I want sex, but my boyfriend doesn't
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a while, and he's told me that he has really bad sexual temptations; which is why i don't understand why he doesn't want to have sex with me. I'm not a virgin, so i can see why he wouldn't like that. But i alwa...
A. 22 April 2011: I wouldn't say that I have slutty behavior... I just like sex. And its not that I've slept with a lot of people, just one. He always says that's he's excited for when he ghas sex, so I guess it might be a religious thing. I guess I was just thinking ... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend always ask me to stop?
Q. when me and my girlfriend are fooling every time i can get her to the point where she wants to cry from pleasure. she tenses up very tightly and begs me to stop and makes me stop and i do. she says that she cant go any farther and when i ask why she ...
A. 12 July 2010: There are a few reasons why she could be doing this. My bet is that she may not have ever had an orgasm before, and your getting her almost there, and she gets that feeling like she's going to pee. I imagine that that feeling could be scary... (read in full...)
Would it be a bad idea to date my ex's best friend?
Q. So, recently this guy that i've liked for a while has started telling me that he really likes me and wants to date me. But when i see him at school, he just nods or says Hi and walks off. Then when i sit by him he never really says anything...
A. 18 February 2010: Thanks (: that makes me feel a lot better about the situation... (read in full...)
My friend and I both like the same boy. Do I tell him? How do I not hurt her?
Q. How to tell my admire that i love him? But i'm scare because my friend likes him too. I don't want to hurt her...
A. 5 June 2009: you need to just tell her. as a friend she should understand. me and my best friend get into this all the time and we haven't ever had any major problems :]
if he ends up liking one of you, the other one needs to remember that they can't make som... (read in full...)
Ugly hair!!!
Q. I'm 14 years old. I have been thinking of doing the anti curl thing in my hair not myself ofcourse but at a salon. my hair is curliesh wavyesh and very poofy. to school i usually scrunch it with gel and hairspray but i want straight hair badly! i ...
A. 30 May 2009: i have the same exact type of hair as you, so hopefully my answer will be somewhat helpful.
if your thinking about the brazilian straightening thing (permanent straightening) i would NOT** do it.
reason 1, you sit in a chair at the salon for... (read in full...)
Why is my friend being so ungrateful?
Q. Morning All, it was my friends birthday 2 days ago and i got her Lost Season 1-4 boxsets because she mentioned how she wanted them but couldnt afford them. When she opene it she looked dissapointed and when i asked what was wrong she said she t...
A. 29 May 2009: i have to agree with Klara.. part of the problem is you are being a little bit of a pushover. I would take the dvd's back and get her something cheap instead. Maybe she wont be so high maintenance after that.... (read in full...)
Inconsistent with pill, condom split..pregnant?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I have been on the pill for around 2 years now. Although i missed alot of pills from the last pack i had. I had the 7 day break from the pill and on the 7th day had sexual intercourse with a condom, but it split really bad, and ...
A. 17 May 2009: If you're worried about it, go get a pregnancy test. It's the only way you'll know for sure, either way.... (read in full...)
Have I made it obvious?
Q. Okay my friend told this guy I really like that I think he is cute, but just in a young way. (cos he is slightly younger than me.) Ever since then he is really nice to me, laughs at everything I say - and sometimes its not even funny - there are ...
A. 13 May 2009: Well first, do you like him at all? Or just think he's cute?
Sorry if you mentioned that and i missed it.
If you're not interested, you should tell him and make sure that he understands.
If you are, then you should be happy that he likes y... (read in full...)
How can I fix the way I feel?
Q. My grades have dropped, im tired all the time, and it seems ive been eating A LOT!!! Every time i start liking someone, i get so confused that i seriously just wanna go to sleep and forget about EVERYTHING and i actually just realized that ive been...
A. 13 May 2009: Yes, you're normal :) I've been through the same thing.. What i did was i started doing other things to occupy my mind (I did jazz band, colour guard, plays, musicals, etc) And soon you'll hardly think of it at all, and you wont be so sad or tir... (read in full...)
