I miss my family and I don't know what to do. Can anyone help?
Q. Well it all started two years ago and it still hurts. i need advice on how to get over it or cope with it. I moved away from my family over two years ago and I left everything and once in a while I just miss them so bad. I just dont know what to do. ...
A. 31 August 2009: Get on the phone to them or write home, it isn't the same but it gives you some contact that is better than none?... (read in full...)
I don't trust my own judgement anymore.....should I leave him?
Q. Don't know what to do, I have been married for 17 yrs. 4 yrs ago my son nearly passed away with head injury he had lots of surgery has recovered thankfully.That same year my husband started a new job and started acting wierd not being a very goo...
A. 29 August 2009: The first thing you should do is be as calm as you can be and look at the facts. Your partner has cheated on you and his only answer is: Well you have to deal with it, there is a lot of callousness in that, as if he cannot comprehend that ... (read in full...)
I am irritated with my girlfriend because of her flaws, what should I do?
Q. I have a big problem. My girlfriend is lovely and everything but there are some things I don't like about her. I know this myght sound like bitching but most of the time she doesn't keep up her promise: she tries hard and everything but s...
A. 29 June 2009: Keep searching for perfection mate, you will never find it, nobody is perfect and to be fair it sounds as if she is trying her best with what your circumstances offer you both, maybe your life isn't great right now but I would say weigh up the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stares at other women... should I be worried?
Q. My fiance and I are preparing to get married next year. We live together and are very much in love. The thing that bothers me is that whenever we are driving places together... he stares so much at other women. He stares into cars, women walking ...
A. 19 May 2009: Men have habits that will never be tamed completely, that is the part of him that makes him a male, they all look at other women no matter the beauty of their girlfriend, they do it anyway. ... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 29 March 2009: From my life experiences so far, I would say no. Every male friend I ever had somewhere started to try it on for a little bit more. Perhaps that is just me, but that is what I have found, now I say No, I can't be bothered with such complications on ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over losing my first love...how can I move on??
Q. I went out with my ex for 1 year. We broke up 4 days after our anniversary. I am so heartbroken. He is so mean to me now. He says the most horrible things about me. I loved him so much and I don't understand why he is doing this to me. If he loved...
A. 26 March 2009: I was in your position at 16, almost exactly. I am 33 now, can I tell you something your feelings will wear off but it takes time. I was utterly destroyed at the time it consumed my thinking day in day out and when I heard him speaking about me to ... (read in full...)
I have all the qualities you would want in a friend and in an employee.So why am I having job problems?
Q. In the past 7 years I've had the career from HELL. I would love to know if there are any of you out there who have had similar experiences. At the moment, I feel ashamed of myself and that this has all been my own fault somehow. After finishin...
A. 5 September 2008: I think there was a clique with subtle social rules that maybe you weren't aware of, all employees won't be loyal if they sense they could get fired too, so they all work toward getting rid of you instead, it is horrible and not what people work ... (read in full...)
My partner is constantly controlling me, and wont give me enough support financially or otherwise! please help!
Q. my partner and i have been together for almost 4 years and have a beautiful son. but my partner has no respect for me and controls everything. after my son was born he would not give me any money it was 8 months until he started to give me $15 a ...
A. 8 August 2008: There are some really bad signs in your relations. He sounds jealous, controlling and stingy but yet he is not really providing for the care he needs you to be under. I don't like the sound of your relationship, I think he will start to turn ... (read in full...)
I'm married and I want to avoid an affair at work. Will avoiding this guy do the trick?
Q. A guy (I'll call him Al) at work and myself are strongly attracted to each other. I am married and when I first starting working there 2 years ago he interested to know if I was married because Al wanted to get together with me. We look at each ...
A. 10 July 2008: What do you think your husband would feel, you go to work he trusts you. You have history together, overall get over the sex drive ok your sex drive has kicked in the boredom in your marriage/workplace is leading you to an affair, go home have great ... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 4 July 2008: Do you ever wonder if maybe he has done this before. I mean if he was a novice to chatting up the staff, he probably wouldn't be so cool? He seems to me like maybe he has slept with other employees. I wonder if when he had gotten what he wanted, if ... (read in full...)
I am so unhappy that I drink alcohol and cheat on him..why can't I just leave him? Help.
Q. I am 22years old and have been in a relationship now for over 6years but have been unhappy for years. Ive tried dropping hints, didnt work. I told him, he promised that he would change and make me happy, which worked for a week, then he went back to ...
A. 26 June 2008: just leave him then. unless of course the reason you are staying is you are afraid of being alone? Maybe. Been there and done it, living alone is no different to living with somebody without the somebody there. You know how to pay a bill, you know ... (read in full...)
Everyone in the family hates me and I'm being bullied!
Q. My parents are arguing and fighting and now I am being bullied by my brother. He keeps bullying me and then my dad takes his side becoz he thinks he would live with him and I won't! My mother is an emotional sucker as well and she has no sympathy...
A. 20 June 2008: You don't need it love. And it is going nowhere, the best thing you can do hun is take control of your life, I wish I had done it when I was younger, I stayed in an abusive family for too long until it affected my mental health. You need to get a ... (read in full...)
In love with my half brother? We plan to disappear as I reach 18, and expect the general disagreeance - but would anyone understand?
Q. i just met my half brother 2 years ago. we've always had this connection, and a lot of unspoken sexual tension. we have been real close for a long time, and i would do a few [illegal] things with him and if it got to bad to calm me down he would ...
A. 2 May 2008: Go for your life, but check your rights legally. Is is against the law if you are only half brother and sister. You need to check and also if that is the case, you need to be fully aware of what can happen to your children, they can be born defected ... (read in full...)
I've tried my best with my family and boyfriend but my life doesn't seem to move forward. What more can I do?
Q. I really don't know where I've gone wrong in my life. I'm 24 years old and not one area of my life is working out the way I'd hoped. No matter how lacking my life is I maintain my bubbly personality and never let anyone see I'm down. I never s...
A. 26 April 2008: Doesn't sound like hatred, sounds like jealousy to me, probably because you are caring and nice and they aren't. You haven't done anything wrong, your sister and mother are being emotionally violent toward you. Cut ties for a while steer clear of ... (read in full...)
My confidence and self esteem are at an all time low.... Help!
Q. hi I live in california. I am very physically unattractive (I am very stockily built and my hair is not the conventional smooth sweeping locks, I also do not have a very nice complexion and my face is unfortunately put together. I do not belie...
A. 9 April 2008: You sound deppressed and you sound like you have low self esteem. Go the docters for deppression, look for a class that helps your self esteem and start treating you like your a princess. I am not collectively attractive, but I am gorgeous, if ... (read in full...)
In 2 month's my boyfriend will be released from being inside for 6 yrs. I need some advice please.
Q. Please help. My boyfriend has been in prison for almost 6 years now and he will be coming home in June 08, problem is that I have this male best friend that recently our relationship has changed and we now are seeing each other intimately. Now my b...
A. 9 April 2008: Who do you want to be with? choose, and let the other one down very gently.... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.
Q. We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years ...
A. 9 April 2008: I think your boyfriend needs psychiatric help and I think in the short term you need to go home he is trying to exploit you for money and sex love, and it seems things are getting worse not better, your parents sound worried about it, just leave it ... (read in full...)
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