Can a boy just seriously stop liking you like that?
Q. okay so there is this boy ive been hooking up with. the whole day we were have a really good convo and he was telling me how much he wanted me and cares about me and that this relationship isnt committed...its not just physical to him and that he ...
A. 1 July 2009: You probably scared him by telling him you were falling for him. IDK, because if he really liked you as he said he would probably give it a shot. If he said that stuff to get sex, he would still go along with it because you are leaving anyway so it ... (read in full...)
Can I make my butt bigger?
Q. I have a really sensitive tailbone that hurts when I sit for a long time, and it makes it hard to do certain exercises like sit ups and stuff. It still hurts if I put a pad on the floor or do sit ups on a bed. I'm 5'4" and weigh around 115 lbs ...
A. 1 July 2009: Yes you can! Training movements such as squats, deadlifts, and box jumps will add some padding and create a sexy butt. Just google these moves and also try googling Josh Hillis. He has tons of free info and is well known for training both men and ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel ...
A. 1 July 2009: Yes it is normal to masturbate to porn while in a relationship. It is also normal to feel angry and insecure thinking of your S.O. doing the same thing. Truth is, people will always desire or fantasize about sex with people other than the one they ... (read in full...)
He feels more like a friend than a boyfriend...
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, a long time considering we are both only 18. However When we kiss I start to feel weird and as if the act is wrong, so we stop. This happens 80% of the time and I don't ever feel like I want to s...
A. 1 July 2009: Could be your sex drive is taking a dip? It's common from time to time. I think that may be it because you seem to still enjoy being with him but not the sexual aspects. Or maybe your love has changed and you simply no longer desire him as a lover. ... (read in full...)
Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?
Q. Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else bu...
A. 1 July 2009: Depends, maybe he feels badly for you (don't know your situation) or maybe he likes you in a way that teachers shouldn't. Can't really say based on the post.... (read in full...)
We want to elope but I don't want my parents to feel cheated in seeing me get married.
Q. My boyfriend asked me to marry him a week ago and we still haven’t told anyone. We want to avoid the tension, stress and drama that come with planning a wedding and not to mention the debt. We just want to go on a tropical vacation together and ...
A. 1 July 2009: Don't elope. I basically did that (divorced now) when I was 19 and I still occassionaly get harrassed a little by some of my family for not having a real wedding with them there. It's going to be stressful planning a wedding, but so is marriage so ... (read in full...)
I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!
Q. I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...
A. 1 July 2009: Just confront him about it and dump the jerk. Don't waste your time with him. Plus you are young anyway, slim chances of you two staying together forever anyway so just cut him out of your life and save yourself future pain.... (read in full...)
Should I have a lesbian affair?
Q. I am a married, female, 40 years old with children. I've known I was gay since college, but have always hid it and have never been with a woman before. I recently met a woman who is also in a relationship with another man. I am almost positive ...
A. 30 June 2009: No, you should not. While it is a woman, you would still be cheating on your husband and risking hurting your family. Regardless of agreements you two may make prior to starting a sexual relationship, you can never be sure that she will hold true to ... (read in full...)
During sex, he says the names of my friends who he'd like to have watch us! Normal or not?
Q. hi , i 've been married for 6 months, last night my husband told me about his dream , he was making sex with me and one of my friend.. and everytime we do love he keeps repeating my friends names that he would like if they will watch us making ...
A. 29 June 2009: No it's not normal and very disrespectful to you. The fantasy itself, such as having other women involved, is common but to verbalize it to you, especially during intercourse, is not normal. If I were with a girl and she did what you man did I would ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before contacting him again and how should I start it?
Q. I cut my ex out of my life after a series of bad events (including him cheating). However I still really love him and want to be with him. I actually want to speak to him again because I miss our great friendship/companionship a lot, but I know ...
A. 29 June 2009: Don't contact him. He cheated on you on top of other things. That shows how selfish he his and that he does not respect you as he should. You are still in love with him and trying to be "friends" will only cause you more pain. Just remember the good ... (read in full...)
He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!
Q. im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he ...
A. 29 June 2009: You must make him choose between the two of you and if he chooses you then he must leave her now! You are basically telling him it's ok to stay with her by not breaking it off with him. Make him prove he really cares for you by sacraficing his other ... (read in full...)
