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anonymous
writes:i am very interested in men... but i had a few friends sleeping over and we drunk alot of alcohol, and me and a close friend started kissing randomly i have never done this before, and i was not at all interested in my friend that way. however another one of my friend walked in on us and im not sure whether i can trust her, she swore she wouldnt tell and has been fine with us since, but how can i be sure she is trustworthy??please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all that helped...
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (13 October 2007):
If she is a good friend, she'll keep it a secret. You cannot make sure she won't tell though. Even if word gets out, don't worry. To some guys your age, that is probably a turn on.
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 October 2007):
 Usually with good friends you can trust them. If it comes up say this "I sure did, and it matters to you, Why?"
One thing you don't want to do is deny it. Denying that you kisses a girl can be viewed as very disrespectful to the girl and may make her feel as if you're embarrassed that it was her you were caught with.
Also if you admit it, and don't seem ashamed when you do, you won't be picked on for it. People don't pick on those they feel won't bug them if they do. They pick on the week that they can cause embarrassment to.
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reader, clickyclick +, writes (13 October 2007):
 Well if she is truly your friend she won't tell anyone, but if you feel she might you could sort of reassure her that it was as friends nuffin more my friend who is a girl snogs other girls as friends sumtyms but she is straight. Put it this way if she can keep this she is trustworthy and make sure she knows you wer drunk.
Good Luck,
Clickyclick
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