Should I or shouldn't I go out on a date with an old friend? My boyfriend and I are having big problems.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. We lived together for 2 of these years, and moved out a couple of months ago, because I wanted to further my education and I couldn't afford living on my own and school. Since then, th...
A. 21 July 2010: I agree I think I should end it with my boyfriend beforehand, but I also am not the type of girl who would hook up with someone after 1 night, I like both of these answers and i'll definately think about them each. Thanks for your help ;)... (read in full...)
How can I tell that he is cheating?
Q. I have a feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating on me. We live together, and he goes out for "guys night" every Saturday and Sunday night. One of my boyfriend's friends has a girlfriend who does my hair. The other day she asked me why...
A. 6 September 2009: thanks for your advice!... (read in full...)
How can I tell that he is cheating?
Q. I have a feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating on me. We live together, and he goes out for "guys night" every Saturday and Sunday night. One of my boyfriend's friends has a girlfriend who does my hair. The other day she asked me why...
A. 5 September 2009: He gets really angry when I try to talk to him about it. I have "trust issues", and get kind of upset when he leaves, so he accuses me of not letting him hang out with his friends.
Which in turn, puts a guilt trip on me. He makes me feel like i'm... (read in full...)
Is there any thing I can say to him to see if he still likes me?
Q. i am in LOVE with this boy that went to my bible camp and he likes me too. we went out but we thought we were too young so we broke up. we live about 20 away from each other but i talk to him on IM. is there any trick of words i can use to tell if ...
A. 30 August 2009: if you're on IM it will be much easier to be straight forward without having to be face-to-face. You have the ability to log off :) There aren't any magical words integrated into his "hey how are you" on IM that will tell you that he likes you. You... (read in full...)
He won't see his daughter when shes menstruates!
Q. Hi there, I have been divorced for some years now and since my daughter started her period, her Dad has refused to see her the weekends she menstruates. I was wondering if any Father's or other Mother's have had the same experience so so...
A. 29 August 2009: I think a better way to assist him would be to buy him a book about parenting adolencents who are going through puberty. Do you think that he would read something like that?... (read in full...)
Side effects of the morning after pill?
Q. I've just taken the morning after pill prescribed by my doctor, but didn't think to ask what exactly is going to happen to by body, and I can't find it any where on the internet. I was just wondering if any one else who has taken it can tell me, ...
A. 23 August 2009: It doesn't change your period at all but it made me a little bit edgy. I just got tired and grumpy the day that I took it. Relax, and just kick back. The side effects are very miniscule. :)... (read in full...)
He's 18 I'm 14, can he go to jail?
Q. I am currently talking to a 18year old and i am 14 and i would like to know if He could go to Jail??...
A. 22 August 2009: Don't you ever watch "How to Catch a Predator" with Chris Hansen on Dateline!!?? :)... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 22 August 2009: Teachers are trained to tell their superiors (the principal, superintendent, etc..) if they are told that any of their students have "crushes" or are in love with them. If it is not noted, then there can be serious reprocussions for him. If you love ... (read in full...)
Indecent proposal--should I continue the affair?
Q. Ok, here I go. A bit long, but I want you to get the whole picture. I am a successful business woman married to a wonderful man and have 3 beautiful boys. If you "knew" me you could never tell I have a deep dark secret. I have had an affair wi...
A. 15 August 2009: Pebbles is completely right. It sounds to me like you are more like the 15-19 age range, rather than 30 years old with children! I hope that you go to counseling, on account for your husband and your children. What made you think that you could g... (read in full...)
How do I win back the heart of my ex?
Q. Hello, I was wondering if you could help me with some advice. I would appreciate it so much! I am in the process of getting my ex back. We spent a few months apart after he broke up with me. I dated other people, only to discover all oth...
A. 9 August 2009: First thing's first. "Tactics" don't work with men. They are very simple creatures to be honest. They like a woman to be independent, confident, and caring. Dependency is a huge turnoff.
I would say continue dating around, but let your guard down... (read in full...)
My Girlfriend of almost 2 years has split with me. She says if it's meant to be, we'll be together some day. Is there still hope?
Q. My girlfriend of almost 2 years just broke up with me. She said that she loved me more like a brother than a boyfriend. She keeps saying that anything can happen and if we're meant to be together we'll be together. But she doesn't want to try to fix ...
A. 9 August 2009: It sounds to me like she has feelings for you, but realizes how young you two are, and doesn't know exactly WHAT she wants out of life yet. She tells you that if it's meant to be, then you will be together in the future. So basically, she's making ... (read in full...)
Am I being dramatic or am I right?
Q. me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half and lived together for a year,in the past week we have pretty much split up because i went to my parents house for a few drinks he was invited but decided he didnt want to come,just as i was ...
A. 3 August 2009: Hell no you are not being dramatic.(Unless of course, you just can't get past this.)
You guys live together and are engaged and he didn't want to go out with you to your parents. So instead he goes out with his friends? Until 7am? No.
These... (read in full...)
He won't see his daughter when shes menstruates!
Q. Hi there, I have been divorced for some years now and since my daughter started her period, her Dad has refused to see her the weekends she menstruates. I was wondering if any Father's or other Mother's have had the same experience so so...
A. 3 August 2009: I had to se my Dad every other weekend and the only reason why he wouldn't want me over to his house while it was that time of the month, would be because he hates to see me in pain, and I unfortunately had really bad cramps. But other than that, he ... (read in full...)
We do 'stuff' and I get an erection. How do I prevent it?
