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writes: I'm afraid my boyfriend of four months is soon to break up with me, as in the beginning he was loving and caring. At that point we didnt have a sexual relationship. Now that we do, we don't talk hardly at all. It seems that all he cares about is sex. Is this a sign that he will break up with me, and are there any other signs I should look out for. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): Sweetie, I hate to tell you this, but it looks like he got want he wanted - sex. I'm surprised he held on this long. You are too giving with your body. Try to communicate that you want more than just sex, that you are interested if he wants to open his heart to you not just his zipper. And if he won't listen, hold back on the sex and you'll soon have your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): Quit looking for signs because you will pick up on the smallest of things, sit down and explain these feelings.
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reader, Cutie_Mish +, writes (3 June 2005):
Oh dear, this looks familiar. Guys are guys, I've learnt that all they want is one thing, and they'll go so far to get it! And by the looks of it, it seems as though your boyfriend has sweet talked you into having sex and now that he has got what he wanted, he simply just wants sex or nothing to do with you. Who knows, maybe I'm just a feminist and I think too much about how most guys are looking for one thing. I suggest you try without sex for a while and if he still doesn't talk to you as much, then he isn't worth it! Go find a guy that loves you and is willing to love you and make love to you! xXx
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