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female
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30-35,
*wanny
writes:Ano i am still young but when i was in 1st year i me this guy and i didnt like him atal but he liked me and asked me out.I felt bad and thought he was cute so i thought why not so i did but i then realised i dont want this i am too young so i dumped him the week after.Then the next day he was going out with someone else and thats when i realised i liked him so i asked him back out thinking he would say yes but he didnt.I got so jelous and was so nasty to his girlfriend thinking he would dump her for me.They soon split up a few months later but he wouldnt go back out with me.Months dragged on and he kept getting girlfriends and then i realised that he wont go out with me so whats the point?. I had given up and i was fine , yeah i was jelous still but i accepted it.But ages after he then started talkin to me and i obviously didnt egnore him cause it came back to me al the feelings that i had for him.I appologized for everything and we became friends.Then me and my friends would meet up with his friends and him alot.We would text each other all the time and he would flirt with me.When it became to summer he still never went out with me but we started seeing each other for 6months.But towards the end of the 6 months i would go into see hm but he wouldnt come out his house and when he did he egnored me and talked to my friend.It made me feel like complete s*** and i would cry alot too(which he knew but didnt care).I would think aw maybe hes just in a mood that day so i continued to try again but he still never. Then he said he would just want to be friends and he wanted to see other girls. I shouldnt of even let him end it once he treated me like that, i should of ended it well before.After that i found out him seeing me was all a lie cause it was his friend who told him to so that ment he didnt want to in the first place.After that i was so angry and upset i didnt talk to him and the worse thing was he didnt even say sorry for everything.Time past and i forgave him and i would meet up with him as friends but i would always love him and he knew that.Then he started to take advantage of the fact that i liked him so much. He would start asking me for rude pictures and i sent him them just because i thought if i didnt then he wouldnt like me or talk to me as much. Now he thinks he can do that all the time.And since he knows how much i like him he tries to anoy me and make me upset by saying thing about other girls and everything.I just realy dont want to like him anymore and i dont know what to do, people say it'll get easier but it realy doesnt.I still want to stay friends with him though , i just dont want to love him anymore,i want him to think hes not everything i need and that i can cope without him,and to be honest he isnt good looking so i just dont know why i even bother. I think the reason i still like him even though he treats me like this is because when i was seeing him or whatever was happenindg, he was nice half the time, and he would cuddle me and ask if im ok, and i just have so many good memories i just cant let go but i know i realy have to so someone please comment and help me.Because i want to get over him before he finds someone to go out with because i will be so depressed cause i dont like thinking that he could love someone as much as i love him :'(
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reader, cloudnine-andbeyond +, writes (5 August 2008):
 first of all cut him out of your life more, not completely but just so he is a person you may see around and say 'hi' quickly but not talk to much. dont try and move on, just let it happen, look around you at the other guys, maybe even his friends (but if they r friends with him then they might be of the same sort) find a nice caring guy. a guy who realy likes you would be nice ALL of the time unless there is something seriously wrong. he does not deserve the love you have for him. you will get over him in time, and no it may not be easy but as soon as you stop talking to him as much and meet up with other people, he will drift into your past until you are ready to take him back as a friend xxx
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reader, xLovex +, writes (5 August 2008):
I know this may not seem ideal right now but you should go out with your friends again and see other guys and I am sure you will get over him. If that doesn't work a box of chocs, ice cream and a good old chic flic will do the trick :D
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