Was he playing with me, Is it my shyness or just a typical teen boy thing?
Q. i need some advise! i like this boy who i've known for about 5 yrs now. about a year ago we started texting each other constantly and he told me he liked me a lot too. we went out a few times together but nothing really happened. recently he texted ...
A. 30 January 2008: my advice is to ask him if he still wants to hang out, this is the only way you're really gonna know. if he says no then at least u know his true feelings and stay friends. if yes, go out and have fun but dont be shy be yourself and if he doesnt ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to commit! What can I do?
Q. I didn't call the man i used to date the last year after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. I intend not to call him again because i would like to find a real relationship with a man and i would like to be with someone ...
A. 16 October 2007: I agree...I met a guy and he was expecting different things from a relationship than i was and it didnt work out at all, i just ended up getting hurt.
Maybe u could just be friends, find someone else who wants the same as u, they are out there.
gd... (read in full...)
He says I'm too young, but...
Q. So I like this guy who just turned 20. I am 16. The day before my 16th birthday, I went to his house (I am really great friends with his sister, and whole family, thats how we met). We don't usually talk a lot when I'm over there, because I am over ...
A. 15 October 2007: I think the age is fine and u sound like u'd know what ur doing, but u need to respect that he doesnt want to be with u right now. my advice is to try and move on.
x... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy likes me?
Q. what does it mean if every day a boy stares at you all day for about 6 months and never says a word to you, also if he goes up to your friend and asks about you???...
A. 21 June 2007: survery says that this guy likes u......alot. next time he looks over smile, if he smiles back thats gd. but dnt panic if he turns away he might just me shy. i've done that before. gd luck xxx... (read in full...)
Seven months, we're in love and I bought the ring to pop the question! Should I wait or do it?
Q. I have a 20 y.o girlfriend and i am 25 y.o we have been together now for 7mths we both are very much in love and talk seriously about marriage and spending the rest of our lives together, do you think it is right for me to pop the question yet is ...
A. 11 June 2007: I think there is no rush, your both still young and have loads of time left to settle down, but by the information you gave you seem to be ready to settle down so I think if you really want to do it then go for it, because at the end of the day you ... (read in full...)
He owes me money for a car! But he's ignoring me..I have some options-help me decide which one is best?
Q. I bought my fiancee a car when we were together, on the condition that he paid me back by installments each month. He was paying each month and signing the agreement, until we have split up. We have been back and forth to each other deciding i...
A. 11 June 2007: At the end of the day he has agreed to pay you back so you have every right to ask for the money. I think the best option is to go to his work. But i think you should go with your sister to assure nothing gets out of hand and then that way it can be ... (read in full...)
am I ready for sex? All my friends tell me to do it.
Q. Right... im 15 and i've been going out with this boy for nearly 2 weeks now. He flattered me so much and dumped his nine month GF to be with me... i love him so much and he loves me to. He's fingered me, licked me out and i tossed him off. Next ...
A. 10 May 2007: hi,
i agree with eyeswideopen. theres no rush, slow things down or it will turn into a relationship of sex and physical stuff rather than proper love. chat and get to know each other first.
In my opinion I think you should wait until u have bee... (read in full...)
Torn between 2 lover's, Feeling like a fool
Q. well,were do i start. i met my ex-boyfriend nearly 3 years ago when my little girl was 1. it took him ages for me to agree on starting a relationship with him due to his past,a slag in other words.I'd know of him for years before we happened, but ...
A. 10 May 2007: i think you need to choose, because it isnt fair on any of you. even if you don't mean to your stringing ur ex along. once you have choosen things will be alot easier. if u don' t chose your ex make sure u have totally moved on and over him before ... (read in full...)
Im 13 hes 17, he wants to have sex this weekend, how do I tell him im not ready!!?
Q. well i have this 17 year old boyfriend and im only 13. and he wants to have sex this weekend but i don't know how to say im not ready. i tried to tell him through a text message when we were texting but he thinks we should and i scared if i say no ...
A. 7 May 2007: You're still very young and if your not ready you must tell him! Not only is he trying to pressure you into something you dont want but its illegal to have sex with anyone at your age and he could get put away for rape. If he doesnt want to know ... (read in full...)
What are the chances im pregant??
Q. What are the chances that i am pregant? -he didnt cum / orgasm inside me -we had sex around the time i was due for my period -we used a condom -he was only inside for a very little while -i bled for a day afterwards but then stopped bleeding...
A. 7 May 2007: All I can say is if your unsure go to your GP or buy a pregnancy test to be certain, but as the others said from the information you have given the chances are slim.
Good Luck with whatever happens.
xxxx... (read in full...)
What if he is seeing somebody else??
Q. Hi there I am in a fairly new relationship, its been two months now. I am happy a bit, because I feel like I cannot ask more from a r/ship at this stage. My current boyfriend is a very busy person. He is forever at work or outside the city, because ...
A. 7 May 2007: This is a tough position to be in. I think you should try and trust him as much as you can, because it wont work out if you dont. He obviously cares alot about you and wants to be with you, so my advice is enjoy it and make the most of it. Trust him ... (read in full...)
I thought we'd be a couple and then he met Natalie! If he didnt want to go out with me then why would he tell me, he loved me?
Q. ok i need help the guy i really like was dating my friend tiffany and friday me her my other friend sarah and dylan and 2 of his friends went to the movies i sat by dylan because he wanted to talk to me i knew it was going to be bad and i was happy ...
A. 25 April 2007: the boy is a player. trust me i know. if he liked you like he said he would be with you. and he could of like tiffany that much either if he also liked you. he isnt worth the trouble just forget him and move on. plus tiffany is your friend and she ... (read in full...)
Im considering becoming a prostitute as I fear its the only way out of my debt!!
