Why does my male friend claim we are "good friends" but wont ever treat me like our other friends? I'm sure there is an underlying reason behind his behaviour.....
Q. Hi i hope you can help me here. A friend of mine...hes a guy we;ve known each other a few years. He says to people he wants to be good friends with me, hes said to me before we're great friends, he'll never fall out with me and he loves me as a...
A. 20 May 2010: To be honest, I can't see why he is classed as your "friend" when he treats you like this. You should ask him outright, and say look i need to know becuase this is not how friends act together, and if there is a reason you cna resolve it. if not, ... (read in full...)
Why can't he say were girlfriend and boyfriend when we only date each other?
Q. Hi I have seeing this guy for like 2 months now but i'm not sure if were a couple, so I striaght out asked him am I your girlfriend and he said that we were dateing. So I said ok dose that make me your girlfriend and i wanted a yes or no answer but ...
A. 19 May 2010: In addition to the other good comments from people, guys are very different in thinking to women. You will know you want to be with him and he knows, deep down he wants to be with you, but men need to make sure they are not rushing in. bit of a ... (read in full...)
I want her back so badly despite having an affair with my friend, but she cant decide who she wants to be with!
Q. So I've been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years and shes is the most amazing person i have ever met hands down. My problem is that recently at a party she had sex with one of my "friends". They started texting about personal things behind my back and ...
A. 19 May 2010: Hi, you need to let her go! It doesnt matter how much you love her, or if she is the most amazing person you've ever met - she cheated on you with your friend. She slept with someone else. She knows that you love her and she is amazing which is why ... (read in full...)
The guy I am dating walked out on me in the middle of having sex!
Q. Hey guys, So heres my situation.Last night i was with a guy i like.It was only our second meeting but things got on and we started making out and before i knew it there was sex.I know i should have waited when i think of it now.Moreover i was so s...
A. 19 May 2010: I think you should apologise, explain that you were very tired and not feeling your best, and remind him of how much chemistry you had before and how much you like him - you may need to cool things off and just hang out as friends for a while x... (read in full...)
I have not spoken to her since she cancelled our date, how should I approach this?
Q. I've been out with someone a few times and it seems to have gone well. She agreed to come out again last week. Following this she messaged me for three days in a row initiating conversation/joking etc. On the day we were suppposed to go out ...
A. 19 May 2010: I wouldn't make a big deal out the fact she cancelled. Just text her as normal, asking how she is, and see what the response is. Don't read too much into the cancelling - some things you can't help! and she obviously likes you if you've been out a ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to leave someone you love but who constantly puts you down?
Q. I love my wife dearly, i would do anything for her... Sometimes she's this angel I love and adore so much and is so nice to me but the next minute she critisizes everything I do and puts me down, questioning me all the time, putting words in my ...
A. 19 May 2010: I think the main problem behind your wife's behaviour is insecurity. Try and talk to her and make her feel loved, and most importantly make sure you tell her you won't judge her what ever the problem is. she is probably worrying over nothing, but is ... (read in full...)
He has been flirting with other girls on Facebook, and he doesn't even see this as being a problem!
Q. i recently opened up a facebook account to keep in touch with my old school mates however when i went onto my bf of 2 years page i saw that he had been flirting with some girls online saying things such as oh you such a hottie and calling other ...
A. 19 May 2010: I don't think there's anything wrong in calling people "love, sweetie" etc although it would depend on who he is saying it to for me personally.
However, if he is saying things like "your such a hottie" i think this is wrong, ask him about it... (read in full...)
I really like him but I am confused over his mixed messages
Q. I met a man a few months ago, he is a manager of a pub where i sometimes drink and my daughter and her friends drink there. We kissed before but a couple of weeks ago he asked if i would like a drink after the pub shut and i went. we kissed and ...
A. 19 May 2010: Hi, I think it sounds like he is also a bit confused as to what he's doing. I think he obviously likes you because he asked you for a drink etc. Just take the speed off and laugh, and be friends for a while, once you are both relaxed in each other’s ... (read in full...)
I think I have met the "one" but he is the only person I have ever slept with, and now I am thinking I need to get a few flings out of my system!
Q. Hey guys, i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, i honestly beleive he's my soulmate. Totally crazy about eachother, he's the man i want to marry and have children with. Thing is, i've only ever slept with one person, him. And he slept ...
A. 19 May 2010: Hi, It's very natural for you to feel like this however I think if you honestly feel this strongly about him...there shouldn't be the need for you to feel you have missed out and need to try other men. If he is the one for you then he should be more ... (read in full...)
Part of me wants to break up with her, and the other part wants to stay so I don't hurt her
Q. Ok... how do i start this off... i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years... our anniversary is coming up real soon (less then 2 weeks)... and i dont know what to do anymore... i feel as if she has gone into this fantasy she has had since ...
