I think my personal trainer is crushing on me
Q. Hey guys! So I've recently joined a gym that was recommended by a personal trainer who works there and bought a guitar from me. I started regularly going to his fun classes and then he decided to give me some one on one training as we would weight ...
A. 14 February 2018: Hey all! Thanks for the replies, him and I are dating now :) it turns out he actually did think I was taken lol ... (read in full...)
We were getting on so well .... but now he just blanks me.
Q. Is it time for me to give up? So I was seeing this man for a while, things were great and he told me he loved me and we talked about a future together. We met at work. All of a sudden he has now started blanking me, contact fizzled out apar...
A. 10 August 2017: My dear, I met someone who blew hot and cold to me and what a roller coaster that was. There could be two reasons why he's acting this way... According to Men are from Mars women are from Venus: the book says that sometimes men need to go into the... (read in full...)
When its good its great but right now its bad.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for roughly four months. It's long distance so things have gotten intense pretty quickly! We were planning to move in together but I felt it was too soon so I told him how I felt. Since then things have not been ...
A. 10 August 2017: Hey girl, sorry you're going through a rough patch. But guess what,you're not the only one. I broke up with my bf of 4 months last week because he had a high demand job (chef) and most days he works late until midnight and that's when I slept so we ... (read in full...)
Need to pee blocks my climax
Q. I am having a personal issue with my husband and I feel like I'm loosing my mind. Every time things get "frisky" I want to finish, I feel like I need to, but I always get an overwhelming urge to pee; even though i use the bathroom right before we ...
A. 10 August 2017: Hey! I feel your pain. This happens to me Too luckily my partner was patient enough to let me stop as it was frisky and even in the midst just so I can hurry to the bathroom to pee. It's ok if your hubby loves you enough he'll just laugh it off and ... (read in full...)
I think my personal trainer is crushing on me
Q. Hey guys! So I've recently joined a gym that was recommended by a personal trainer who works there and bought a guitar from me. I started regularly going to his fun classes and then he decided to give me some one on one training as we would weight ...
A. 8 August 2017: Hey thank you guys for your answers :)
He recently went through a break up and he actually moved here for her. I think there were hard feelings.
Anyway I already know PTs are supposed to be friendly to get business I knew that all along. I am cer... (read in full...)
Is a man without a big wallet a deal breaker for you?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have recently met a great man. We've been dating for a few months but we have met each other's parents because we are serious about each other. Recently though, my worries have been our financial status. He is a hard working chef a...
A. 28 July 2017: Hey all!
Thank you so much for your answers and insightful advice.
Unfortunately I've started to notice that while I was worried about money, now I'm worried about time. As a chef he works long hours and we only see each other now once a week.... (read in full...)
I want to take revenge on him for making me feel this way!
Q. Hi all, I'm going to make this a brief question,but I really hope you guys can give me some helpful advice. My ex and I broke up last friday night after a bad argument and he sorta lives about an hour away from town. I'm so angry inside because I...
A. 27 April 2011: Thank you all for your advice, its been two and a half months now, and I feel more confident and ive had more time to work out and focus on my studies,and ill be graduating in june.
It turns out,the reason why there was so much tension between us i... (read in full...)
My ex has a new guy and it makes me feel inferior. Why do I feel like a failure?
Q. My ex girlfriend has a new guy. We split up a couple of months ago because she's moving away from university next month and now she has already found someone in her hometown. I don't mind, because she's moving on and that's what I've been trying to ...
A. 27 April 2011: I really think that you lack confidence, but believe me. My ex broke up with me two and a half months ago and break-ups can bring a person's self-esteem and confidence down,its only natural to feel this way. Unless you treat women badly and with no r... (read in full...)
It started as something casual, now it's awfully complicated
Q. Backstory, Gay man, 21... studying at Uni. Decided before I started that I would NOT be getting into a relationship while at uni (previous experience of stress + exams = not good!). So I meet this guy 7 months back... was meant to be casual fun, a...
A. 26 April 2011: i can tell you feel quite confused and restless about the whole situation,and its great to talk about things out in the open,honesty is the best thing. First of all, don't have any feeling of regret about getting involved with him,because sometime... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has become Jekyl and Hyde
Q. Hi, My boyfriend really isnt himself lately, we're on a break because he needs to finish college and stuff we've been together for 4 months and up until then its been perfect then the other day he decided he wanted a break so he could finish c...
A. 2 May 2010: Sweetheart, leave him,dump him, forget about him...all he is doing is making you feel bad about urself;let him go this is not healthy.
He is immature for saying silly and hurtful things to you,and considering dumping you for a facial piercing?! that... (read in full...)
