I'm worried we're not having sex often enough and that he's gone off me!
Q. is my boyfriend of 9 months going off me? He hardly ever initiates sex anymore. He's never been a highly sexed person but this past month it's dwindled down to 1-2 times per week. He has brought it up and says it worries him that we're not havin...
A. 14 October 2010: Hi there. Really don't worry about the fact you're not having as much sex as you think you should be. Although sex is important in a relationship so is trust and companionship. In all relationships sex differs and we all put too much emphasis on ... (read in full...)
I think I might be gay... do I tell him?
Q. You probably get questions like this all the time, but I really need to get this off my chest. I want to apologize for how long this question is and I want to say thanks for reading it. I need some advice here and I appreciate any responses I get. T...
A. 13 October 2010: Hey honey, Firstly Im glad you have the courage to ask for advice as I can totally see you have been bottling this up inside of you for a while. Please dont apologise for rambling either - thats what we're here for. From what you have s... (read in full...)
We say some rally nasty things to each other.
Q. Hi all, just thought id come on here to vent a few of my frustrations and get some feed back as i dont really have anyone to turn to for this sort of thing. My girlfriend and i are in a pretty intense relationship, weve been together almost ...
A. 27 January 2010: Hey there no problem with the advice that's what I'm here for. Vent away to me ad much as you like. I'm stubborn too and I very rarely want to back down. Sometimes though I just swallow my pride and do it. One of you needs to take the bull by the ... (read in full...)
We say some rally nasty things to each other.
Q. Hi all, just thought id come on here to vent a few of my frustrations and get some feed back as i dont really have anyone to turn to for this sort of thing. My girlfriend and i are in a pretty intense relationship, weve been together almost ...
A. 27 January 2010: Hey. Firstly its great you recognise there is a problem and secondly you're getting some advice and help. You say you both say nasty things to each other?. Well its not all your fault then. Are you feeling anxious or worried about something ... (read in full...)
I have trouble talking and relating to people...any advice?
Q. hey all i have this prob that i cant talk to ppl. i mean its not a problem when we are more than 2 ppl. but i always get stuck when theres only one person near me. i was always like this, and always was scared to be in a 1on1 situation. thats...
A. 20 January 2010: You are not boring by any means you are just shy and have no confidence in social situations. If you are conscious of feeling nervous and that you can't make conversation then our bodies and mind just shut off and we end up not being able to ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to end things with my wife so I can be with my girlfriend!
Q. 11 years ago I went out with a girl, this lasted for 3 years then we broke up. We broke up because we were too young and argued over petty things. Since then I have married ( 3 years ago )and had a young child who is now 7 months. 14 months ago my ...
A. 3 January 2010: Im sorry to hear you're going through a troubled time. Sounds like an awful situation to be in especially this time of year. I'm not here to preach and tell you that you are wrong for doing what you're doing. I genuinely believe that you are a ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me or is ignoring me out of the blue, I don't understand why! HELP
Q. Ok, well we're friends and i like him, but we're not really boyfriend and girlfriend. we texted 3 weeks straight every nightand normally talked during the day. he was very flirty with me and I with him. i had a pretty good idea he liked me. so ...
A. 3 January 2010: Boys are funny creatures. He is probably just playing it cool. You know what they are like - girls are much more thoughtful. Have you tried texting him again? Just along the lines of how's things did you have a good christmas etc. If you don't get ... (read in full...)
Fallen for a gay guy?
Q. im so confused. ive fallen for a really nice guy the only problem is that hes gay what the hell do i do? ...
A. 6 December 2009: Well I can empathise with you on this one. My best friend is gay and I fell for him initially. Gay guys are so kind caring, considerate and very good looking. We sometimes mistake that feeling of closeness as something more. You just have to tell ... (read in full...)
Mole on face pretty or ugly?
Q. well, i have a mole on my top left forehead and i feel so insecure about it. but my mum tells me it makes me look 'pretty' and il never be allowed to remove it. Are moles ugly? please help!...
A. 5 December 2009: Moles are not ugly at all they are in fact also known as 'Beauty Spots'. Its nice to have something distinct about you. Don't ever think of yourself as ugly. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. If you really don't like the mole and it is making ... (read in full...)
Busy, or not interested?
Q. I can't tell if this guy is interested or not? He says he's busy (he's a dr). I met this guy through friends and we really hit it off when he joined a group of us on a night out. As soon as I got home that night my friends were all calling tell...
A. 5 December 2009: Hmm I think its completely obvious that he likes you. Maybe he is just not wanting to come across too eager. Us girls like someone who plays it cool yet when we don't hear we become frustrated. Maybe he doesn't know how to be and therefore thinks ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!
Q. Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...
A. 17 November 2009: Hmm this is a very difficult situation for you. Unfotunately boys are very immature and once they get a taste for something they tend to want more and more and like to try different flavours. They do most of the time think with their bits rather ... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex boyfriend back?
Q. Hey, Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and I want him back. We broke up over a week ago and are on speaking terms. I see him at school every day and today he told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was the one doing most of ...
A. 11 November 2009: Firstly I'm sure you didnt mean to let him do all the work in the relationship. Its very difficult when you are young to know how to be in a relationship - (without sounding patronising to you). If you really like this boy then why don't you call ... (read in full...)
I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!
Q. This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...
A. 11 November 2009: Ok firstly I'm not going to preach to you about the rights and wrongs of being attracted to someone you shouldn't and how its wrong to feel the way you do because its not. You have feelings like everyone else has feelings and emotions cannot just ... (read in full...)
Why do guys say I'm not attractive?
Q. Hi SO what to do! I have been told in my ols school i am really pretty and was popular and had many bf but know if we play spin the bottle no guy wants to kiss me. Ok not true they do but WHY do guys say I am not attractive? When I used to get ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello. Boys are not god and they do not always say the right things. In fact a lot of the time boys say the opposite of what they actually mean. You are a young girl and I'm sure you are very pretty. Everyone is beautiful inside and out. You ... (read in full...)
Its over so why cant I let go?
Q. im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always ...
A. 15 October 2009: Feelings and emotions are a very powerful thing and when we break up from someone we love, we go through a grieving process. No matter how many times you have broken up and got back together the love is the hardest emotion to erase. Sometimes its ... (read in full...)
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