My man doesn't want to bring up my children. Does he not love me enough?
Q. If your man says that he doesn't want to bring up your children (and there not his) does that mean he doesn't love you enough?...Or would most men run a mile?...
A. 19 September 2006: yeah, it would be hard to raise kids that are not your own, but your kids are who you are. you come with your kids, no matter what. they'll be with you until theyre old enough to move out. so for a man to come into your life and tell you he doesnt ... (read in full...)
I've never met the boy I am going out with on chat, what would be cheating?
Q. dear evyone i have a problem, this may seem stupid but i have kinda ben going out wiv this lad i mt online in a chat room we have never met though so im nt sure if it wud b cheating if i went out wiv this lad thts in my class at schhol? plz help i ...
A. 17 September 2006: since you're "going out" with this guy you chat with, accepting a date from the other guy in your class would be considered cheating. about the "picking" between the two, you need to consider a bunch of things... how well do you know either of them? ... (read in full...)
He doesnt even know I exist, but friends say he would be perfect, how do I approach him ?
Q. There is this person my friends have told me about, and they say I'd be perfect with him. Thing is, I know more about him then he knows about me at all... In other words he doesn't even know I exist. I really would like to get to know him better, ...
A. 17 September 2006: if you think he's an interesting person, i say go for it. find out what things he's interested in and maybe find a way to get involved. i mean, just put yourself in his environment and you're bound to get to know him better. you can't get to know ... (read in full...)
My Mum died and I miss her so badly. Any advice in helping me get through this?
Q. Hey guys! I know this isnt relevent to this site but i lost my mum in march the 14th this year and im finding it very hard to move on. Ive resorted to booze to ease the pain. I dont want to do this but i cant see any other other way and my life ...
A. 17 September 2006: hello there, i'm so sorry that this had to happen to you. ive never experienced anything like that before, so i doubt i'll be of much help but i just wanted to say that if the same thing happened to me with one of my parents i'd react the same way ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends! I've lost a guy I really loved because of it. Please help
Q. i cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends. I done it once and it caused so much hurt i vowed never to do it again but its like i just cant say no! please help me. i've already lost the lad i love and so i really need help...
A. 17 September 2006: so you say you lose all your bfs because of the actions you take? usually people ask about problems with their bf's actions. this is your problem. if you want to keep a serious and committed relationship, you're gonna have to have a serious and ... (read in full...)
My bf is a homebody-I love excitement and going places. I am bored..so what can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. While I am 22 and he is 24, I feel like as a couple we are 80 yrs old! Just to paint a picture of our current situation...We both recently graduated college and he got a job and now lives 2hrs away ...
A. 16 September 2006: sounds like you two have a complete different set of values. you did the right thing by confronting him about this and how you want a little more variety, and he seems to be stubborn and set in his ways. since your eyes have been wandering, i think ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of losing him...how do I get over this fear?
Q. I'm really in love with this guy who I think really loves me, too. We've been together almost two years now - sort of off/on for a while in the middle, but we're working things out now, and I think we're a good match. The problem is that I'...
A. 16 September 2006: i think what you have to do is you gotta sit him down and tell him how you feel when he does these things. dont make it like you're lecturing him, just let him know how not calling affects you. i know you're scared to do this, cuz he might take it ... (read in full...)
Had a long distance relationship for many years, it ended, then he got back in touch asked to get back just so he could have sex!!
Q. I was in a long-distance realtionship for many years. I fell madly in love with this guy, but sadly it was an on/off affair, due to his lack of commitment,distance etc. He did tell me he loved me, but we split earlier in the year because I found him ...
A. 16 September 2006: hey there. this guy seems like a real ass and its too bad that you fell for him. don't worry, theres gonna be a way better man out there for you. this guy doesnt respect you or your values one bit, and you need to forget about him. i was cheated on ... (read in full...)
Worried to date him because our mums are best friends!!
Q. well, i kinda like this guy but his mum and my mum have been best friends for 30 years. I'm worried that if i ask him out our parents wont approve and if we were ever to split up our parents would fall out.. i really like him and we have been...
A. 16 September 2006: hey don't worry about the parent thing. you guys are just kids and your parents arent gonna let something like their kids going out come between their 30 year relationship. with them knowing eachother that long, they'll probably get a laugh of it ... (read in full...)
How can I earn my mums trust, im 14 and not allowed out past 8pm!
Q. I'm 14 and my parents won't let me stay out past 8 o'clock, all my friends are allowed out until 10 and i feel really stupid having to go home so early like a baby and they are all meeting new people and i feel like i have no friends out of school ...
A. 16 September 2006: have you done anything in the past to make your parents lose trust? or has it always been this way?
if you did something that lost their trust, well then the way they're treating you is all that can be expected, and you're gonna have to take your... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf...that he has real bad body odor?
Q. I'm in love with a guy who has bad b.o. and I don't know how to tell him. He smokes alot of pot so I think he doesn't remember to put deorderant on. Do you think I should bring it up to him? If so how? ...
A. 13 September 2006: i say, just randomly get him a can of axe body spray and just say that your brother or someone uses it and that you think it smells amazing and that you think he should use it. just make it casual and dont make a big deal out of it... (read in full...)
Seperated and she is partying and its painful to think what she is doing...
Q. My wife and I have been seperated (not legally) for about three months. The problems that caused this are long standing issues or responsibility and emotional distance. I am currently in counseling but she has not started yet. We have not made a ...
A. 13 September 2006: hey there, I think you should look at it from the perspective that you're lucky that you know there might be a chance she's cheating. my bf cheated on me and i had no idea until he the minute he told me, which was 2 weeks after it had happened... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my boyfriend - but he is 21 and I'm only 14!
Q. ive bin with my boyfrien 4 seven months im 14 and hes 21 we have decided to have sex and got contraception and such like but im really nervous because i dnt no wat mt body should look like plz can you help me ? ...
A. 12 September 2006: ok. bottom line, DON'T HAVE SEX. you're not ready. if you're worried that he's gonna judge you on what your body looks like, you two are not ready to have sex. im not discouraging you from having sex cuz u might get pregnant at 14 (which would suck) ... (read in full...)
I ended it because the sex was boring but I still miss him!
Q. I finished with my lover because i was bored with the sex. It lasted 2 mins with him not doing any foreplay, even though i told him. His answer was that he found that part of sex not very interesting and prefered the intercourse instead. I did tell ...
A. 12 September 2006: of course you miss him. if you didn't you would have been in it only for the sex and apparently you werent. im sure that when you considered dumping him, you came to the conclusion that the way he treats you outside of the sack doesnt overcome his ... (read in full...)
My crush doesn't flirt with me anymore!
Q. Dear Cupid, Lately, it seems like my crush is flirting with everyone but me. He used to flirt with me, like, all the time when I was in seventh grade and he was in eighth (I've posted about him at least a million times...lol), but now, he never do...
A. 12 September 2006: hello. either this is a ploy to make you jealous, or he actually has lost interest. if he is trying to make you jealous (they do this so that perhaps you will give them even more attention, or so that you will be the one to take the first step by ... (read in full...)
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