How to ask about second date without being pushy?
Q. I went to the cinema with this guy last Monday, we had a great time. He text me the same night saying how good it was and suggested going out again. i text back agreeing. The next day he seemed less flirty online and I mentioned about going out ...
A. 26 February 2009: He might not be the planning type. I would suggest looking up movies and asking if he wants to go to a specific movie at a specific time, or ask if he'd like to go to a specific resturant a specific evening... He might have the intention of going ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend at sleepover,may be drinking
Q. My girlfriend and I are 16 and have been going out for just under a year now, we love eachother to bits, had our first time together etc, i couldn't imagine my world without her at the moment. Tody she told me she's going to a sleepover at her ...
A. 26 February 2009: I would warn her to stay away from hard liquor. I drank myself into a comma when I was young and dumb. I was drinking it like it was beer because I didn't know better. If she sticks to beer then she won't OD or anything. Experimenting is normal ... (read in full...)
Pregnant from this?
Q. Dear cupid,am afraid i might be pregnant. my bf and i usually use the withdrawal method when we have sex. a couple days ago after he ejaculated on my stomache, he wiped the sperm off myself and his self using a towel and couple minutes later we did ...
A. 26 February 2009: Pulling out is not birth control. Haven't you ever heard that "they always dribble before they shoot" ;) ALIVE SPERM cums out before they ejaculate!!! Even that can get you pregnant! If you don't want kids then get on birth control, use a ... (read in full...)
Relationship Help! Cheating girlfriend, broken heart, sexual past.
Q. I really need help people, im am in a mental and emotional dilemma that is eating me more and more everyday, and i dont know how much longer i can take it unless i get some advice to get over something. I read articles and articles, but i cant get...
A. 26 February 2009: Her past is her past, and you chose to be with her regardless of her past. The number of guys that she has been with sounds like alot, but it was her past, and most of them were in high school and were probablly just one night stands after getting ... (read in full...)
Seeing married teacher...
Q. Okay, SO I really like this old teacher of mine (graduated '08) and he likes me to. We've made out and done some touching and what not and are "planning" on more. I really really like, enough to say I love him. I *don't* think he loves me, he is ...
A. 25 February 2009: You are #2 in his life. You knew that he was married before you started things up with him. He is probablly not looking at leaving his wife for you. Most don't. He is just looking for a little fun on the side. I'm not trying to be mean. I'm ... (read in full...)
He shows me no affection outside the bedroom
Q. I have a boyfriend we are both in our upper 30s and he shows me no affection outside the bedroom what soever. hell/ goodbye kiss thats about it. I want more, not to sound selfish or greedy but that is what I need. when we are not sleeping together...
A. 25 February 2009: Talk to him about it and tell him that you need more from him. Tell him that you feel like he is ashamed to be with you because he never shows you affection except for in the bedroom. Give him a chance to change after your conversation and if ... (read in full...)
How often to go to doctors for checkup?
Q. I may be pregnant and if I am....how often should I go to the doctors for a check up on the baby....i hate doctors....what should I except on my first visit....what do they ask you....what do they do...please me spesific...
A. 25 February 2009: I went about once a month for the first 6 months and then once every two weeks and when it got closer to my due date, once a week. I'm sure all doctors are about the same, but they will let you know when to make your next appointment when you go. ... (read in full...)
I don't like him, but he sure likes me!
Q. This boy is in love with me but I honestly can't stand him. I also have a boyfriend that I like very much. And every time I tell him I don't like him like that, he's like why do you hate me? At one point I was like fine I hate you, gag me with a ...
A. 25 February 2009: If your boyfriend is friends with him then tell him about the bracelet and the way he acts towards you. I think that your boyfriend needs to talk to him and tell him that he needs to leave you alone and that you are taken.... (read in full...)
G/f cheating on me!
Q. hi, i think my gf is cheating on me... we only been dating for a month and a half. but a couple of nights ago she went out wit sum guy friends and went home around 3am. then that morning she went to her ex boyfriends house because he's off to join ...
