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writes: I'm a 14 year old boy and I want to make out with my girlfriend but I don't know how, I've never done it before. She's not a virgin and I'm too nervous to make out with her. I'd never even kissed a girl until me and her started going out. We've been together 3 months now and I don't want put her off me by being a bad kisser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2005): hi!firtly you need to be calm and then slowly push your lips against hers.if she responds continue and if she gives you tongue believe me, it will come natural!!good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2005): Hey
I think that your problem is you have no self confidence. She will be going out with you because she loves you and respects you. DON'T rush into kissing her if the time is not right. What you need to do is talk to her and if she really does love you she will understand.
For starters do what you feel is best.. put your hands wherever you feel comfortable. Then glently kiss her on the lips once you do it will all go from there. Remember! don't rush when you kiss her... the worst thing to do is to get too carried away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2005): I know wat u mean, almost same with me but dont worry you might not be bad. I feel strange too
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2005): hey dude. i know how my girl likes me to kiss her why, because she leads,
This is all you gotta do, movein for the kill. this a (hey not to ragg on hitch the movie but..) 90%!!! move in! close enough that she knows to open her mouth or be smashed in the face. (but dont ever smash her face) lol.. then SOFT and gentle! wrap your lips around each others (close yer fuckin mouth jerk!) then wait, if she starts moving her mouth around make yours comfortable inside or outside of hers. If she opens her mouth wide , attempt to go in with the tounge, if not, try and coax hers out, suck on her lips gently (lower one works well) and if she gives you her tounge, just gently probe, dont suck too hard and your good to go , if your feeling confident, give the tip a good suck before she goes off
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2005): Too much spit is really gross so don't be sloppy. Error on the dry side at first.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (26 September 2005):
First... You have been together for 3 months, you never kissed a girl before hand until you started going out yet she seems happy to be with you!! and she hasnt dumped you!
I'm told this sort of thing comes naturally to people, im sure other people would be able to give you some advice on this.
But what i would say is dont feel that you have to and mess up when you buckle under pressure... because you could lose her and you dont want to do that so when someone gives you some specific advice (i cant im in a hurry) keep that in mind, dont rush into it and only take the advice on board when you feel the time is right
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2005): hi sweety what you need to do is try not be so nervious every one has there first time and everyone is nervios but if she likes you she will just enjoy being with you
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reader, magic guy +, writes (26 September 2005):
A guy of ur age is suppose to be thinking about ur home.Don't u think the girl is too old for u looking at the fact that she is not a virgin. Boy relax till ur time comes it's a matter of couple of years? have patient u will enjoy it later ok?
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reader, Delirius +, writes (26 September 2005):
Dude,
Don't sweat it so hard. Find out what her favourite mushy/chic flick movie is at the moment and watch it by yourself. Take notice of how the main guy kiss's the main girl. Everyone likes to be kissed differently, so it's too hard to guess until you give it a go. You never know, she may be the lousy kisser not you. The only really important thing I can tell you is, Don't go the "tongue" until your girl opens her mouth for you, and then don't get too carried away. And once you have had your first passionate kiss, you can always kiss the corner of her eyes, ears whatever you feel good about. Slow is always sexier.
Good Luck Mate!!
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