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writes:I am a 14 year old boy, and im ready to have sex. I know all about it but i dont know how to get a girl, because no girl want to go out with me. Can you help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): im 14 and im nt having sex either but i can get a girlfriend they just dnt want it like me. 2 get a girlfriend sumtimes u gotta lie. and im assuming u have 2 lie 2 havesex so wen u get a girl make sure u tel her u love her and u have 2 be commited 2 ur lie. even if u dnt like the girl make sure she duznt knw that. trust me and learn from my mistakes and ull get poonanny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): 2 out of 3 girls are sexually abused in a relationship. Please don't add to that statistic. When you do get a girlfriend, no matter how 'ready' you feel for sex, you need to make sure everything you're doing will be okay for the girl. Try not to pressure her into anything, because in general, it's a bigger deal to girls than guys can imagine. A lot of girls want to wait until they're at least out of highschool. Please just remember to respect the girl (:
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (3 August 2008):
Yeah dude! Cmon.. You can't just go..and meet a girl and all of a sudden your gunna have sex! That's not how girls role, playa! Lol just...hang out with girls and just be your self but just if you do get a girlfriend, wait a while and make sure SHE wants to have sex. Don't just rush in cuz then, she will think ur just after sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Your not ready.. you want sex... well go and play with yourself.. when your ready to have sex with a girl, friendship and loving will come long before sex is an issue.. Your too young, you can't find a girl because you haven't yet learnt to be a friend... Sorry.. Things will change in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): If you never had sex, how can you know all about it? If you say this because you have been watching porn, I have news for you.....that's not really how sex is LOL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Well, I must admit you have guts! No wonder no girl's fallen for you! It seems like all you want is sex- you don't care for her as a friend, just a sex buddy!!!!
Jelly
xx
(ps. not signed in cozy I'm on my wii!)
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reader, cloudnine-andbeyond  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 i'm slightly older than you and i can tell you now that is NOT the way to get a girlfriend. and if you did, she wouldn't be 'ready' anyway. and as the others replying to this have said you are not mature enough yet and just want it. give it time, be nice to the girls that you know and if you do get a girlfriend take it slowly, holding hands and stuff, AND MAKE SUER YOU LIKE HER.
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reader, cloudnine-andbeyond +, writes (2 August 2008):
i'm slightly older than you and i can tell you now that is NOT the way to get a girlfriend. and if you did, she wouldn't be 'ready' anyway. and as the others replying to this have said you are not mature enough yet and just want it. give it time, be nice to the girls that you know and if you do get a girlfriend take it slowly, holding hands and stuff, AND MAKE SUER YOU LIKE HER.
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 August 2008):
 You are only 14 years old, although you may think you are ready for sex you are most cerainly not. I thought like that when i was 14, it was only when i matured and got older that i reaslise that i was not really mature atal. As for no girl wanting to go out with you, give it time, don't be in a rush to meet a girl, relax, enjoy being young, have fun with you mates. The likellhood is that you will meet a really nice girl when you very least expect it.
All the best
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 August 2008):
You are ready for sex? Did you just wake up this morning and realise that you have hit that level of emotional maturity?
I think it is more the case that you WANT sex. Whether you can handle it is something you won't find out.
All 14 yearold boys want to have sex. It's a fact of life. However, unless you pay to go to a prostitute then you are pretty much stuck.
Most girls your age are happy to hold hands and kiss but nothing more. You are just going to have to wait a couple of years, get to know some girls and then take it from there.
A girl will realise within a day of going out with you that you want to use her for sex and dump her so work on actually falling for someone first.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Your 14, and your NOT ready for sex.
You think you are. You think your a very mature person. Your not. You will learn this and will come to realize it when you older.
As for girls going out with you, you need to be less shallow and not go for appearance rather than personality. Actually talk and get to know them.
I mean your 14 years old, you probably don't sit down and listen maturely to girls so I seriously suggest you just carry on what your doing and you'll gradually mature on your own.
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