I'm tired of a one sided friendship
Q. this girl and i have been friends for a very long time. up until last year, we were really close. what tore us apart was that we drifted apart due to school and work related schedules not working well with the other -- which was fine. But then ...
A. 1 May 2010: Look, friends as u know have cardinal rules: understanding,not going after the guy u like/ or were with etc. she is obviously two faced and she is hypocritical and should probably take a look in the mirror before judging u, and taking the time to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has become Jekyl and Hyde
Q. Hi, My boyfriend really isnt himself lately, we're on a break because he needs to finish college and stuff we've been together for 4 months and up until then its been perfect then the other day he decided he wanted a break so he could finish c...
A. 1 May 2010: You seem like a very caring and lovable person; I have been through something like this,and a lot worse too.
I just want you to know that for the sake of your wellbeing you are better off moving on.
You are already in a fragile state, not eating,s... (read in full...)
Not much contact in 2 weeks does he not feel as strongly as I do?
Q. So I have been talking to this guy for two months. We met through work. We were both to shy to ask each other out, so my co worker hooked us up. We immediately hit it off. We spent so much time together...movies, museums, pool hall...we just had so ...
A. 28 September 2009: I was going through the same thing you're going through,and still am but things are going smoothly.
First,you are clearly wondering and confused where things are going with him,and i believe you still should get some kind of closure from him; bec... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant? Symptons went away and now back?
Q. hi i was wondering if this has ever happend to any one okay well i found out i was pregnant and had all the symptoms but then i started to bleed for about five days it was really light with some clots so i thought i was having a miscarriage because ...
A. 28 September 2009: I think as a responsible young woman you MUST go see a doctor and explain to him/her your case and your condition.
Your body is telling you something of which you cant make sense of,and it isn't for you to come to a conclusion of what you may have... (read in full...)
Does he want to get back together or is it just somewhere to rest his head?
Q. sooo my ex boyfriend is one of those quiet guys and doesnt really open up to anyone after all he did loose his mom three years ago and never knew his family so he kinda has fear of women getting close to them and then loosing them wich i understand ...
A. 6 July 2009: I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet.
Afterall,he did lose his mother,and u understand how hard that must have been for him.
It's normal for a person to take their time with opening up to people. The both of you don't have to focus on gett... (read in full...)
Any chance I can get back with him? Or am I overreacting
Q. Once again, I need advise from our more experienced friends here. Three months ago, I found out my ex was keeping a LDR with another girl since December 2008. So i was so angry that I broke up with him. A week later i took him back only as a f...
A. 6 July 2009: Hi There,
So i read your whole question, and i just want you to know that honestly honestly, u should not even think of going back to him.
I mean come on!! he spent a whole day with a complete stranger and then comes back and just breaks up w... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasy
Q. So, i've been sorta CASUALLY dating this guy..and the weird thing is..somehow i get turned on and come when i imagine him in bed with another girl from our group. could someone explain why this turns me on? She is no competition at all..but some...
A. 6 July 2009: Thank you for your answers everyone.
But yes, i didn't mention anything about a threesome.
This guy cares about me and he has no intentions with the other girl (whom is already in a relationship)
But i think the idea of him being with her in... (read in full...)
Does he have feelings after losing his virginity to me?
Q. So,this other guy from my group- he's a total computer geek,but him and i are pretty much best friends,and we slept together a few months ago,and basically he lost his virginity to me.. My question is,for all you guys especially,and g...
A. 6 July 2009: Thank you for those who replied to my question...
However, your answers sort of put a frown on my face..
First of all,for the anonymous female that answered my Q 1st,i DID NOT wait for him to get drunk so we could do such a thing,and i had ... (read in full...)
I've never had an issue with my body until my boyfriend started making comments about my weight!
Q. I'm 5ft8 and a size 12-14 which ive always thought is pretty normal. My bodies in proportion and ive never really had an issue with it. Until i got with my boyfriend and now am sexually active, i was before but only little flings, ive never been ...
A. 22 June 2009: Many of my friends have issues with their boyfriends throwing silly slurs at their girlfriend's weight and body image. and let me tell you this,from the stories i've heard my friends tell me and from my own experience; a boyfriend not accepting and ... (read in full...)
He admitted to have fantasies about other women
Q. Hi there, just a quick question... My partner and i were lying in bed and we both just had a really great night, i bought up the topic on whether he thinks about other women and he has always been extremely honest towards me regardless of whether ...
A. 4 June 2009: I agree with KrazyKira22,but also...a suggestion; maybe you can look at this situation from a different angle.