Weird to be a loner?
Q. I am 20 years old and attending a large public university 7 hours away from home, and I have absolutely no close friends at that school! Is that such a weird thing? I have literally no social life there, and I don't find myself really wanting one ...
A. 14 January 2009: i prefer being by myself, also, as to a big group of people.
not sure why, its just my style.
if its considered weird, then your definately not alone!
... no pun intended. ... (read in full...)
How can I attract guys? What's wrong with me? Am I that repulsive?
Q. My name is Kristen and I havn't had a boyfriend in so long ever since freshman year of highschool (I'm twenty years old and a junior in college). Ever since then,my self-esteem has gone even lower than before. I'm think I'm too short (I'm 4'5"),I'm ...
A. 12 December 2008: wow! you arent even close to fat! im only 14 and im 5'8" but i weight twice your amount! i weigh around 155!
so its definately not your weight.
maybe these guys are just shy to ask you out?... (read in full...)
Middle School Drama ! UGH !
Q. Okay well So dont you hate how theres always junior high friend battles . Theres the "cool crew" and the "not so cools" well what about when your involed in them . So i'll just make up some names .. So me ( Kate ) , Alexandra and Jessika are most ...
A. 8 December 2008: oh wow. am i the only one that had a hard time understanding that? maybe you should confront her again, and tell her why it bothers you and why she should stop. im a little too confused to give any better advice =P good luck ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until I don't need my braces to ask her out?
Q. i have no confidence due to my braces but im in love with this girl. should i wait until i get my confidence back in 4 month or ask her out now?...
A. 6 December 2008: theres nothing wrong with having braces.
and i highly doubt having them will lesson your chances with her.
good luck! x... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed by Matthew Lewis!!!!!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 (turning 19 in February), been crazily into the Harry Potter series since I was eight, and I've been OBSESSED with Matthew Lewis (the amazingly hot and sweet guy who plays Neville Longbottom in the series) since I was 10. I would say I'd ...
A. 5 December 2008: thats how i am with Elwood Blues, from the blues brothers... AKA dan aykroyd. i love everything about him, also an obsession =P id like to believe its normal..
if not then your not the only one with the problem. =)... (read in full...)
Can a shy man be attractive?
Q. Hello. Do women find good looking articulate loners attractive - albeit strictly those who do not exhibit psychotic tendencies!? Many thanks....
A. 2 December 2008: wow.. big words... i know im still young, but ive always thought the more "loner" kids were cute. theyve always been the ones ive liked and dated.
most turn out to be way sweet =)
but thats the ones my age... anywho... hope i helped =)
x ... (read in full...)
Why cant I have guy friends just because I am a girl? Do girls always have to start drama?
Q. So drama is a huge thing in high school! and i hate drama!!!! ugh well i use to get a ride from my friend, but now i cant. here is the story: so i make better friends with guys then girls. mostly because guys dont really cause drama. well my three...
A. 9 November 2008: i dont like having girls as friends much either. (my best friend is a girl and i have another friend thats a girl, but most of the people i hang with are guys)
i believe girls start to much drama also. and guys are just much more fun to be with ... (read in full...)
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
Q. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
A. 9 November 2008: spiritual minded? im not quite sure what to make of that. but il take it as a compliment! :)
i was just asking because i was going to say, if you did write that, you would be very talented and its so true.
i wasnt trying to be mean and ruin it... (read in full...)
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
Q. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
A. 8 November 2008: were you the first person to write this? i have a picture on my myspace that has this wrote on it. and its been there for over a year.
if you did, its amazing :)... (read in full...)
Every guy wants her... could she like a fat guy?
Q. Is it possible for a pretty girl to like a fat guy when nearly every guy wants her and can pretty much get any guy she wants? ...
A. 1 November 2008: its definately possible.. personality matters SO much more then looks, in my opinion. i dated a fat guy once... he was the nicest person i ever met :) this is just in my opinion..... (read in full...)
