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| | *loudnine-andbeyond's profile:hey i'm ella. i live in england down on the south coast.
i love the sea and the beach as i have lived next to it all my life. I like to help people just because its doing good in the world and also because sometimes if you help someone your own problems become easier to sort out or at least seem less important in the long-run.
I love to write and draw, i can spend hours just drawing with music playing (normally blink182 or MCR, nirvana...you get the idea) i also dance alot which is very calming.. i forget every little problem i may have when i dance. if theres anything you want to know just send a message =] |
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My 17 year old boyfriend wants to have sex...I'm afraid!
Q. hi,i'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 17 he's always asking me if we could have sex but i'm afraid!! should i or not at this age?...
A. 28 December 2008: if your not comfortable with it then dont do it. and dont feel pressured into doing it either. it's your choice and no one elses ok? he cant tell you when you should (and if he loves you he will respect your decision what ever it may be)
all the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love, but is he?
Q. HELP! me and my boyfriend have only been going out a couple of days and he has been sayin that he loves me more then life its self and that he has never felt this way before. but now he is giving me the cold shoulder. he wont answer any of my texts ...
A. 26 December 2008: ignor him back. he doesnt deserve your attention. if you've only been going out for a few days and he's stupid enough to muck up all ready then hes not gonna be that great. you could probably do better. only accept an apology if it makes sense and ... (read in full...)
Can men get pregnant?
Q. I also have another question.. My dad told me to clean the inside part of my ''p-nis''. I cleaned it out, like he said. ( he wasn't watching by the way ) And then a few moments ( when i was cleaning it ) sperm came out. I was in the bath tub, the...
A. 26 December 2008: men cannot get pregnant unless they have had an operation to insert the female reproductive organs. dont worry any more. your fine. you dont carry the eggs needed for the sperm to combine with to start the pregnancy. ... (read in full...)
Was this just a normal curiousity phase I was going through?
Q. When I was about 12 or 13 years old I was babysitting this 1 year old boy. I still had not fully gone through puberty so I still had some maturing to do. When I would change him, I noticed that sometimes his penis would come up sometimes almost as ...
A. 26 December 2008: you were young. its understandable for you not to know whats right and wrong at that age. and just by the fact that you posted this on here proves that you are not a bad person. a bad person would not even consider asking for help because they ... (read in full...)
Counselor's advice professional? or what?
Q. sorry to bother you i'd like for advice to see is it right or not .maybe this sound i went a male counsllor he was helping with self esteem or so i thought ,i asked how would i get a boyfriend.this advice he gave me "a short skirt ,low cleav...
A. 22 December 2008: its not good advice at all. doing all of these things will either make you seem desperate or a bit slutty. just be yourself and wear nice, sophisticated clothes that make you look good but you should also feel comfortable in them; not having to ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex for just a minute-could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm just a bit worried.. Last night me and my boyfriend had sex, and we were both drunk. At one point the condom split, but we replaced it with another one. And a bit later on, we had sex without protection - only for about a minute, ...
A. 22 December 2008: i agree with annieapple, take the morning after pill if you are worried. if he didnt cum then its unlikely your pregnant but always be careful. all the best to you xx... (read in full...)
My sister has been diagnosed with cancer and I'm wishing for a X-mas miracle.
Q. my sister is 16 and has recently been diagnosed with cancer and she is really sick. im soo worried about her because she like my best friend and i dont know what i would do with out her. the doctors say she will be in hospital on christmas day. i ...
A. 19 December 2008: we know its hard but you need to take it day by day minute by minute if thats what it takes, we know its gonna be hard for you as our friend has recently been through this, and yes you need to spend as much time as u can with her, make every second ... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 19 December 2008: shoulders, back, penis... (read in full...)
Anxiety & panic attacks are ruining my life!
Q. hello friends, i suffer from anxiety and am tired of this problem. it keeps haunting me all the time. life has become a horror story for me. i have thought over this problem to the depth but i feel anxiety without any obvious reason and it has b...
A. 18 December 2008: hey, i have panic attacks too, infact everything you have written i know all about. you feel as if its never going to go away and you despratly try and forget about it. i have been to see my doctor and this is what he told me. you have to break the ... (read in full...)
Do his actions mean anything
Q. hello :) i would really love some opinions for my question it would be alot! its driving me crazzzy, ok lets cut to the point well i really like this lad, lol yes you have probably read loads of these questions but i really have no idea weth...
A. 18 December 2008: guys don't usual make effort when theres no effort to be made for any purpose helping them. the trick is to see if he does it with any other girls, if he only does it with you, then yes he probably likes you but is also shy (even if he doesnt seem ... (read in full...)
Should I see a doctor about this stuff?
Q. Im 16 and lately ive noticed that my vagina has been having some problems. i have tryed fingering and so have other people but its just like way to tight and it hurts way to much. ive noticed that sometimes this white liquidy stuff comes out and ...
