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Hey my name is Dillyn I'm 17 right now but will be 18 in April. One thing u need to know about me is that I am a Christian. I'm not here to make people change their religion. I don't even want a religion I'm only interested in a personal relationship with Christ. I will tell anyone about how to do that, what it means, and my story to anyone who is willing to listen that's all I ask. I'm not going to try to change u but only the respect to listen. I'm hrere on this site to help people with whatever kind of wisdom I can provide.

Was what he did during oral sex wrong?

Q.   ok so my boyfriend always wants me to swallow after giving him oral sex. he says its sexy and it feels better for him. so i dont have a problem with doing this, but just last night, right when he was about to cum, he PUSHED my head down and held me ...

A.   14 October 2009: ok well he should be more then satisfied that your actually swallowing it. i could never ask a girl to do more then that. Now as far as him pulling ur head down it is kind of a turn on for the guy to be in control but from the sounds of what he did ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for her?

Q.   So, yeah, I'm in love with this girl (and I don't use that word lightly) and she loves me too. We've loved each other since like 10th grade and we're both Seniors now. For some reason we can never get together...I put in my best efforts and she ...

A.   8 May 2009: Well from the sounds of it I think that u should wait for her when u asked her to be ur gf I think that she really did want to be that but then the he thought of actually being ur gf sank in so she was afraid (which happens more then u might think) ... (read in full...)

What does "Friends with Benefits" mean?

Q.   Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean? thank you....

A.   28 April 2009: Ya that just means that u guys r friends but u fulfill eachotjers sexual need but just to let u know things usually don't work out that well if u choose that path especialy if it's with an ex but it's ur decision just think it through before doing ... (read in full...)

With an age difference of 31 years why would he be interested in me?

Q.   Is it possible for an older man 52 to love a younger woman 21. Why would a older gentleman be interested in having a family with someone this age instead of an older experienced woman who would have her priorities together like him. ...

A.   6 April 2009: well usually in these cases it's cuz he is more interested in u physically most guys would rather have a hot young girl then a woman who's hair is turning gray and getting wrinkley skin but idk the guy so he may like u for who u r but most of the ... (read in full...)

My problem is when I cum I squirt!!!

Q.   I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up onli...

A.   16 March 2009: Well I think most guys would like it just cuz we know that u had an orgasim & ur not faking it or anything now I personally have not met a girl that squirts but I would like to try it. But not all guys will probably like it so I say u should talk to ... (read in full...)

I love my best friend but he thinks I have feelings for our other friend!

Q.   i knoe you probably get a 1000 questions like this a day but i just need some advice... here goes.. well when i started college 3 years ago i started hangin around with these two lads ( i am a girl) so me and one of the lads became really cl...

A.   15 March 2009: Well from what I can understand I think that u should tell him that u like him. If he is as shy as u say he then doing that should help I used to be one of those guys. If a girl told me that she liked me and I had even a little bit of interest in ... (read in full...)

He wants me to dress up sexy in the bedroom, but I feel very uncomfortable with that! Should I try doing it anyway?

Q.   My partner is 10 years older than me (I am still a college student). I have been with him for 5 months and we are really happy together. However, when it comes to the bedroom, he really wants me to dress up in sexy underwear and stuff for him, but I ...

A.   2 March 2009: Well I think it's always fun to try new things so by doing it u may gain some confidence in urself but do not do anything u do not want to do cuz u should not be pressured into doing anything and ur bf should understand that or else that guy is not ... (read in full...)

Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?

Q.   I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I ...

A.   12 February 2009: Honestly from what it sounds like u r not doing anything wrong except choosing the wrong guy but that's what dating is all about trying to find ur one love but don't give up and don't fall for the cheap lies that most guys will give to get they want... (read in full...)

New to christianity..so is it wrong to masturbate to porn?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have a simple question to ask. I'm new to Christianity and was wondering if it is wrong to masturbate or to watch porn? I want to know because I do both of these regularly and it has been eating me up inside and I don't have ...

A.   11 February 2009: The whole porn thing is not good. Ur breaking a few commandments like coveting ur neighbors wife cuz the girls u r looking at is coveting something that does not belong to u ur also comitting adultry cuz ur having sex with her or having sexual ... (read in full...)

Does too much wetness in a girls vagina gross guys out when they finger you?

Q.   Does too much wetness in a girls vagina gross guys out when they finger you? I'm talkinga bout a 16 year old boy....

A.   10 February 2009: I don't I found it to be a good thing cuz I know I'm doing something right plus it turns me on more... (read in full...)