Does Jordan like me???
Q. My ex boyfriend (the one I just got done with) well, his best friend is one of my good friends. we'll call him jordan. Jordan has a girlfriend, but he always walks with me and comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me, grabs my ass, holds my...
A. 30 October 2008: i thought that about the ass thing too.
but how he always holds my hands and puts his arms around me made me wonder.
plus we are kind of close, he always talks to me when hes sad, and said me and my ex are the only people he actually considers fr... (read in full...)
When I use the toilet, I get blood. What could be the reason?
Q. I am 27 yr old. When ever I use toilet I get blood. What is the reasons for it?...
A. 29 October 2008: you should go see a doc.
when i was 13 i had that same problem and i went in to the doc and they got me a colonoscopy and it turns out i had colon polyps, so i had to be tested for colon cancer. (yes! at 13 years old! yay!)
but i doubt its that... (read in full...)
Why do some girls go out with losers?
Q. I found out yesterday that this girl I'm in love with likes this total loser, no one really likes him. This happened before too when my ex had history with a loser and got back together with him. I'm a cool guy, I have lots of friends, and I h...
A. 28 October 2008: maybe because alot of popular guys seem like jerks?
(not saying you are a jerk, or you seem like one, but maybe she just isnt into popular guys, and doesnt want to deal with the drama of all the talk?)
its different for alot of girls ... (read in full...)
Is there a cure for shy?
Q. Hello, my question is how can I cure my shyness? I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next. I kee...
A. 27 October 2008: i'm also very shy and i had no idea what to do about it.
so i thought of something the most UNshy people would do, and i signed up for the school play.
it helps you realize that not everyone is watching you and constantly judging you, and... (read in full...)
Am I the "Back-up" girl ?
Q. He broke up with me for someone else but he says i can still talk to him on the phone if i wanted to why does he still want to talk to me if he didnt want me anymore, i'm not aloud to meet him just talk on the phone Is it as I'm a back up if thing...
A. 26 October 2008: i'd have to say yes you are :(
this happened to me a while ago with my most recent ex bf.
id say you do your best to get over him and move on. because if your like me and stay as the backup girl, it NEVER ends up good for you...
hes ju... (read in full...)
Should I give him back his ring?
Q. okay this is going to sound REALLY dumb after my last post I just did... but my bf of 9 months dumped me last night.. He didn't even have the courage to tell me in person, or even through a phone call! He did it over texting, around midnight...
A. 21 October 2008: benefattore-
he said it was for me- as it had my name engraved in it.. and some reason i was dumb enough to take it and believe it, (we've gone out twice before)
but JustChillin-
i absolutely LOVE your answer :
if he was trying to use i... (read in full...)
Should I give him back his ring?
Q. okay this is going to sound REALLY dumb after my last post I just did... but my bf of 9 months dumped me last night.. He didn't even have the courage to tell me in person, or even through a phone call! He did it over texting, around midnight...
A. 21 October 2008: thanks i think ill keep it then :)
i just wont wear it.
thanks so much for your help :)... (read in full...)
I would have sex with him, but why does this bother me so much?
Q. ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and we have been talking about sex often lately. we have no problem talking about it and its not hard to tell him what bothers me and when im not ready and such. but every time he asks me if i would (he ...
A. 20 October 2008: oh just to clarify a point i made in the original questiong (that i just noticed)
when i said i would do it, i wasnt meaning RIGHT NOW.
i know that im not ready yet, id just like to get some advice on my feelings on this :) thanks ... (read in full...)
I would have sex with him, but why does this bother me so much?
Q. ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and we have been talking about sex often lately. we have no problem talking about it and its not hard to tell him what bothers me and when im not ready and such. but every time he asks me if i would (he ...
A. 20 October 2008: i guess you could say im a good girl, we havent really done much..
but his was only one girl.. and i have to say it could be because i am confused as to what would happen AFTER.
he says he would take back the first time because it was the wors... (read in full...)
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