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writes:Hi, I'm Luque , and I'm 23 years old. I'm feeling really lonely and without any direction, I've been feeling like crying all this week and I really can't describe what I feel, it's like a deep deep sadness, I've been through a lot of stuff in the last 4 months, my parents found out that I'm gay, they don't understand me, my boyfriend dumped me in a really bad way, plus I have no friends since I moved here from France my country, all these things are in my head constantly and they affect emotionally. I try my best each day sometimes I feel good, other times I fall into depression again, it's like a rollercoaster. I have no real friends, my parents dont support me and the person I still love have let me down, I really need some advice because this situation is killing me inside, at this right moment I'm lost and I don't know where to go, I can't seem to move on, my wounds are really deep and the healing process is being tough...Please help me with your advices. I really need them.Thanks, I'd be forever grateful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): :( im sorry.
get ur rage out with exercise? or maybe art or something ur gd at. Speak to ur parents, who DO love u really.
Get over the ex whos a dick...ul find better.
And friends may come along with the activity u take ur rage out on.
Real friends tho, r so hard to make n find :( ino, im having my own problem with that.
good luck, chin up
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reader, grubbyduckling  +, writes (14 November 2009):
Being rejected by the people that you love and would expect to support you the most, your parents, can be incredibly difficult. One thing I hope you learn about yourself in this situation, is that you are the most powerful and strong person that you will ever come to know in your life.Sometimes life's lessons can be hard, but it's my belief that people aren't given more that they can handle in life. Keep following your heart, keep seeking love, keep doing your thing! One thing that comes to mind is a Buddhist quote, as stated by the Dalai Lama: "Depression, like happiness, is only temporary." If the storm is too much, hold on and hope for better waters. Things WILL get better for you. You can do this, you can do this, you can do this. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): I can identify with ya, I know it seems hopeless, but don't lose faith. There is no quick fix and I too am learning that, you just have to realize it will get better. It might be today it might be tomorrow, no one can say. I know it's really hard when your loved ones don't seem to support you either but in the situation with you parents they probably just need time to come to terms with you being gay. I don't think they have stopped loving you and as for your boyfriend, if he left you in a time when you were already going through something hard he doesn't really sound like boyfriend material or someone you would want to be with anyway! Stay strong it will get better!
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