Why did she marry me if she now wants to live the single life and date other men? Should I continue to stand by her and wait for her to come back?
Q. "this is very long but please bare with me, its important and i could really use any sort of advice" hey, im 22 and been married for just over a year, my wife, 24, and i have a 1 year old boy together. we both used to be so incredibly happy, i...
A. 12 February 2011: Omg. I knew it, what a BadGuy! You know what? That's her loss. I don't get why your child is going to spend more time with this other guy. Please don't tell me you're going to give up on your child now! You need to be in your sons life with more ... (read in full...)
Why did she marry me if she now wants to live the single life and date other men? Should I continue to stand by her and wait for her to come back?
Q. "this is very long but please bare with me, its important and i could really use any sort of advice" hey, im 22 and been married for just over a year, my wife, 24, and i have a 1 year old boy together. we both used to be so incredibly happy, i...
A. 10 February 2011: Omg I can't believe she's doing this to u. She's obviously bored because u do everything she's asks for. U realy need to stand up for yourself why does she get to choose what happens to your family. You need to let go. My brothers wife did the same ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend hate me because I follow his orders?
Q. What is going on with my boyfriend?! Is he my boyfriend?! I'm so confused. He breaks up with me every other month and gets a new girlfriend, and every time I lock myself up in my bedroom and hide from him and the world. This turns him into a monster ...
A. 10 February 2011: R u Serious right now? Why the hell would u let any guy do this to? The reason he hates u is because u put up w/this he lost all respect for u. U realy need to grow up and let this guy go! Why would u lock yourself in the room and cry when he's out ... (read in full...)
In Love With Potential Step Sister
Q. Hi there, I'm 19 and my mums boyfriends daughter is 17, for the last 6 months I've been sleeping with her every week and we've fallen in love, she stays over at my house every Saturday night, my mum and her boyfriend go out every sunday early mor...
A. 9 February 2011: I think the reason u guys fell hard for eachother is because its such a thrill for both of u to be together. I wouldn't say anything @ all right now wait right now because u realy wouldn't want to ruin anything. I don't realy see why they would ... (read in full...)
Do I write an apology letter to his other girl?
Q. I have previously asked for advice on this situation, but now it has become even more complicated. I am 8 weeks pregnant with my ex boyfriends child. Me and him had been together for two years and it was a roller coaster, off and on again ...
A. 5 February 2011: The only person that should be writing a sorry letter is him to both of u. I understand u want her to know your side u could send her a letter explaning your side but u have nothing to aplogize for u did nothing wrong. If u knew about her that's a ... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you ever change your personality for your boyfriend?
Q. Ladies, would you ever change your personality for your boyfriend? Personality as in being more assertive, more sexy or just overall more "loving" to them even though you have been doing just fine since your relationship kicked off. Just a si...
A. 4 February 2011: I would never ever change who I am as long as I'm happy about myself. If the man doesn't love you the way you are then why is he with you in the first place. Obviously, he chose you for the way you were when he met you. If the guy is not happy, tell ... (read in full...)
I feel like my soul left since the day we broke up. I can't get over her!
Q. Hi. I am writing again, because I feel like I have no one to talk to about my problem. To rehash my story, the love of my life left me almost 4 years ago after being together for almost 5 years long distance. I have not been able to get over her. ...
A. 29 January 2011: I think u need closure. She just left w/out telling u why and also she's your first no matter what happens in life she will always have a spot in your heart that's normal. Usualy the 1st is the hardest to get over and most people I know still get ... (read in full...)
Am I too big to go on top?
Q. I think i am to big to get on top of him, but i have heard people say that its not your weight that your puting on top of him and i just dont get it, i am sure my fiance would be open to try it but it would be like having to practice and that is ...
A. 21 January 2011: I have a cousin that's about your wieght and that actualy is her fav position. So yes its possible u all your wieght on your knees don't sit all the way. U could try practicing by yourself. Want is even a funner way to be on top is if u have a ... (read in full...)
Leo guy has Libra female confused
Q. Recently got chatting to a british soldier deployed overseas. Seem to really click and have been chatting nearly every day for over a month. Have agreed to meet up when he is back from duty, which will be in a couple of months. Sometimes he is qu...