Q. Hi everyone, so ive been dating this girl for a little while now and have decided to not have sex or anything until we're both 16 in october. Anyway, the question is about other stuff....basically we make out, cuddle and stuff and most of the time...
A. 3 August 2009: This is what happens to every boy/man in the entire world! Some men have a problem getting it up, you should be happy that all it takes is a little making out. I'm not sure why you would be embarrassed. I'm sure that your partner isn't turned off at ... (read in full...)
Help! My relationship seems to be going downhill...
Q. Hey - I am a 45 year old male. I met this fabulous woman who is just a few years younger online. When we met both she and I were going through a bad patch in our respective relationships with other partners. Like birds of a feather flock together we ...
A. 2 August 2009: I think that you should definately get over this woman. Sometimes the mystery of an online relationship can be really attractive to a person. For one, you both should have broken up with your partners before talking to eachother, but that's here nor ... (read in full...)
I have jealousy issues, insecurity, paranoia and need a robot lover
Q. Dear Cupid, I seriously need some help, before I go completely insane. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and to start with, everything was fantastic. However, I have started to become severely jealous. If he befriends a girl, I have to ...
A. 2 August 2009: I have the same feeling of jealousy with my boyfriend. I need his attention constantly even when he is having a "guys night", and I am skeptical of what is he doing when he is out without me. Its' hard for me to trust him. He has never done anything ... (read in full...)
My problem is that I find myself being jealous over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend who is dead, I also find myself reading his e-mails, and getting angry over messages to any woman, how do I get over these feelings?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for...exactly 17 months. We live together, are in a "commited" relationship, and get along really well. A year ago, his ex-girlfriend passed away in a tragic accident, and the year before that his father ...
A. 2 August 2009: Just an update from almost a year later...I suppose time heals all wounds, and my boyfriend is finally over it. I can just feel it. He talks about her less and less, doesn't have old cd's of hers lying around, etc...I feel so much better. It's weird ... (read in full...)
Before we marry he wants me to sign a prenuptial contract, my heart says yes but my pride says no!
Q. Im in my early twenties, my partner is in his thirties. basically we are getting married next year but before we do he wants me to sign a pre nup, i am quite offended by this as now i believe he doesnt trust me. his not a millionaire but has his own ...
A. 12 September 2008: I totally understand what you're saying. But love isn't about pride, and marriage is about compromise. SO, compromise. Give him the assurity that will make him happy, but make sure that what you need gets taken care of as well.... (read in full...)
My problem is that I find myself being jealous over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend who is dead, I also find myself reading his e-mails, and getting angry over messages to any woman, how do I get over these feelings?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for...exactly 17 months. We live together, are in a "commited" relationship, and get along really well. A year ago, his ex-girlfriend passed away in a tragic accident, and the year before that his father ...
A. 12 September 2008: Talking about it doesn't help, you're right. I don't think that we would want a break, and I guess it gets easier knowing that he loves me and proves it every single day through his kindness and actions.
It's just hard to know that he's hear... (read in full...)
He's on the internet looking for tranny's...what should I do?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have a daughter and he is now in the military. Before he joined the military we were having some issues. I found emails verifying that he had traveled to San Francisco to do porn. He was on dating ...
A. 11 September 2008: Despite the fact that he is looking for men, women, AND tranny's,...you have proof that he has cheated on you, and that's enough to lose the guy. It seems he's got somethin goin on upstairs and may need help. You don't want this to rub off on your ... (read in full...)
Is it me or is it his verbal abuse?
Q. I'm 29 my boyfriend of three yrs.is 37. He has raised my three yr. old son since the age of five months. I love him very much and find it difficult to leave him though at times think I should. He is verbally abusive to me, most of the time in ...
A. 11 September 2008: I don't want to offend you, but how can this man be a great father when he calls you a "bitch" or a "hoe" in public? Or drinks from sun up to sun down, and has a problem with masturbation?
This guy has no respect for you and it definately shows in h... (read in full...)
Guy blew me off so I sent him an apology! He said he'd get back to me..what does this mean?
Q. Well this guy that i dated kind of blew me off, so I sent him this really cool apology letter. and I text him and ask did he get it and he said yes, he's thinking he will get back to me. What does that mean?...
A. 11 September 2008: So at first he blew you off, then you apologized, then you send him a text to see if you recieved your apology? What are you apologizing for?
This guy sounds like he's distracted by something else completely. Lose the dude, and get someone who will... (read in full...)
My problem is that I find myself being jealous over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend who is dead, I also find myself reading his e-mails, and getting angry over messages to any woman, how do I get over these feelings?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for...exactly 17 months. We live together, are in a "commited" relationship, and get along really well. A year ago, his ex-girlfriend passed away in a tragic accident, and the year before that his father ...
A. 11 September 2008: thanks for yoru advice...i did talk about it to him, but im not sure that he understands what i'm saying. He thinks im just jealous PERIOD, and i'm not sure how to explain to him how I just want to move on already from this situation, not prolong it ... (read in full...)
What is so sexy or unique about anal sex? The idea disgusts me! Should I try it?
Q. Hi uncles and aunts. Lets cut to the chase... I wanna know what is so sexy or unique about anal sex! More than just once, my bf has been moving to my back site before i could lead him to the correct one. Lol! Sometimes i think he'd be doing that ...
A. 11 September 2008: My boyfriend wants me to try it also. I'm not comfortable with doing it, so I offered to try other new things as a compromise. Don't do something you don't want to. If he loves you, he'll understand even if he continues to ask. just say no man it's ... (read in full...)
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