You know you deserve someone better, so be healthy and quit ... (read in full...)
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