A. 4 January 2011: Leos love compliments they could never get enough. That is 1 of the most ways to get his attention and make him fall inlove. He is a king and u have to remember that he likes everything his way no questions asked. If u like to lead and take control ... (read in full...)
My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.
Q. me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?...
A. 31 December 2010: U need to learn the word HELL NO!!!! Why in the world would she even think about it if she wasn't happy she shouldn't have gotten married to u. My guess is she's gonna do it any ways if you've been married for only 6 months and she already wants ... (read in full...)
Browsing the interent for a nice dress, any suggestions for sites?
Q. I have a day event with my bf in a few weeks and I'd like to find a nice dress to wear [day dress]. I live in UK and want to buy online. I have looked on asos.com but can anyone name any likewise websites that arent just online street shops. Thank ...
A. 27 December 2010: BeBe dresses r the best here in the U.S. They're hot but kinda run small so order 1 size bigger trust me. ... (read in full...)
Why am I so obsessed with his previous relationship?
Q. wel here goes... my boyfriend of one yr had a fiance of 8 yrs, had two kids with her. I can be a very jealous person anyways and am booked in to see a counsellor in the New Year. however, the holidays has thrown up a lot of jealous emotions ...
A. 26 December 2010: I kind of don't blame u that's a lot of shoes to fill. But that's why he's w/u youer different and he's not bored w/u. I'm pretty sure if u keep bringing it up while he's realy trying to get over it youyr just making it worst for yourself. Your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her parents?
Q. My best friend and I have been friends for 4 years now. And we both go to the same school. He started dating this girl that we both became really close too, and it came to the point where she fell for me over him. They broke up and we’re dating now. ...
A. 20 December 2010: Sorry but that's realy shay. U need to step in and speak to her about it,if she had no problem speaking to her parents about him then there shouldn't be a problem w/u. And why is he @ her house till 11? He also has no respect for u maybe he's just ... (read in full...)
Biggest chopper???
Q. This is for the girls. What are the dimensions of the biggest penis a guy you had sex with? My girlfriend won't have sex with me cuz she says I'm too big. True I'm bigger than average but I want to show her it's possible for us. I've had sex with ...
A. 17 December 2010: Ok that's huge!! Just to let u know a lot of girls r realy sensitive if it goes in to deep. Start off slow so her body doesn't go in shock and tense up. It will be less painful have fun trying!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has stopped replying to my texts!
Q. My boyfriend stop replying my text since like 2 days ago. I dont know why he stop replying me. We didnt quarrel when we last text each other. I didnt say anything to piss him off. I have texted him yesterday and today asking why hasnt he reply. I ...
A. 15 December 2010: U sound like a stalker! Leave it alone. If a guy doesn't answer your text then that means he doesn't want to talk or he might be grounded. Just leave it alone wait till he calls u if he doesn't then its pretty much over. But just to let u know the ... (read in full...)
Part of me wants to stay, but part of me really wants to go over... what should I do?
Q. Hi, I don't have a DearCupid account, I'm using it on behalf of a friend. I'm 19 years old, and I'm female. I live in a part of Australia that is a bit remote from the rest. I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple of years. We've broken up ...
A. 13 December 2010: I think u need to move on you're dating because u need to find out what u like and dislike about a guy,so when u do find the right 1 you'll know that's why u get to break up when your dating. I say move on to the other guy try him life is to short ... (read in full...)
Is it a turnoff to look older than you really are?
Q. I was out the other night with a group of friends, we went to a restaurant to eat. Our waitress looked about my age and was fairly attractive, and I made a comment to my friends saying as much. My friend's girlfriend looked at me funny and made a ...
A. 10 December 2010: I agree w/Love is the answer but girls also don't like guys that still look like they're to young either maybe its the way u dress see whateverybody else is wearing or hairstyles it helps. Maybe u need to shave or get youyr eyebrows done nobody said ... (read in full...)
She is dating someone else, but asks me for help with everything!
Q. hi, i have a friend who is a girl. yes I am sweet on her a little,but I was okay with being her friend because she has a guy she is seeing but here is the thing, the guy is a big shot sort of and is always busy. so she ends up asking me to do ...
A. 10 December 2010: It sounds to me like u do have feelings for her. No girl will ever like u in that way if your the guy w/the shoulder to cry on u need to be a man and say no he obviously does and that's why she likes him a girl wants a man that is achallenge for her ... (read in full...)
