I invited a married woman out on a date, now she completely ignores me
Q. Hello there. I'm afraid I'm one of those rotters who has children, is not married and asked another married woman at work out on a date via e-mail (having sought permission first). I thought I was getting signs of encouragement. Oh dear - I appear ...
A. 3 March 2010: Sigh, oh dear. Although not usually one to judge, I'm afraid I don't think I like you very much. Let me apologise if what I write comes across as a bit harsh - but I think sometimes it's good to hear somebody else's opinion of oneself, and never one ... (read in full...)
I'm oblivious to the study of law, yet I want in
Q. Hi, I wanna go into Law in the future. I was wondering if anyone knew what I would do if I had to defend someone who was guilty of domestic violence. Would I have to defend him if people knew he was guilty? Is it bad? Thanks...
A. 13 May 2009: There is nothing wrong with defending a guilty person. You are trying to show one possible side of the story, the prosecutor tells the other, its then up to the judge to weigh up the evidence and make a decision. You are not be certain of anybodies ... (read in full...)
Am I just being selfish?
Q. Hello, Firstly I figured it might be worth writing that I wrote this other question a week or so ago so that I do not have to repeat myself; "http://www.dearcupid.org/ques...
A. 12 May 2009: You're not wrong satindesire! Although I do not know why you cannot see my previous question with the link provided, it works just fine for me!
I just wondered if this was overstepping the mark or not. I'm past trying to impress her, or so I tho... (read in full...)
Broken-hearted 15 year old daughter who lost her virginity to a guy she "loved"
Q. I am the mother of a 15 year old daughter (soon to be 16). Her boyfriend broke up with her suddenly after going out for 6 months. He claimed he "loved her" even up until the night before her broke up with her. His reason for ending the ...
A. 12 May 2009: You can point out a road for someone to take but you can't expect them to take it. I think you are already doing the best for your daughter, educating her about sex and pointing her in a direction that you would like her to follow. Apart from ... (read in full...)
Getting over a girl I can never have
Q. Hi, Sorry for the essay but it must be said. K i have really strong feelings for this girl at work, id say she's pretty much the most the amazing girl ive ever met, id probably say that even if i didnt love her. Anyways we see each other about...
A. 12 May 2009: Hi,
I am a 19 year old mate too and have been through a situation very similar to yours in the past. I will do my best to help!
Let's look over your options. There is nothing wrong in wanting to change your appearance physically, it c... (read in full...)
How do you cope if they don't return your love?
Q. i am deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. All i want is him. He will make my life complete. He is the only person i have ever loved. i dont know what to do: im feeling sad depressed lonely and desperate. I don't k...
A. 8 May 2009: I pasted this answer of mine from another question. Hope you don't mind! I presumed you are good friends with him. You sound exactly like me and I can understand the heart-wrenching pain you are going through. As far as I see it you have a coupl... (read in full...)
One man, 2 girl best friends...
Q. Right I have a girlfriend called Abbie but there's a big problem. Her best friend Sophie I think likes me because she is showing signs that she likes me. Also Sophie is the girlfriend of one of my best friends! I tried a classic trick the good ...
A. 7 May 2009: I don't quite know what you expect anyone to tell you! You know the options and have said the consequences yourself. If you keep Abby, you may be less happy than if you are with Sophie, but Sophie may not want you, leaving you even less happy than ... (read in full...)
I know I've found my one true love but she doesn't feel the same way about me!
Q. I met this girl 2 years ago since the start of 1st year university and I have been in love with her since the moment I met her. I started dropping hints that I liked her but she never seemed to like me as more than a friend. Our friendship grew ...
A. 6 May 2009: You sound exactly like me and I can understand the heart-wrenching pain you are going through. As far as I see it you have a couple of options. You can either stop with your friendship and tell her you need some space until you really get over her. ... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 6 May 2009: Wow! Well done Andrew! This site has helped so many people! ... (read in full...)