What was this wet spot on his pants?

Q.   While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just ...

A.   10 February 2009: Ya after a guy gets hard some pre cum comes out it's like a little bit of lubricant but alot usually doesn't come out it's also clearer actual cum is more milky so if it was really wet you made him cum but it was just kind of wet then it was pre cum ... (read in full...)

Anyone involved with a cop?

Q.   Have any of you ever dated/loved/married a police officer? I've met one recently and I sense that we're developing strong feelings for each other. I am hoping we might start dating but all my friends seem to be warning me not to get involved with a ...

A.   7 February 2009: I have no experiance with a cop at all but what u need to decide is if he is with all the trouble that comes with it. U will go through hard times no dought like having to worry if he is coming home that night (but it depends on where u live) but if ... (read in full...)

I live in a small town and I don't know if I can wait for "the guy" to have sex!

Q.   Hi, I am a 16 year old girl. I know i am ready for sex. I feel ready, and when the times comes i will be prepared. But, i live in a small town of 50 people and there all adults and i wont get out for a long time. So i just dont know if i am prepared ...

A.   6 February 2009: You should wait cuz this won't be special to you and loosing your virginity is a very special thing and when you find the guy he is not going to care what happens during the sex phase cuz he is going to love you at least he should and if he doesn't ... (read in full...)

Help!!!I am scared of making a fool of myself as I don't know what to do.

Q.   I asked this a few days ago but I would like some male advice as well. I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and it didn't bother me...

A.   6 February 2009: If I were you I would wait cuz you only loose that once and you don't want to do it on a crush waiting until marriage is a good idea cuz you have no worries about messing up then cuz he is going to love you no matter what happens... (read in full...)

I'm a 11 year old girl(almost 12) this year. I've been depressed for a year and half.

Q.   I'm a 11 year old girl(almost 12) this year. I've been depressed for a year and half. At school none of my friends talk to me anymore. I feel like i lost of all of them and i dont know how to get them back. I'm a very shy girl in school so that ...

A.   6 February 2009: I know how you feel I have been there but cutting is not a good thing at all cause it starts off small a cut here or there but soon it's not enough so you have to do more eventually it becomes life threatening so please keep away from the knife talk ... (read in full...)

Don't know how to prepare for my first time???!!!!

Q.   I am going to turn 15 in March ok and I have been dating this guy for quite a long time and I haven't done anything with him yet because I'm afraid that is all he wants from me is sex but he has shown me that he really cares for me and loves me and ...

A.   6 February 2009: I agree with favorsgirl sex is a big thing and youre only 15 if you really like this guy then wait until after youre married because that way you know he is not in it for sex as no guy is going to wait that long just to get into your pants and if h... (read in full...)

Should I be playing the game too?

Q.   So my ex and I broke up two months ago after a two year relationship and recently, I've started hanging out with a guy I dated for four months back in sophomore year of high school. I really like this guy, mainly because we seem to be more ...

A.   6 February 2009: LOL don't worry this is normal for when you find someone really special but make sure you take things slow with the whole coming to games and stuff it's fine that you go but ask him first if you can bring him food because otherwise he will feel ... (read in full...)

What's going on with my boyfriend?

Q.   Hmm, well basically, my boyfriend of just over a year has been acting funny lately. He's always on the computer, and closes MSN conversations when I go over to talk to him. Curious as to his odd behaviour, one day I decided to take a look at one of ...

A.   6 February 2009: Talk to him about it confront him and see what he says if he gives another bs reason don't buy and rethink ur relationship... (read in full...)

How can I get past the feelings I have for my best friend?

Q.   How can I get over my friend? I am falling in love with my best friend.. we have been friends for 4 years and we talk all the time. The thing is that I am starting to have feelings for him, but he doesn't feel the same way. I am just not his type.. ...

A.   6 February 2009: If u wan to respect ur guys friendship then I would go out and find urself someone that will be special to u that way u get someone u care about and u won't be jelous with anything ur friend is going through and u can be a true friend... (read in full...)

My boyfriend raped me. I don't know what to do. Please help.

Q.   im 19 years old. i don't know what to do.. my boyfriend and i have been together for a month.. hes in the army.... well anyways.. we were at a party a couple of nights ago.. and we all got really drunk and i told him before we got drunk that...

A.   6 February 2009: To be honest I think that you should leave him that shouldn't happen to anyone and I'm really sorry for that but the fact that he did that is wrong u had a value of not having sex with him yet but dishonored ur value and took it to an extreame low ... (read in full...)

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