A. 30 October 2008: the white liquid is called vaginal discharge, every girl has it. it helps protect that area from infection and stop your vagina from drying up.
your first time will hurt, everyones does. dont worry about it, this is all normal.
xxx... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends.
Q. How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends coz I was drunk and I dont know what took me that night. I was always the one against women getting hit or violence period and I'm the one involved in it so please ...
A. 30 October 2008: i would not go back to a guy who ahd hit me. unless he had a strong enough excuse, you being drunk at the time could just persuade her but the fact is.. what if you got drunk again and hit her again? thats what she will be thinking. limit your drink ... (read in full...)
Should I carry on with this long distance romance?
Q. Hi I'm 14 and live in manchester in england and met this girl on msn. I really like her and she likes me and we are dating. Howevver she lives in aberdeen and is 12. We really like each other but should i carry it on??...
A. 27 October 2008: hey. i am, like you, in a long distance relationship but i met him actually in person on holiday. me and him live the same distance apart as manchester and aberdeen. i do find it hard. seeming as you are only 14 and she is 12 and you havnt even ... (read in full...)
He is 18 and I'm 15, should I dare to ask him out??
Q. i really like this guy 'brian', but the problem is that he's eighteen and i'm only fifteen. but i've liked him since i was eleven and he was fifteen. he turned eighteen in july and i only turned fifteen yesterday. but anyway, i really want to tell ...
A. 26 October 2008: well at the moment i think as your 15 it could just be a crush. everyone gets them. my sister is 18 and her boyfriend is just turning 21. that is the same age gap but because they are older it doesnt seem to matter so much. if you really feel that ... (read in full...)
My 5 year old sister who lives with me and my girlfriend, has started asking me questions about birds and bees. I feel she is too young to know, what shall I do?
Q. My sister (who's 5) lives with me and my girlfriend (for personal reasons.) She keeps asking me sexual questions. Once she ask me what a blow job was. I told her that when its someone get paid to blow on stuff. She's way too young to know about this ...
A. 26 October 2008: first of all you need to question how she knows there is such a thing as a blow job. i didnt know that word until much older. i'm not saying that its you and your girlfriends fault. i'm not sure at what age kids go to school or play group in canada ... (read in full...)
How can I control my panic attacks??
Q. I hope someone can help.Every now and then,i get panic attacks.I think about death,and not being able to see family or friends again,e.t.c,and start shaking,get out of breath,and a couple of times,have even screamed with fright. How can i ...
A. 13 October 2008: i get panic attacks too, kinda about the same things just breath deeply and focus your mind on something else. i play sudoku or tetris but you could try word-searches or cross-words or something. i'm not sure how you could control them because ... (read in full...)
What does this girl want from me? Can anyone tell me?
Q. hello, i have a problem with some girl that i dont know: i went to new school and this girl in that school i just dont know her but she is always with a girlfrein of her in school. the story is when she sees me she laugh with her girlfrein...
A. 30 September 2008: she likes you, =D
flirt back, see what happens
goodluck ^^... (read in full...)
I feel I would look stupid kissing guys. How do I take the edge off so I can actually date?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm in high school but am worried about the way i look,like every other girl i guess.Most of my friends have boyfriends or have recently been in a relationship.I have not been in a relationship for over three years. ...
A. 21 September 2008: dont worry about how you look, if your happy then thats all that matters.
if you do like this guy then try to get to know him more... most importantly have fun!!! your only a teenager once... and anyway, your still young and most people of your age ... (read in full...)
I need some help with my bikini shopping!
Q. This might sound like a very stupid question but I'm actually stuck. I went shopping today for a bikini (I'm a happy size 14) but when I tried the bottoms on they were slightly tight, are bikini's meant to be like this or is it when they get we...
A. 12 September 2008: if you feel confident wearing one then wear one, if you look confident people will believe you are, i cant remember either whether they shrink or expand, mine stays the same size i think but then i could be wrong. be confident and wear wat u wanna. ... (read in full...)
Is it true LDRs never last?
Q. Is what they say about long distance relationships true? That they never last? I ask this because I really like this guy. He's sweet and caring and very romantic. We are good together. The only problem is that he's in the military and stationed ...
A. 10 September 2008: if you really love him and want to carry on the relationship i dont see why you cant. thousands of women have husbands in the army and their families survive as do their relationships. i am in an LDR myself... i have always found it hard to trust ... (read in full...)
How can I take a restraining order out on a family member?
Q. Well let me explain my situation. I'm 16 years old and i live in a house with my dad, mom, little sister and brother. My father has verbally attacked me and has struck me. He's even blacked my eye before. He doesn't take his aggression out on my 2 yo...