Is flirting one step away from cheating???
Q. I went on my boyfriends computer and i was going to check my Myspace. But he was already logged on and it said he had 9 Messeges. I was curious so i clicked. (I didnt find 9 new messeges) But i did find a conversation he was having with some girl T...
A. 2 May 2009: Flirting is one step away from cheating. Depends if he takes that next step or not. That, nobody can tell you.... (read in full...)
What can I do. Any mantras I can repeat or something. Maybe garlic and a holy cross?
Q. Things didn't work out after I dated a girl in my class. She says she's crazy about me but chose to go out with another dude. As if she expected me to believe that messed up logic. Forget friendship, I'm not wasting my time siting on her back ...
A. 30 April 2009: It is not that easy to ditch an infatuation. For what its worth just do your best to avoid her at all costs. Make no attempts to contact her and you might just be rid of her invading your head if you leave it long enough. You have to remember... (read in full...)
The way I look is holding me back in life!
Q. Hi I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've wanted one since I was 11, but its never happened for me. I've read through the other 'never had a boyfriend' questions and read the advice... I have plenty of male friends (probably more than...
A. 23 April 2009: By far the most appealing and attractive trait a female can have in my eyes is confidence. ... (read in full...)
Digging for treasure with a blindfold on
Q. Ok , Im new to this , and I do feel ... very odd asking people I've no idea who are for advice on these ... very personal issuse . But Gotta swing the bat before that blood ball will fly don't I ?... Here we go . So , I am ... odd shall we say . A...
A. 23 April 2009: You need to make sure you are happy when you are alone and in your own company, as well as when you are with her. Depending on her for all your happiness will not help either of you. Try to be more independent and see where you end up!
Oh an... (read in full...)
I'm depressed about the end of the world in 2012, and my boyfriend thinks it's his fault
Q. Hi, I really need help with my problem.. My boyfriend told me about 5 months ago about the Nibiru/12/21/2012 end of the world theory where the whole world will be made over again. He told me about it without the intention of scaring me ...
A. 23 April 2009: The end of the world has been predicted thousands of times. Unsurprisingly it hasn't happened yet. Try and think this through logically.
The universe is roughly 12,000,000,000 years old. Why would it now suddenly end because of some dating s... (read in full...)
My best friend is about to start dating the love of my life!
Q. hey everyone, i need some help! i really, really like this girl, i have for about a year and never been able to tell her but ive dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was at a party which she rea...
A. 23 April 2009: I have been in this kind of situation before and so I think I can offer you some insight into your situation.
First and foremost please remember, whatever happens, it is not the end of the world. There is no such thing as THE love OF your lif... (read in full...)
Secret gay friends in school
Q. I'm 16 and I've been in a relationship with another boy for a year now, he is nearly 13. We keep it secret (well that's obvious!), not least of all because we are at the same school but in different years. We meet outside of school and spend time ...
A. 22 April 2009: Gay or not you are still having a sexual relationship with a 12 year old! This is illegal in the UK as you are having sex with a minor. Sexual Offences Act 2003 (English Law - does not apply to Scotland) states that it is illegal to have any sexual ... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels about this guy...
Q. There is a guy that I have fallen head over heals for since high school, but I never had the courage to tell him how I feel about him. I kept in touch with him after we both graduated, I have sent him numerous Brithday and christmas gifts. It's been ...
A. 20 April 2009: I disagree with Vixey. If he was interested he would have said something by now. Pestering him isn't going to help either of you!... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels about this guy...
Q. There is a guy that I have fallen head over heals for since high school, but I never had the courage to tell him how I feel about him. I kept in touch with him after we both graduated, I have sent him numerous Brithday and christmas gifts. It's been ...
A. 20 April 2009: Ignore him and totally forget about him. He probably realises you like him and doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Your best bet is to just move on and try to find somebody else to be happy with!
Good luck! ... (read in full...)
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