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writes: ok so i have a bf ok but all my friends say that hes using me as a 'trophy gf' as they all say im attractive.my bf is a cannabis user and this really annoys me because he never has the money to do things with me.the other month i got talkin to another guy n he was really sweet to me.he took me out bort me drinks n we had a great time together. so because im always feelin dwn cos of my bf,i turned to this new guy to cheer me up.and i found myself goin to see him alot but nothing really serious happened.then out of the blue the new guy told me he loved me and was askin me to break up with my bf, but i couldnt, but we still kept seein each other.then last sunday wen i went to see him, we had sex for the first time,i no i shudnt have but it felt so right!i was really happy the next day until he wouldnt return my calls or texts.my friends keep telling me hes used me but he reasurred me that he still loves me.but the past few days hes been acting really odd n wont speak t me properly or anything! i now feel like hes used me and iv dun a really bad thing by cheating on my bf of 3half years.i cant bring myself to tell my bf because i no it will ruin christmas and our realtionship.what should i do?
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reader, crystlay  +, writes (21 December 2006):
thats a very tricking situation...all i can say is hearing from u will hurt but not as much as i would if he heard it from someone else. So my advise is wait until after xmas to tell him.
good luck
i hope i've helped
and merry christma
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