Does he really want a threesome, or is it just a fantasy?
Q. I am confused. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We had the "fantasy" discussion. He said he wants a threesome. I asked why and he said its a fantasy. I said well I wouldn't want you to have sex with the other woman. His response ...
A. 29 June 2009: I can confidently state that he does want a threesome. If it were a mere fantasy he would not even verbalize it to you. I have had a threesome, they are not great, but I still occassionally fantasize about them. However, I would never tell my S.O. ... (read in full...)
Is it just the attention from another male that makes me feel well?
Q. This is going to sound horrible.. and I already feel like I know the responses I will recieve.. but here I go. Long story short, my friend and I went out drinking one nite.. met sum guys, talked for about 3 hours and the one guy and I made out for a ...
A. 29 June 2009: First, this is not directed at you but rather a response to your post stating you have done nothing wrong. She is in a relationship and you made out with a stranger. Is that not socially accepted as being wrong? That is neither here nor there ... (read in full...)
Sex during your period -- can you get pregnant?
Q. can you get pregnant if you had unprotected sex while on your period....
A. 29 June 2009: Unlikely, but it is possible.... (read in full...)
I feel utterly alone and worthless and I don't know how to make it go away. Can someone tell me what to do?
Q. I think I have a big problem. All I feel is loneliness. My father and mother have been split since before I was born. My dad has this girlfriend who treats him like crap and talks about me and my sister all the time. He always tells us what she says ...
A. 29 June 2009: Tough situation. You really need to speak to someone live who is a professional in mental health. It appears that your confidence is so low that there is no quick answer to help you. You really need to speak with your dad and let him know how badly ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to totally lose his sex drive?
Q. is it posible for a man to toally lose sexdrive? Never think about it,or wish for it? Or is it just connected to a bad realtionship? ...
A. 29 June 2009: It is possible if his testosterone level is too low, or for a variety of other medical reasons. A bad relationship often only kills the drive to have sex with the S.O. which is a common reason people end up cheating. However, if he is having ... (read in full...)
Why does this sound happen? It's so embarrassing!
Q. Me and my boyfriend were having sex, and we've recently tried doggy style and the most EMBARRASSING thing happened.. I had a vaginal fart?!?! It was so embarrassing, I didn't know what to do! I just laughed and he laughed too but he continued. It ...
A. 29 June 2009: It is air being released from your vagina that was pushed inside from sex. Doggy style tends to create this more than other positions. There isn't anything you can really do. Just avoid that position if it makes you too uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?
Q. Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and ...
A. 29 June 2009: Honestly, although trust is a must have in a relationship, he should not hang out with her. It upsets you, he doesn't have a basis for friendship with her, and she has a reputation for being a cheater. Given all this information the only reason they ... (read in full...)
Penis size: Small, big, or average?
Q. im 13 and im worried if my penis is average for my age or under average it 3-4 inches flop and on eceration its 5-6 inches is this average or below average or over average...
A. 28 June 2009: You are 13, it will likely continue to grow for many more years. I was a late bloomer and I continued to grow in every aspect until I was 23ish.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to your boyfriend's friend?
Q. i have a boyfriend of 6 months whom i love and he loves me back , thing is lately i have found myself a bit attracted to a friend of mine , that friend i have known for 3 months only and we have hell alot in common and i understand him when we talk ...
A. 28 June 2009: Yes it is normal. When one is in love with another, the individual can still be attracted to others. It is only a problem if you act on your urges. Maybe your current bf isn't the one you should be with but you must seriously contemplate your ... (read in full...)
I can't trust him but do I really want to start over?
Q. My husband had sex with a women that we were couples friends with over 20 years ago. I did not know of the one night stand at the time. She would not go on with the affair. But my husband admits that he lusted for her for another 10 years. ...
A. 28 June 2009: That's a tough decision. He betrayed you and was able to decieve you for many years. That is selfish of him. Essentially, what you had is over anyway because as you said, "I can't trust him..." and that is murder on a relationship. At least if you ... (read in full...)
I worry about how I taste!
Q. Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean my...
A. 27 June 2009: I'm sure you taste fine otherwise he would not want to continue to go down on you. I love giving oral, but I have been with one woman who smelled and tasted disgusting! I literally had to stop and excuse myself... talk about akward. I don't know why ... (read in full...)
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