My folks found out that my boyfriend is 19, now they won't let me see him...
Q. I'm 14. I have a 19 year old boyfriend but I look like I'm 17 or 18. He knows I'm 14. I've known him for a year. My parents found out, now we can never see each other. Do you think I should let him go or try to make it work? ...
A. 15 June 2005: if you like him enough to go through the hassle then make it work! tell your parents that you're growin up and that you'd like to live your own life. my dad didn't want me to see my boyfriend because he was english!!! (i'm chinese) what!? but i kn... (read in full...)
My fiance cheated with a stripper and blamed me. Now he wants to try again. Should we?
Q. I am due to get married in August this year to my fiance/boyfriend of almost 8 years. Yet 7 weeks ago he was unfaithful with a stripper and was undecisive as to whether he wanted her or me. The reason for his straying (according to him) is that i ...
A. 10 June 2005: oh ouch, thats quite hurtful, he should of realised you was going through a rough patch and not cheated with a stripper, its his fault he did such hurtful things and how do you know he won't misjudge every other little changes you have, he might of ... (read in full...)
Why does he say he "doesn't deserve" me? Is he going to drop me?
Q. I have been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that I love him, as more than a friend. Recently we have crossed the line and have slept together twice. He says that he doesn't deserve me, but I think he is trying to blow me off. ...
A. 10 June 2005: hmm, sounds like he's one of those guys that is looking for casual sex! sorry to tell ya that but now that he has got what he wants, he mite be making excuses to not get too attached! i think its best you talk to him and ask him whats happening ... (read in full...)
My sleeping with other guys is OK with my husband... but will that include his brother?
Q. Lemme give you some background. I am 32 and married 10 years to a 34 yr old wonderful man and we've enjoyed a great marriage and friendship. We have a open relationship. It's complicated. I can have sex with another man in our bedroom with the ...
A. 10 June 2005: hmm that is a bit close, i mean its understandable to have sex with a best friend which is like a sister, but this really is his brother and it might be a bit too close of a relationship, so i suggest not, but ask your husband, he might not mind, ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want a relationship, but there are lots of other things that she wants!
Q. dear sir/madam How can I help my best friend who loves a girl deeply, but this girl does not want a relationship, but wants my best friend to pay her college fees and apartment for her, as well? And he agrees to help, but she doesnt want him to l...
A. 10 June 2005: ah it sounds like this girl realises that your friend likes her and is using him for his money because she thinks he is weak and would do anything for her! i think you need to make him see that she doesn't like him in that way and should move on! ... (read in full...)
Recently, he asked if we could have an open relationship and if he could sleep with our new flatmate...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months next week and living together for 8 months. Over the last few weeks he has been hot and cold and recently asked if he could sleep with our new flatmate or have an open relationship. I was hurt as ...
A. 10 June 2005: it is totally your decision if you have a open relationship/break or not, it does seem like he is being selfish and wanting more then one girl, i don't want to tell you to break up with him or anything for it seems like he hasn't done anything ... (read in full...)
She's a special girl to me, but she's a virgin... and wants to stay that way!
Q. I used to be a guy that dates lots of girls till I met this girl. We have been dating for a while now and I really love her. But she is a virgin and has refused to make love to me. I have tried to be faithful but I am at my ends. What do I do? ...
A. 7 June 2005: hmmm I do agree with Lucy. Shane seems to think sex is what makes a relationship more "special". Sex might bring the couple together but without sex, it really brings out what the true meanings of a relationship. This girl is a virgin and she real... (read in full...)
I'm tired of just lying there during sex. I want to know how to make it better for him!
Q. I am a 15yr old girl and I've had sex before and all but I still don't know what to do. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but I want to know what way to move and how to pleasure a lad....
A. 4 June 2005: you're a bit young to be having sex aren't you, if you really want to know more, either wait till you're older and ask again or look it up on a site, i'm sure no1 is prepared to tell an underage girl how to pleasure a guy! sorry xXx... (read in full...)
Are there any circumstances where it's OK to hit someone?
Q. Can anyone please tell me if there are ever circumstances where it is understandable to hit a woman? Picture a scene of a grump, overweight and lazy woman who constantly nags her husband when he comes in from work, shattered. She won't leave hi...
A. 3 June 2005: i agree with all the others, hitting someone shouldn't come to mind even if she is damn irritating, simply walk away or sit down and REALLY talk to her, try not to yell, it'll only make her more annoyed and will probally irritate you more! xXx... (read in full...)
Do I have a future with my boyfriend, even though we're not intellectually matched?
Q. My boyfriend is not a bright person. When we watch movies for example I usually have to explain what is going on in the movie several times, even though he has been watching in silence. He says he has trouble following plots. Can someone have a ...