I acted as if I had an abortion!
Q. i have just started talking to the teacher who betrayed me a year ago after i found out i was pregnant and confided in her. i've never had the confidence to talk about what happened next even when i forgave her. i'll never forget what she did. We ...
A. 10 December 2010: Well I think its none of her business as long as your parents know what happened and your happy. I don't think she should have told u to abort what's it to her what if u grew up and regreted it. BTW what did u end up doing w/the baby???? Just tell ... (read in full...)
I'm not happy about my girlfriend's pregnancy, I don't want to let my dreams and goals go down the drain!
Q. I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We found out a couple weeks ago that she is pregnant, and she's ecstatic, I am more reserved. When we found out our reactions were very different, she was happy, I was upset. To cut a long story short she has decided ...
A. 6 December 2010: GROW UP!!! This is a human being were talking about not a car or shirt that u think u could just give away!! Your dreams could wait or she could watch the baby while u fullfil your dreams I don't get why people think there dreams have to die just ... (read in full...)
How do you grind (dancing)?
Q. I have this thing at my school very soon they call it the black out dance and I don't know how to grind this guy said he will dance with me if I go I'm really scared that when we dance I will mess up and he wont want to dance with me anymore... so ...
A. 2 November 2010: Rule#1 u need a mirror to watch yourself put on a dance video and try to do what they're doing
#2 its all in the hips u need to see how flexible u r try moving it in circles slowly then go w/ a beat.
#3 u need to lear how to do the booty bop... (read in full...)
Is my husband in love with his best friend?
Q. Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been ...
A. 27 October 2010: I don't think u should worry about anything as long as u trust your hubby I mean ha told u the truth about everything (hopefully) but realy I don't think u shouldve said no to him being friends w/that guy I think u should say what ever u think the ... (read in full...)
Am I really the fool they want me to think I am?
Q. I'm feeling pretty crappy these days after 11 years of marriage. Both sides of our family insist on pointing out what a tramp my wife was as a teen and the things she did in bed with her ex HB. He apparently made things known. I knew a lot about my ...
A. 14 October 2010: Omg her family r the crazy 1 its plain jealousy. What is ther problem and what ever she did w/her ex is there buisness not there's or yours. Your only being a great husband to your wife and I think the only reason she doesn't do certaim things w/u ... (read in full...)
Whenever I want to have a relationship, it never works out!
Q. Alright I'm pretty sure this is said quite a bit but here goes... I'm an attractive guy I'm told quite a bit all through high school and middle school. I am always called and sent messages on my phone and facebook about my lady friends wanting ...
A. 14 October 2010: Most girls love a guy who's hard to get and u spilling of your life to them makes to easy they want to work hard to get to know u we don't like anything easy we usualy want a guy we think we could fix I'm not saying be a real bad boy but act like u ... (read in full...)
Amazing guy who ticks all my boxes but he's engaged!
Q. I'm really unsure what to do. I have me an amazing guy who basically ticks eveyone of my boxes but he is engaged. I know I should just cut all ties but I can't help thinking that maybe I should see what happens, or am I just setting myself up for a ...
A. 14 October 2010: I have a friend who is also engaged and loves his girl very much,but his personality is very very flirtatious w/girls and I know a few of my friends think the same way u do cause that's exactly what they say to me that might just be the way his ... (read in full...)
How do I stop this crazy crush?
Q. I need help!! I've been married for 8 yrs, he has a younger brother that doesn't really get along w/his own family so when I do get to see him he never speaks to anyone. He usually comes home, showers and leaves, I usually love when I get attention ...
A. 14 October 2010: Thanks big russ that is good advise I wlill start thinking about everything that turns me off but it is gonna take a lot of work cause it took 2 yrs to develope this crush. I think this is the craziest thing that has ever happened to me I never ... (read in full...)
I love my neighbor who's twice my age and never been married...what do I do?
Q. I moved into my house about 9 months ago and have been single since then. However, I have a neighbor (literally 2X my age) who's never been married but has had a "girlfriend" for 12 years. She only comes over on Sunday and they are completely ...
A. 13 October 2010: I wouldn't take it personal I think he has commitment issues that's prob why things r still not good w/the sunday visitor I would just move on to a different guy,cause I feel like you're just gonna keep getting hurt and y put yourself through ... (read in full...)
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