Q. I'm so desperate for money right now, I owe so much out, I've been having thoughts that my only way out is prostitution. I really don't want to do this, is there any way round this? I need money asap and really have no other choice. Is it dangerous ...
A. 4 April 2007: I dont think this is the best way out of ur debt, u would be putting urself in great danger. i agree with the other answers they r people out there to help. and they r loads to choose from, go online and find someone asap.
xxxx
gd luck... (read in full...)
She thinks I like another girl...But I like her a lot! How do I ask her for a date?
Q. i'm startin to fancy this girl in my school. she's offered to teach me dance coz i wanted to learn it. she thinks i like another girl which i dont so how do i let her know? how can i date her? ...
A. 28 March 2007: I agree with the other guy. Just ask her to hang out with you and take things one step at a time. Also flirting helps because if she flirts back you know she likes you too.
gd luck
xxxx... (read in full...)
Ive fallen for my friends Ex, I dont want to lose either, what do I do ?
Q. I have fallen in love with the ex of my friend. They were a pair 3 years ago and only for a short time. First she said that it’s ok if I meet him but now she wants to conclude our friendship if we get a pair. I don’t know what to do because both of ...
A. 28 March 2007: I've been in a bit of a similar situation. Talk to your friend about how you feel and tell the truth because if you keep it from her and lie or twist the truth, she will be hurt even more. Also talk to her ex about how you feel and see if he feels ... (read in full...)
The thought of spit and stuff when we kiss makes me want to vomit! How do I get over this?
Q. I really love my boyfriend but i find it really hard to kiss him , like a prolonged kiss with tongues. Its the thought of all the spit and stuff being passed around, it makes me want to vomit. I have no problems doing anything else with him, not ...
A. 28 March 2007: All i can suggest is think about being with him instead of whats going on in ur mouth. it makes me want to be sick to if u think of it like that. u just need to keep thinking about how lovely ur bf is and how much love him etc.
If that doesnt work... (read in full...)
First relationship! How long should I wait to hold hands-kiss him on the cheek and so on?
Q. It's my first real relationship... and I really like this guy because he's a close friend ... But I want to know how long should I wait to hold hands ... kiss him on the cheek etc ... ...
A. 22 December 2006: there is no limit to when u can starting holding hands or kissing...just as long as it feels like the right moment. but dont rush things...make sure ur ready to hold his hand or kiss him etc. go with the flow.
i hope i've helped
merry christma... (read in full...)
He's trying to push our friendship further than I'm willing for it to go
Q. Ive just broke off a relationship after the friendship got serious and i didnt really want it to get that way. This person had sex with me twice and i had known him as a friend for four years. I broke off the relationship as i didnt fancy him as a...
A. 21 December 2006: tell him how u feel. but be gentle he obviously likes you alot. if he likes u he we sentle for friends only.
good luck
and merry christmas
-x-... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but the age difference is a barrier. What should I do?
Q. I have this good guy friend of mine whom i like and im sure he likes me too but our age difference is up to 16.This has been a barrier between us,what should i do....
A. 21 December 2006: I dont think age is a problem in relationships unless one of them is a minor...which in yor case isnt true so only you can make the decision between the two of you if you think your age difference will effect your relationship then i would say hold ... (read in full...)
I am due to see my husband after 3 months, we split and are selling the house, I feel so unhappy!!
Q. Hi, its almost 5 months since my husband and I split up (married 7 years), I havent seen him for 3 months and am dreading the time when i have to. I am in the process of selling our home which is really upsetting me as we have only lived in it 3 ...
A. 21 December 2006: he obviously doesnt/didnt want to even try to sort things out...therefore he isnt worth. I'm taking it that you still have feelings for him. I think you should just have fun...go out with the girls...enjoy the life of a single woman. Then after a ... (read in full...)
My Mom dislikes my bf because he's black. What should I do?
Q. I just got a new boyfriend a few days ago. He's black and I've never dated a black guy before. I showed my mom some pictures of him and she FLIPPED OUT. We're spanish of light complexion. I look american cuz I have blonde hair. All of my friends ...
A. 21 December 2006: at the end of the day he is ur bf not hers u can date who u want regardless of the colour of their skin. ur mum needs to learn its the personality not the colour...which i'm sure u already know. give her time and i'm sure she will come round.
g... (read in full...)
I think I got used by this other guy and now I feel guilty! Do I tell my bf of 3 years what I did?
Q. ok so i have a bf ok but all my friends say that hes using me as a 'trophy gf' as they all say im attractive.my bf is a cannabis user and this really annoys me because he never has the money to do things with me. the other month i got talkin t...
A. 21 December 2006: thats a very tricking situation...all i can say is hearing from u will hurt but not as much as i would if he heard it from someone else. So my advise is wait until after xmas to tell him.
good luck
i hope i've helped
and merry christma
-x... (read in full...)
How do you get over a crush?
Q. Hi, Just wondering if any one has any advice on how to get over a crush. The thing is, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I've met all of his friends but there's one that I really get on with. He's funny and we have a lot in commo...
A. 20 December 2006: Getting over a crush is different for everyone...it takes different amounts of time and different methods. All i can think to suggest is try to see hi as a good friend and that is all...concentrate on your relationship with your boyfriend and see ... (read in full...)
I'm flying from the US to England to meet my bf's family - but they detest Americans! I'm so nervous!!
Q. Hi, I'm in an LDR with an English guy (I'm in New York) and over the Christmas holiday I'm flying over there to spend time with him. During that time I'm meeting his family. I'm really nervous. In addition to normal nerves when meeting a boy...
A. 20 December 2006: I think you shouldnt been nervous...i undestand nereves come naturally in this kind of situation but they should decide if they like u or not on your personality...they shouldn't judge you my your home country. just be polite and smile.
good luck... (read in full...)
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