A. 3 June 2005: Of course! Anything is possible, unless you don't have a lot of patience it might be a bit of a problem, because you might get irritated easily when he doesn't understand something. But if you love him and he loves you, I'm sure you can work things ... (read in full...)
Can I have one last fling with an incredible guy on my way to the altar, or not?
Q. I am getting married in August to a man I love very much and we are in a very happy relationship. However I met a man through work, and we made a heart stopping connection. There is a chemistry between us and I can't stop thinking about him. I rece...
A. 3 June 2005: Ah, I think its best you don't do anything but stay friends, try to resist your temptations for if you give in, you might lose everything! And I'm sure you wouldn't like to lose what you've got, for it's hard to find a loving relationship, I should ... (read in full...)
All my boyfriend wants to do now is have sex, and we never talk any more!
Q. I'm afraid my boyfriend of four months is soon to break up with me, as in the beginning he was loving and caring. At that point we didnt have a sexual relationship. Now that we do, we don't talk hardly at all. It seems that all he cares about is...
A. 3 June 2005: Oh dear, this looks familiar. Guys are guys, I've learnt that all they want is one thing, and they'll go so far to get it! And by the looks of it, it seems as though your boyfriend has sweet talked you into having sex and now that he has got what he ... (read in full...)
Should I believe my bf when he says that the raunchy text message wasn't his?
Q. Been dating 3+ years, thought he was Mr Perfect. Found a raunchy outgoing text on his phone that seemed to imply having slept with whoever he sent the text to. (wasnt Me!) Went nuts but he insists he lent his mobile to his friend who put his sim ...
A. 2 June 2005: Hmmm it does seem a bit dodgy. It is possible that his friend put his sim into your boyfriend's mobile.(I could think of a few reasons) It is a bit of an awkward situation coz one raunchy text simply is just one, therefore it really might be his m... (read in full...)
My ex looks like his working through the problems that broke us up, but I feel insecure and unsure about him...
Q. I've been with a man who cheated (massage parlor), smokes a lot of pot, and who gets verbally abusive (sometimes physically aggressive). It's been a year since I moved out and broke it off with him. Now he's showing signs of change, and growth. He ...
A. 1 June 2005: Only you can decide if you love him enough to go through all the counselling and everything, but I believe the phrase "Once a Cheater Always a cheater" is true. I believe it's in people...like a personality! and it's something that you can not ... (read in full...)
My husband seems to care more about his ex-wife than he does about me...
Q. I am married to someone who was divorced 2 years before we married. It seems though he won't let go of his ex wife. Every time she asks for something he jumps to do it. I know they were married for 11 years and knew each other for 16, but I fe...
A. 31 May 2005: I don't think you're overreacting at all. By the looks of it, he really is being a bit heartless, seeing her behind your back. I'd say sit and have a really good chat with him, but don't make it seem like you don't trust him or won't let him have... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated and lives with the other girl, but he tells me to "wait" for him. Say what?
Q. I'm so confused about my son father. He's 20 years old. He cheated on me and is now living with the girl but he still says he loves and wants to have sex with me and tells me to wait for that. He wants to be with me, but not right now....
A. 31 May 2005: Never take second best. In any relationship you are the most important, so simply don't settle for second best!! Why should you be put in a queue for a guy that messes girls around and says he want to have sex!? Why does he tell you such pointless ... (read in full...)
Why would my husband comment that I'm a lesbian, when I'm not?
Q. My husband and I have been married 13 years. But when we argue he makes comments that I'm a lesbian. I'm totally heterosexual. So why does he make those comments?...
A. 31 May 2005: i'm sure that your husband is only joking and because you might of not said anything about it before, he uses it again to annoy you! i don't think your husband after 13 years would sudden think you're a lesbian! i'm sure he would of realised earlier ... (read in full...)
I want to go to my ex's party, but if I do, I think something might happen between us...
Q. Me and my Ex boyfriend split up around this time last year, but have been on and off since then. I've now moved on to a lovely new boyfriend but I've just been invited to my ex's party. If I go, I know that something will happen between me and my ...
A. 31 May 2005: If you think that something will happen, it's best that you don't go. You need to think of the reasons why you and your ex keep splitting then getting back together again. It might help you realise that you actually want to be with him or not. You ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she's had sex with too many people, so she won't have sex with me!
Q. My girlfriend has had sex in previous relationships but now says she doesn't like it. I feel hurt because her only reason behind not wanting sex is that she doesn't like it and thinks she has had sex with too many people already, because she is only ...
A. 31 May 2005: Maybe your girlfriend is right. 17 is such a young age and if she doesn't like sex and doesn't want to do it then you shouldn't push her. But if you want to prove to her that you like her more then all her other partners and won't simply dump her ... (read in full...)
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