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I live in the United Kingdom.
I really like helping people out with their problems. Though I tend to give advice and ignore my own, I have helped people through really tough situations and believe everyone should have people able to help them out. Yeah, I admit it, I am single, but that does'nt matter does it? I'm 14! I have my whole life I'm not going to rush to find someone, let them find me. So I'm focusing on my studies now seeing as you only realy get one chance at doing them. It's important that I also do this because my GCSE's are coming up and yes, they are still important to help me secure my future. My Mum and Dad have no qualifications and are on benifits. The benefits don't really help much seeing as we are a familly of 9 with a tenth on the way. In my life I want to have enough money for nesceties like food and a roof on my head. Then, while setting money aside for my childrens futures, I will want to have 2 children with a 2 year gap between them and raise them up away from bullies in a nice area so they can have a better chance at life. :P |
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My friend turns against me when I protect him from the bullies, I'm confused!
Q. My friend is being bullied by a girl (just teasing) and told me not to tell. Should I tell anyway or listen to him? Once I stood up for him (he doesn't stand up for himself) and now the bullies thinks his "girlfriend" needs to protect him. He got ...
A. 27 July 2008: Hey Maggi,
That's a very couragous thing to stand up for your friend like that. There are a lot of people who just sit back whilst something like that happens you are a person with high morals; that's a good thing!
He's wondering why yo... (read in full...)
He swears he has feelings for me. Why do I find it so hard to believe him?
Q. This is a kind of complicated problem, but please try to understand it. Ok, so my problem is with a lad who Im good friends with. Im 15 and he's 17. We've always been good friends, but recently Ive developed much, much stronger feelings for him (not ...
A. 25 July 2008: [x.B.x] I think you my just be having cold feet from what you feel for this guy, perhaps you have had past relationships that haven't turned out quite the way you had hoped. What could do if your not sure his feelings for you are true is ask ... (read in full...)
I let a couple of friends down seeing my boyfriend instead. Now it seems they don't want us to hang out this summer. Have I really ruined it?
Q. hey. So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months now (pretty amazing for me) but recetnly friends have been getting funny with me about seein him. We have like a routine and we go round each others houses etc. and to be honest I...
A. 25 July 2008: Okay, you have a boyfriend and you have lots of friends that's always a good thing.
Perhaps your friends are having issues with having to share you. We all get jealous of having to share someone with other people some time in life, you can't st... (read in full...)
My dad is cheating on my mum. Who can I speak to about it?
Q. I'm 15, Me and my older brother saw texts on my dad's fone to another woman saying 'Honey, I love you'. My parents are still together, but my mum doesn not know. My brother and I confronted him RIGHT now and he lied, we showed him the texts and...
A. 25 July 2008: Okay first off don't jump to conclusions, this may or may not be what you think it is. There are many types of love, not just the romantic type. This women may just be an old friend who has just gone through a tough ordeal and she is just thanking ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about contraception.
Q. How do I start..my girl friend is on birth control! ok..she tells me to come in her all the time but the thing is that I don't want no kids + I'm a lil bit scared of what is gonna happen with my sperm that goes inside of her...is the sperm gonna be ...
A. 14 October 2007: Phiatiger is right, Wear a condom, and a child is definately for life.
Take Care... (read in full...)
He came home at 6 AM with lipstick on his collar!
Q. I have been with partner for 2 years, we have just bought a house only 2 months ago. i love him very much but i dont trust him. he went out with work and didnt come home till 6.30 in the morning, while he was out i tried to phone him several times ...
A. 13 October 2007: Humans are the only living animals that don't act on their gut instincts straight the way; I agree with flower girl.
Clickyclick... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with my appearance!
Q. How do I learn to love how I look? I've struggled with my self esteem for most of my life. I hate my body and I hate my face. People do compliment me on my looks but I feel that they are probably lying for my benefit. I eat a very healthy diet and...
A. 13 October 2007: flowergirl is right babe.... (read in full...)
Shall I keep ignoring my coworker's gossip or go to my boss and report this?
Q. hello dear cupid and to all of you, i just really need help veeeeeeeery much. i am working at hotel. i have this co"workers of mine who like gossip so much, everytime she is talking to our guest she always tell them bad things about me" and not only ...
A. 13 October 2007: Every one is subject to bully at some point in their life. Whether or not it is Physical or verbal it still is'nt a nice thing. There is something you can do about it. Talk to your boss and see what he can do about it. No one likes bullying.
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I told him jokingly it wouldn't be my fault if I cheated on him, as he was not physically with me! Soon after we broke up. Did he ever love me?
