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writes:im 19 years old.i don't know what to do..my boyfriend and i have been together for a month.. hes in the army....well anyways.. we were at a party a couple of nights ago.. and we all got really drunk and i told him before we got drunk that i didnt want to have sex with him that night.. and he was okay with that.i thought. well after eveything calmed down. i went into a room to lay down and he came in behind me and told me he needed to talk to me. i told him i didnt want to because i was tired. but he didnt like that.. so he got on top of me and held me down and took his penis out and told me that if i didnt suck his dick he would do alot worse to me.. i told him no but he forced it in my mouth.. and i tried pushing him off but it just made him more mad.. i told him no and i told him to stop but he didnt listen..he took my pants off and i tried to put them back on but he wouldnt let me. but he got up and i tried to leave and he wouldnt let me.. but i pushed him and he pushed me back and told me to never push him again.and he shook me. at the end of it i tried telling his friend but his friend didnt believe me and he confronted my him and he denyed it and called me crazyyi don't know what to do..im still with him because i love himand he told me he would never do it again..but i don't know what to believe..please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): Stay away from him if he ask you to come round SAY no
incase and break up with him you'll get a better bf
if he takes it seriorlsly Tell the police or someone who can help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): I wouldn't trust this guy with anything. The police should be informed of this. So should your parents and your friends, so you have a support network. If he's found guilty he may be kicked out of the army (which he deserves.) This is inexcuseable, especially for someone who is supposed to love you. He obviously doesn't. Go and find someone who does =]
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Get rid of him now! Yeah he is sorry this time and he will be the next time and the time after that too, dump him he doesnt love you, do you really want to be with someone who can do this to you, tell your parents and the police and do not go back to him, he said he could do alot worse to you believe his threats because he could.
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reader, Arod24 +, writes (6 February 2009):
I agree with both. ITS NOT LOVE!! BREAK UP WITH HIM ASAP.
THIS GUYS SOUNDS LIKE HES GONNA BE VERY ABUSIVE MAN AND WANTS EVERYTHING HIS WAY. NOT COOL. DO IT FOR YOUR OWN GOOD. TELL HIM ITS OVER BEFORE IT GETS WORSE.
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reader, Djmclucas113 +, writes (6 February 2009):
 To be honest I think that you should leave him that shouldn't happen to anyone and I'm really sorry for that but the fact that he did that is wrong u had a value of not having sex with him yet but dishonored ur value and took it to an extreame low plus he lied to people about doing that no girl should ever have to deal with that kind of person who is going to disrespect you like that so my advice is get away from him and find someone new
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): I agree. This is not love. Although the rape may be hard to prove; I would personally try to report it. Beyond that, get a civil protection order from a local court and then break up with him. If he comes near you, in violation of the order, call the police and have him arrested. You are young. And you may not understand, but you know were raped. This is very serious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): It is only going to get worse. He will start hitting you. You need to leave the relationship. There are plenty of men that will love you. Your young. And you need to go to the police, or tell your parents.
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