A. 25 February 2009: I guess I could see her sleeping there overnight, if a bunch of people crashed there after the party, but she went there in the morning... Who goes to someone's house to fall asleep? If she had a hangover then wouldn't she sleep it off at home ... (read in full...)
I want to trust her while giving her space
Q. My girlfriend an I had only been together for a couple months when all of a sudden in december she just stopped being affectionate towards me wouldn't kiss me, barely look at me, let alone make love to me. We had made plans for christmas eve and ...
A. 24 February 2009: Sounds like she cheated on you with her ex on Christmas and acts suspicious alot of insidents after that. Almost like she may still be cheating on you with him. She needs to make up her mind if she wants to break off communication with him ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend from overseas how I've been feeling?
Q. Back in '98 i went on a bus tour through Great Britain. As i stood there, waiting to find out which bus i'm on and when it leaves, i saw him and prayed that he'd be on my bus. He was! I became really close with him and his sister (who was there as ...
A. 24 February 2009: I would not tell him how you feel if I were you. He has a live in girlfriend of 10 years. If they were not serious, they would not live together. I think that if you tell him you are in love with him, it would either ruin your ... (read in full...)
I love you. Why can't you feel the same?
Q. Ok. Some people are probably going to ignore this question. So, I`ll ask that you just stick around to hear my ENTIRE story. *sigh* I fell in love, and that sounds cliche. But, as we all know, everything does, and, it`s true. I love him so much...
A. 24 February 2009: He has a girlfriend. Be his friend. And for now, only his friend. Someday they will break up, and since you are such good friends, you will be there for him. At that time things might work out wonderfully for the two of you. If you are the ... (read in full...)
He's jealous and always wants to know where I am!
Q. Hi everybody Iam sorry this will be long but please advice me what to do. 2 start with is I was engaged with this man for over 16y I have 2 girls with my previous marage and a son with this guy, he never wanted 2 get married I was the one that alw...
A. 24 February 2009: You broke up and he keeps stalking you and making your life miserable. You need to tell him that you are broken up, and that you want him to quit coming by the house and stop calling you. If that doesn't work then get a restraining order against ... (read in full...)
I found out my husband was having viagara
Q. Tonight I found out my husband has been taking 'pills' to have sex with me. We have been married 2.5 years. When we were first together he couldn't keep his hands off me. Now it seemd he can't bring himself to touch me without a little courage in ...
A. 24 February 2009: Wouldn't you rather him take pills and continue to have sex with you then have him cheating on you? Obviouslly you would, but I'm just pointing out that it could be worse. You could talk to him about it, but he probablly was just having a hard ... (read in full...)
Is she going to leave me?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend now for 1 month shes 16 and Im 19. I love her and I can see us spending a long time togehter but Im afraid that she is going to leave me someday to be curious. She is young and I am her first real boyfriend. And Im ...
A. 24 February 2009: She obviously doesn't feel the same way that you feel about the relationship if she told you that you shouldn't love her so much. Are you giving her breathing space or do you call her or want to be with her all the time? Do you give her time alone ... (read in full...)
G/f cheating on me!
Q. hi, i think my gf is cheating on me... we only been dating for a month and a half. but a couple of nights ago she went out wit sum guy friends and went home around 3am. then that morning she went to her ex boyfriends house because he's off to join ...
A. 24 February 2009: So she was "sleeping" at 10, and "just getting home" at 11:20... Hmmmm... either she was cheating like you suspected, or she thought you would be mad at her for being wherever she was that night. Either way she lyed to you! Your only hurting ... (read in full...)
My bipolar hubby is abusing me, how much longer should I tolerate this?
Q. my hubby has a lot of problems such as pstd,bipolar,aniexty,ocd... anyway he has had counseling for 2 years but not enough. and i been married for 5 years. he has hurt me, mentally,verbal abused me i want to know how much longer i should give him ...
A. 22 February 2009: he needs to see a psyciatrist and be put on meds as well as seeing a councelor. just seeing a councelor is not going to work for him. he needs meds to regulate his mood swings and to level out his manic episodes and depression. People with ... (read in full...)
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