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Why cant I have guy friends just because I am a girl? Do girls always have to start drama?

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Question - (6 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *uteblonde124 writes:

So drama is a huge thing in high school! and i hate drama!!!! ugh well i use to get a ride from my friend, but now i cant. here is the story: so i make better friends with guys then girls. mostly because guys dont really cause drama.

well my three closest friends are guys. and apparently if your friends with guys, that means you like them. my first friend use to date my other friend, but they broke up. everyone use to think i liked him, and that caused trouble with my friend(the girl). though i have never liked him that way. my second friend no one really thinks i like, which is a good thing. but i act the same way with him, as i do all my other friends.

my third friend has been my best friend for like ever. he gave me rides home and met me between classes. but when he got a girlfriend problems startes. she started to start rumors about me, and then a few days ago she started huge drama. she told everyone that i was in love with him. she txted me telling me to delete his # and to never talk to him again. she told him the same thing, and he really loves her so he did it. well kinda, he just changed my name to something else. now i feel like i have lost my best friend, i have to walk home, and everyone else is treating me really badly. now he only txts me whenever he is alone. i hate this! why does so much drama have to start, just because i have guy friends!! i dont know what to do. i still want to be friends with him. i want to be able to see him in between classes again! i want everything to be back to the way it was. What can i do? plz help. really appreciated

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A female reader, cuteblonde124 United States +, writes (12 November 2008):

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cuteblonde124 agony auntthank you. i really needed to hear that this was not only happening to me. i hate drama so much, and guy do make life a bit more exciting. lol anywho thank you

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A female reader, dinosaurexx United States +, writes (9 November 2008):

dinosaurexx agony aunti dont like having girls as friends much either. (my best friend is a girl and i have another friend thats a girl, but most of the people i hang with are guys)

i believe girls start to much drama also. and guys are just much more fun to be with :) they dont cause as much crap.

not all girls make drama, as i try to stay as far away from it as possible.. most of the guys i hang with like me (oddly enough with all my problems ;) ) and people probably think i like them, but who cares as long as you have good friends that dont start crap

but this is just my opinion :)

xx

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