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writes:Hi, its almost 5 months since my husband and I split up (married 7 years), I havent seen him for 3 months and am dreading the time when i have to. I am in the process of selling our home which is really upsetting me as we have only lived in it 3 years. I am tired of beating myself up about how things could have been done differently over the years, and that maybe this would never have happened. In the end I was alot more prepared to work on our problems than he was, our biggest issue was that i wanted to start a family and he decided he doesnt think he wants kids. It has been the most dreadful time, and although i feel better than i did, i cant imagine ever feeling happy again or wanting to be with anyone else. Any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 It's a pretty rough time for you right now, but it will get easier. I think you just need to focus on you and try to stay busy with whatever you enjoy doing. You will find love again whether you believe it or not right now. Down the road when you are rocking your baby to sleep you will see how things all work out for the good. Trust me.
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reader, crystlay +, writes (21 December 2006):
he obviously doesnt/didnt want to even try to sort things out...therefore he isnt worth. I'm taking it that you still have feelings for him. I think you should just have fun...go out with the girls...enjoy the life of a single woman. Then after a while find a new man one that possibly wants kids like you do and one that is a bit more sencertive and willing to work out problems rather than give up on them.good luck-x-
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