A. 6 August 2008: if you leave home at some point (which would be one way to solve it) would he start taking out his anger on your younger siblings? does your mum know? before you try anything like a restraining order see what your mum says. of it gets worse call ... (read in full...)
I hate being single and I have no experience of dating, please help.
Q. I'm a single teenager just finished high school and about to start college, and I hate being single but have no experience. How do I start off in the world of dating?...
A. 6 August 2008: if you see a guy that you like, try and get to know him... see where it leads. this wont work all the time but its good to meet new people and build on current relationships aswell. good luck! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex who thinks he can treat me really badly?
Q. Ano i am still young but when i was in 1st year i me this guy and i didnt like him atal but he liked me and asked me out.I felt bad and thought he was cute so i thought why not so i did but i then realised i dont want this i am too young so i dumped ...
A. 5 August 2008: first of all cut him out of your life more, not completely but just so he is a person you may see around and say 'hi' quickly but not talk to much. dont try and move on, just let it happen, look around you at the other guys, maybe even his friends ... (read in full...)
I just feel plain, dull, bored and boring. What can I do?
Q. I've been feeling dull lately. These last few weeks, when I wake up, I'm like "bleh". I don't get excited about life. It bores me, the routine, or I don't know. But I don't wake up feeling like I want to seize the day (like most of the time). I ...
A. 5 August 2008: i am in a similar situation, i have turned down going out with friends and just dont seem to be motivated anymore. i agree that maybe you should talk to someone, i'm going to if it gets worse. good luck, dont give up ^^ ... (read in full...)
Could he just want me for sex or does he want a relationship?
Q. Okay, so there is this guy... I've known him for a long time, we just recently started hanging out more though. I have hung out with him a couple of times in the past couple weeks, i really like him. hes really sweet, and he seems like the kind ...
A. 2 August 2008: i had a similar but not as persisting problem with a guy a while back. if he does not respect you for who you are and what you believe in then he is probably isnt good for you. if you ended up having sex with him just to keep him happy, he would ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex but no girl want to go out with me!
Q. I am a 14 year old boy, and im ready to have sex. I know all about it but i dont know how to get a girl, because no girl want to go out with me. Can you help me? ...
A. 2 August 2008: i'm slightly older than you and i can tell you now that is NOT the way to get a girlfriend. and if you did, she wouldn't be 'ready' anyway. and as the others replying to this have said you are not mature enough yet and just want it. give it time, be ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex but no girl want to go out with me!
Q. I am a 14 year old boy, and im ready to have sex. I know all about it but i dont know how to get a girl, because no girl want to go out with me. Can you help me? ...
A. 2 August 2008: i'm slightly older than you and i can tell you now that is NOT the way to get a girlfriend. and if you did, she wouldn't be 'ready' anyway. and as the others replying to this have said you are not mature enough yet and just want it. give it time, be ... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband in order to be with an ex of 28 years ago - how do I rid of my hubby gently?
Q. I have been talking to my ex-boyfriend of 28 years ago. Out of the blue he called me when he wsa in the Bay Area and we found out that we both still have feelings for each other but I am married and want to leave my husband. I have from time to ...
A. 28 July 2008: well i am going to take ur childrens perspective on this, even though your current husband does all of these terrible things i'm sure they love him. but his lifstyle does not sound like its the best environment to bring up children especially at the ... (read in full...)
I like another guy, but for some reason I can't leave my boyfriend.
Q. ok, i really like this guy, *Trevor, but i have a boyfriend. things are pretty rocky with my boyfriend and normally i would get out of the relationship but i hesitate whenever i think of him not being my boyfriend. but i really like trevor. its very ...
A. 28 July 2008: you want to be in a happy relationship right? if your current bf is being like you say he is then get out of the relationship. just dont move to fast with trevor, cause if you go out with him too soon after then people might get the wrong idea about ... (read in full...)
Did she cheat, lie or is she innocent?
Q. i have been seeing my girlfriend for a year now and ive always trusted her, i joined the army which put a bit of strain on our relationship, but its fine now. One day whilst i was in training she told me she was busy and couldn't phone, but i later ...
A. 28 July 2008: i dont think that she would lie by the sounds of it. the other guy might just want to make it sound way more than it was just because he likes her but knows he can never be with her because of you. jealousy.... (read in full...)
I'd like to me more than 'good friends', but I don't think he's getting the hint.
Q. Hi, i'm 17 and in need of some love guidance. There's this guy I've known for over a year and we get on great. We talk/see each other on a daily basis, flirt, know tons about each other, make each other laugh (sometimes we tease but we both know...
A. 28 July 2008: well as i have discovered, guys do not get hints terrifically well, but seeming as he is talking to you on the phone for over an hour.... well that does seem promising, if you feel confident enough then ask him about it. just watch out that he ... (read in full...)
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