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I live in a small town and I don't know if I can wait for "the guy" to have sex!

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Question - (6 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am a 16 year old girl. I know i am ready for sex. I feel ready, and when the times comes i will be prepared. But, i live in a small town of 50 people and there all adults and i wont get out for a long time. So i just dont know if i am prepared to wait for "the guy" cause i dont know when he will show up. I am considering having sex with a guy who i have a physical attraction to but i dont want to date. He has had sex with girls before. I just dont wanna wait forever, and when i do meet that guy i will be afraid because what if sex messes with our relationship. WHAT DO I DO?????

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A male reader, Djmclucas113 United States +, writes (6 February 2009):

Djmclucas113 agony auntYou should wait cuz this won't be special to you and loosing your virginity is a very special thing and when you find the guy he is not going to care what happens during the sex phase cuz he is going to love you at least he should and if he doesn't then it's not him

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009):

Why will it be so long before you move out? And even if you still live in the small town doesn't mean you can't leave it to meet new people.

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