Why don't you casually ask him what he fantasizes about.
Him acting this way could either mean he just gets hot over fantasizing ... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 6 May 2009: thank u for ur patience b.rye :) and enjoy shaking those hips haha any yes i hope u do find someone to "proceed with caution" :p tell him "my hips dont lie" haha cheers hun... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 5 May 2009: Hope u have a great summer b.rye,and thank u heaps for ur patience :D... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 5 May 2009: And Phil,thanks for the tip!--Bondi is amazing :)... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 5 May 2009: lol sorry b.rye i know ive totally been bugging u back and forth about this lol but what exactly do u mean by "play it out n see wat happens" are u saying "the hell with it?" sorta thing n just go visit Jamie? lol im sooo sorry im a bit slow and i ... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 5 May 2009: A) i dont want to hurt Alex,cause he might think otherwise about me B) i dont want Alex to feel like he has some sort of control when it comes to my personal life.... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 5 May 2009: I'm not afraid of him,but honestly if u met a guy that was soo sweet,caring,and affetionate towards you...and u guys arnt having a serious anything or theres no label on ur status u just get along,and there might be a bit of chemistry,and since we r ... (read in full...)
Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?
Q. So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...
A. 5 May 2009: Why must i tell alex? i don't have to,he isnt my boyfriend..im still confused =(... (read in full...)
Any anal sex experts here?
Q. well. me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex, and i dont really know much about it, and i have read about it on this website, and it says use lots of lube. does that mean acual lube or could it be lotion or baby oil or things like that? and wh...
A. 5 May 2009: You need to relax before he penetrates you anally...lube will def work,but maybe let him showly finger you 1st before he puts himself inside you..that way you've losened up..if you feel uncomfortable with how it feels dont feel hesitante to tell him ... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that I won't hurt her as bad as her ex bf did?
Q. Please help me, i'm in love with this very special girl. Only problem is she got out of a long term relationship about 6 months back that destroyed her, she is so scared of being hurt like she was again. This has caused her to be very scared of ...
A. 5 May 2009: wow...your question totally had me thinking you were someone i know!!
I'm going through the same exact thing,except i'm the girl that is terrified of a serious relationship and the guy feels the same way like you do...he cant seem to get over me,a... (read in full...)
Being bullied about my dead brother. Why does this happen?
Q. my brother died last year because of meth and metamies and pot an more but people say your gunna be like your brother DEAD i need help figuring things out and im not crazy i just really need someone i could trust to tell me everythings goin...
A. 5 May 2009: Honey,you should not put up with this! i'm sorry they're picking on you and this isn't fair on you.
But PLEASE PLEASE! tell someone you're being bullied! right now! Tell someone at school! a counsellor a teacher,anyone just tell someone! they can... (read in full...)
He has pictures of his ex girlfriend hidden on his computer (but I found them).
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating 10 months now, and he broke it off with his ex approximately 2 years ago. One day, when left alone at his house with his computer, curiousity took the best of me and I ventured on to see what he looks at when...
A. 5 May 2009: I can't tell you what is right and what is wrong,but maybe he isn't over his ex? or maybe since they're naked pictures of his ex its his silly fantasy of her,i know that must hurt deeply and i'm sorry about that.
But u should not speak for a wh... (read in full...)
Opinions needed. Why do I feel this way?
Q. I have some insecurities as we all do i guess. However the girl im seeing seems to be hiding things from me. for example we went out last week with her friend and i happend to see a picture on her friends camera of a guy kissing her on the cheek. ...
A. 5 May 2009: Alright,Miket believe it or not...i was in the EXACT situation as you..except this was with my ex bf.
When we 1st started dating he was acting the very same way the girl ur dating is acting.
He used to guard his phone with his life,make sure t... (read in full...)
Best sex positions?
Q. Hi this question is mainly for women but any male posts would be great well im just wondrin which sex position is best for both partners wanna give my gf a night to remember thanks ...
A. 5 May 2009: It's always good to have an open discussion with you loved-one about what they like,dislike and prefer in the bedroom.
I can't exactly tell you what the best position is personally,because it varies from girl to girl.
If you're in a rush to fin... (read in full...)
Sooooo hungry but I can't eat. HELP!
Q. Hey. So here's my problem, about 3 weeks ago It started. Every time I eat meat, or anything that has a sauce on it or is greasy I either feel naseaus and have a headache or barf. (Dairy doesn't help the predicament because I'm lactose intolerant) ...
A. 23 March 2009: I think you might be pregnant, don't mean to freak you out, but without panicking, go see a doctor, you shouldn't starve yourself! Good luck!... (read in full...)
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