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writes:I asked this a few days ago but I would like some male advice as well.I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and it didn't bother me until I started my new job. A guy there wants a bit of fun and he is gorgeous (not sure what he see in me) and he doesn't see it as a big deal but as I said I am "sheltered" it is a bit of an issue for me, if I explain I am a virgin he might not really understand I mean I am 26 and I have never had the opportunity before. Most people at work think I am confident and probably don't know, I just want to go for it but I am scared of making a fool of myself as I don't know what to do. Any help, welcome.
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reader, nath08 +, writes (7 February 2009):
the best advice is go for it when you feel comfortable sure if hes a decent guy hes gunna understand as everyone was a virgin at one time so everyone knows how it feels and how some people like to wait for that special person or they just haven't yet had the oppertunity and are unsure how it will turn out but if you let him no of your inexperience he should comfort you in this and expect you not to be the best first time hope this helps and good luck
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reader, strawberries +, writes (6 February 2009):
It's not that uncommon to still be a virgin but you may find it difficult to talk about it with him.
It will be really difficult for you if the relationship is only a "bit of fun" what makes you first time easier is doing it with someone who you care about, and who cares about you. It's not about how well you perform, and any guy worth your time and attention would be happy being with you even if you have lived a sheltered life
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reader, Djmclucas113  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 If I were you I would wait cuz you only loose that once and you don't want to do it on a crush waiting until marriage is a good idea cuz you have no worries about messing up then cuz he is going to love you no matter what happens
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reader, unique-angel +, writes (6 February 2009):
take your time.
he wants "fun" you've kept your legs crossed for 26 year's, unless your absolutely sure that you want to loose it to a "crush"maybe who you might not be in a relationship then go for it.
I've lead a "sheletered life" and when i got some freedom or chatted to a guy those sweet word i took to heart when for him it was words.and the virgin part he might find very attractive.
i'm not saying every guy is like this, bad etc! and you should have fun, but take your time less chance of you breaking your heart or making that many regrets.
good luck.
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