After 9 years, my ex-husband wants me back. But I've got someone else who loves me now!
Q. My ex-husband and I have been divorced 9 years and I have never stopped loving him.l Lst week he called me and said he wants me back and I am his soul mate. The problem is I've lived with a man for 7 years and is very good to me and I know he loves ...
A. 27 September 2005: People can change so much in 9 years. Are you still the same now as you were when you were first married to your Ex? Chances are he isn't the same man now as the man he is in your memory. Why did you divorce? Go over the details in your mind of that ... (read in full...)
Yes, I'm definitely going to speak to her, but I could use some "ice breakers"...
Q. Hi Cupid. I am 26 and have been single for about 5 years. There is a girl (roughly my age) I have liked for a couple of years. I never used to see her very often as she is a friend of a friend's girlfriend's sister (complicated I know) but have b...
A. 27 September 2005: I recently saw a movie called 'Hitch' with Will Smith in the lead role. I highly recommend you watch it for some tips. Like concentrating on what she likes and having intelligible relevant information relating to her areas of interest which you ... (read in full...)
Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!
Q. I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...
A. 27 September 2005: THIS WILL EAT YOU UP INSIDE, DON'T LET A SEX OFFENDER RE-OFFEND. If you don't discuss this with your boyfriend, the anguish and disgust you feel inside will come out in at first subtle ways and then could affect your life in many major ways. You ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is almost perfect, except for hairy nipples...
Q. I have started dating a lovely girl. Perfect in almost every way except, she has quite hairy nipples. It's fine to say I should just ignore this little problem. However, how do I suggest that she might want to get rid of the hairs, without seeming ...
A. 26 September 2005: The only thing I can think of that would not be overly offensive would be to have a NAIR Night. Nair is one of those Depilatory creams that dissolves body hair at the base of each follicle. For this to be equitable, you will need to be removing ... (read in full...)
Why can't I just be happy with what I have, instead of trying to forget my problems with other guys?
Q. I have been married for 8 years and from the day we got married I have been really unhappy. Anyway to make matters worse I had a baby and things have got from bad to worse. Anyway I met a guy in a club a few months back and he knew I was married and ...
A. 26 September 2005: Why me! Good Grief your not only doing it to yourself, you are doing it to your husband and your boyfriend and your child as well! Why exactly are you unhappy? Are you not friends with your husband at all? If not, why the hell are you stringing him ... (read in full...)
Stuck in the middle... Do I choose with my heart or my head?
Q. Never, ever felt so utterly confused in my life. At least there are no kids involved. I married my partner, Tom - not real name - (of 6 years) 2 and a half years ago. I never so much as looked at anyone and 'thought' I was happy...until someone ...
A. 26 September 2005: If money and security is enough to compensate for living in a suffocating environment then go back to your husband. You have to decide, no-one can do it for you. But while you work on your decision, think about this. When you are dying, will you ... (read in full...)
Since I found out my husband was texting an old girlfriend, I can't get it out of my mind!
Q. Dear Cupid, After 21 years of marriage, during last year my husband's old girlfriend turned up to see him (not at home of course). I suppose just after the last baby we had a few problems and with him working nights and me days we drifted apart...
A. 26 September 2005: 21 years of marriage is a very long time. You seriously do not need to talk to this woman. It will just hurt and you will compare yourself to her and that is not healthy. The time may have come for you and your husband to decide what part of your ... (read in full...)
Reeling from my husband's announcement that he wants a divorce. Opinions?
Q. My spouse of nearly 7 years came to me on Labor Day and said that he was no longer happy with himself and that he wanted a Divorce. He has moved into his barracks so that he may have the time apart he asked for. He has said that he needs to find ...
A. 26 September 2005: I have heard of many marriages involving an armed service member going this way. A close friend was in the Australian army for a lengthy career, and after resigning and adjusting to civilian life, he was devastated to find how harsh he had ... (read in full...)
Could my pubic hair be off-putting to guys, even though it's tidy?
Q. I have pubic hair insecurities. I am an attractive 23year old girl who is confident with my body, however I am afraid that my pubic hair could be unattractive! I know this sounds dumb, but how important is it to a guy? I wax my bikini line to k...
A. 26 September 2005: If anything, the colour of your hair can be an advantage. I have golden auburn hair, and have had many cheeky comments from guys curious as to what colour I might be down there. Some Men have a bit of thing in their head about Natural Redheads going ... (read in full...)
Don't feel confident enough to stand up for myself...
Q. Is it written on my face "Come, use me, I am there to sell myself to you" ? This is what I have been feeling for quite some time now. I try to be too nice and kind to other people and they take me for a ride because of that. I am the one of the most ...
A. 26 September 2005: It would help to know how old you are, but I kind of like your other replies ideas. Perhaps though, I think your parents and brother will be the hardest people to introduce the new you to. I was raised in quite a strict home, and also have ... (read in full...)
My pregnancy drove my boyfriend back to his ex. Is this really my fault, like he says?
Q. I would like some help as the problem I have is eating me up inside. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and have always had an issue with his ex wife and their child, in the sense that she rings him a couple of times every day to see i...
A. 26 September 2005: Now that you are a parent, you must have some idea of how worried for your future your own parents must be. I'm afraid your ex sounds like seriously bad news. A real man stands up to take responsibility for his actions and it seems that this is yet ... (read in full...)
I think I'd be ready for sex with my boyfriend, if only I didn't have to show him my naked body!
Q. I am so scared of showing my boobs or downstairs to my bf. I am 18 and I'm ready to get phyical with my bf who I have been seeing for about 6 months but I'm so scared of showing him my body. I feel fat and I think that my body isn't good enough. My ...
A. 26 September 2005: Sweetheart, he has been with you. YOU!! for the last six months. He must be attracted to you or he wouldn't be with you. We girls are shockingly critical of ourselves, we only see the bad bits when we look in the mirror. But guys are completely ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to be a lousy kisser!
Q. I'm a 14 year old boy and I want to make out with my girlfriend but I don't know how, I've never done it before. She's not a virgin and I'm too nervous to make out with her. I'd never even kissed a girl until me and her started going out. We've been ...
A. 26 September 2005: Dude,
Don't sweat it so hard. Find out what her favourite mushy/chic flick movie is at the moment and watch it by yourself. Take notice of how the main guy kiss's the main girl. Everyone likes to be kissed differently, so it's too hard to guess unti... (read in full...)
How could we go from lovers to friends to... this?
Q. My ex dumped me about 8 months ago due to an illness I had, which was at the time unbeknownst to me and him. I didn't discover for a couple of months after the break-up how incredibly sick I was. When we broke up, he was adamant about remaining ...
A. 26 September 2005: From what you have said, it should be as plain as the nose on your face. This man is still in love with you. It could be very painful for him to be near you knowing how resolute you are about not rekindling your romance with him. It's unfortunate ... (read in full...)
Three times a week isn't enough. My husband says I should "do whatever it takes" to make him happy.
Q. My husband wants sex all the time. The problem is I don't. I love him deeply and am frustrated I don't feel sexual. I've tried explaining this to him but all he says is if you love someone you will do whatever it takes to make them happy. He has ...
A. 26 September 2005: DO NOT LET ANYONE MANIPULATE YOU INTO BED!! Why has no one noticed that this guy should be giving his wife exactly the treatment he is asking for?????!!!!!! If he loves you, he should be respectful of your feelings and perhaps ask if there is ... (read in full...)
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