Q. hi im 16 yr old and i met this 18 yr old guy 1 week b4 my 16th bday and on the 3rd night we slept together and it was my first time he was so full on and told me by the 2nd week he was in love with me and he was over the whole dating thing and he ...
A. 13 October 2007: Well, this guy seems like he was all words nothing else. It sounds like he was just saying he wanted to marry you just to relive his sexual needs. Babe, if a guy treats you this way it's obvious he don't trust you or love you, but then again he ... (read in full...)
She got violently raped and beaten 8 months ago. Since then I try to make her feel loved and comfortable but it's getting so difficult I am thinking of leaving her. What can I do? She does go counsellig.
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years we have lived together for about 2 years as well and we are very in love. Everything was great until she got violently raped and beaten badly about 8 months ago. She ended up in the hospital for about 4 ...
A. 13 October 2007: I agree with brooke you should see a counsellor as well or maybe to help fortify your bond with her go and join her in her sessions aswell.
Good Luck,
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She got violently raped and beaten 8 months ago. Since then I try to make her feel loved and comfortable but it's getting so difficult I am thinking of leaving her. What can I do? She does go counsellig.
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years we have lived together for about 2 years as well and we are very in love. Everything was great until she got violently raped and beaten badly about 8 months ago. She ended up in the hospital for about 4 ...
A. 13 October 2007: Well first of all I would advise you that leaving her would realy make her feel worse possibly suicidle. I think leaving her would just be the easy option for you but it wont make you feel much better you will start feeling guilty and depressed.
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I started kissing randomly a female-friend, another friend walked in on us. She swore she wouldn't tell, how do I make sure I can trust her?
Q. i am very interested in men... but i had a few friends sleeping over and we drunk alot of alcohol, and me and a close friend started kissing randomly i have never done this before, and i was not at all interested in my friend that way. however ...
A. 13 October 2007: Well if she is truly your friend she won't tell anyone, but if you feel she might you could sort of reassure her that it was as friends nuffin more my friend who is a girl snogs other girls as friends sumtyms but she is straight. Put it this way if ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous that my ex hasn't invited me to their party. Am I just being immature?
Q. My ex is havin a party tonight and for some stupid reason Im upset that I havent been invited - even though we broke up a month ago. Everyone is goin, even my friends, and I cant be angry with them for goin as its not their business that me and him ...
A. 13 October 2007: Well it's natural to be jealous of not being invited, one of my friends had a sleepover and invited everyone but me and they had a really great time. Here's an idea; why don't you go out to the video shop rent a kewl Video or DVD buy some popcorn, ... (read in full...)
I've hurt my chestbone after I fell, and it hurts to take deep breaths... How can I stop the pain?
Q. Fell about an hour ago. Banged my chestbone and hurts when i take a deep breath. Very shaken. What can i do to stop the pain?...
A. 13 October 2007: Could depend how hard you fell but most of the time you will feel pain if you hurt yourself on your chest and will probs heal on its own because i was on a trampoline and I had a 19 year old lad kneeling on my chest which made it hurt for like a day ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 17, is it wrong to date?
Q. Hey.. Im a 14 year old girl.. and in love with a 17 year old guy.. He feels the same way about me. We care for each other, and I personally could ever love anyone more then I love him.. We both want a future together, but some people deem it a...
A. 13 October 2007: Well maybe your brother and your bf can start to bond a bit aswell or if they alreddy r then thats gud!! When other people say that they think its wrong it does'nt mean its wrong, it's their way of seyin that they would'nt do that. But its perfectly ... (read in full...)
Have I been blind?
Q. I've just entered my 4th year in school and some of my best friends have pretty much ditched me but I'm still alright with the bulk of my old class. I'm finding it difficult to get a new set of friends that I fit in well with from my new class and a ...
A. 12 October 2007: Well if you're having trouble fitting in with a new set of friends you can always try to engage in someone elses interests and maybe you could start talking to them about it.
It's good you're thinking out all the possibilities, but the chance o... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 17, is it wrong to date?
Q. Hey.. Im a 14 year old girl.. and in love with a 17 year old guy.. He feels the same way about me. We care for each other, and I personally could ever love anyone more then I love him.. We both want a future together, but some people deem it a...
A. 12 October 2007: It is legal to date anyone, but, as I'm sure you will know it's ilegal to have a sexual relationship with another person untill your of age.
It's completely natural that girls prefer older men, as girls mature faster than boys, most girls do... (read in full...)
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