A. 19 May 2010: Dont' put off finishing things just so you get to the anniversary - trust me it's better to break it off before than to let her think you're enjoying a great anniversary of your relationship and love when you're not very happy! x... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be pregnant and my boyfriend could go to jail for having sex with me!
Q. Im a 14 yr old girl and i recently had sex with my boyfriend who is 19. I have a feeling im pregnant because im suddenly having weird feelings, i dont know if im just over reacting. Im not sure what to do because my parents have said they would kick ...
A. 19 May 2010: I think you should take a pregnancy test regardless of anything in your bosy changing, you'll want to find out as early as possible xx... (read in full...)
Crazy with jealously over her ex being 2-3" bigger than me!
Q. I have had a dilemma with my current partner over my penis size for over 7 months now. Basically, I'm 41 and divorced, and met a gorgeous tall 39 y.o. blonde about 9 months ago who is rather inexperienced but loves sex. We are VERY compatible in ...
A. 18 May 2010: Trust me, she may have enjoyed it with her ex, but there really can be down sides to being too big as she's said!! You should hear what she says abotu you to her friends now :) x... (read in full...)
My married boss wants to start dating me!
Q. I am a 19 year old girl.I recently joined an office.The boss is really hot and has told me he has a huge crush on me and wants to start dating me.But he is 38 years old and married.What should I do?...
A. 18 May 2010: Your boss has nothing to lose, if you got into a relationship with him and then it ended badly it would only end badly for you, he's the boss.
Tell him that it's obviously not a good idea, and this is not why you wanted the job! x... (read in full...)
Part of me wants to break up with her, and the other part wants to stay so I don't hurt her
Q. Ok... how do i start this off... i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years... our anniversary is coming up real soon (less then 2 weeks)... and i dont know what to do anymore... i feel as if she has gone into this fantasy she has had since ...
A. 18 May 2010: I am so sorry to read this and honestly it has made me cry. Me and my partner have just broken up because I was the one that was like you girlfriend. It sounds like it's been written abotu us it is that similar. My advice to you would be to finish ... (read in full...)
My ex text me out of the blue but because I had deleted his number I now feel like an idiot!
Q. my ex who didn't text or call me suddenly text me asking if I was ok but I delete his number and ask who is this so he text back never mind. now i feel like an idiot and i wanted to talk to him but i accidentally delete his number again. What should ...
A. 18 May 2010: Hi, Do you have nay friends in common that could give you his number? Is he on facebook/myspace etc?
just don't forget, if the reason you broke up was his fault then be weary xx... (read in full...)
I don't love my boyfriend!
Q. Yes i have a bf, but i don't love him. .i know he loves me so much but i don't have feelings for him. .i really need someone to love,how do i get a guy to truely love....
A. 18 May 2010: Trust me, you do not need to rush to find someone you truly love!! x... (read in full...)
She pretended to be someone else and when we met her appearance was a turn off for me, what should I do?
Q. So here's my story. Last summer, I started talking to a girl online. We slowly fell in love with each other, but she always said that she couldn't come to see me because she was in another country. We talked on the phone every night and online...
A. 18 May 2010: This is very sad, and it's very sad that this girl had to pretend to be someone else just so she felt she could have friends or boyfriends. I understand that she has hurt you, but i think it is very very unfiar of you to now be complaining that she ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be pregnant and my boyfriend could go to jail for having sex with me!
Q. Im a 14 yr old girl and i recently had sex with my boyfriend who is 19. I have a feeling im pregnant because im suddenly having weird feelings, i dont know if im just over reacting. Im not sure what to do because my parents have said they would kick ...
A. 18 May 2010: Obviously everything that has been said by the person before me is right, and becoming sexually active is a massive part of your life. If you feel at 14 you are ready then it's not just a case of having sex - there are lots of other issues! But with ... (read in full...)
I want to begin a new life with my new man but I cant move on from my ex!
Q. I am a divorcee with a son.I fell in love with my best friend's boyfriend. Having known my best friend for years, I knew how hard she presses her boyfriends when it comes to relationships. She forces things outta them e.g to go out, to spend time ...
A. 18 May 2010: Hello my love, I think the main reason you cannto move on is because of the rejection. It is an awful thing, i recently have been left. I do think however, although you may like R very much...if you are still this upset and crying all the time i ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of his past relationship - am I being silly or could this be a problem if I moved in with him?
Q. I've fallen for a slightly older guy, who I like except for one issue: I am a virgin and he has lived with someone for three years. I am sort of upset about that and jealous of his prior relationship. I feel like I don't want the first time I move ...
A. 18 May 2010: Firstly, you must both try not to compare each other to previous relationships. Eventually kills the relationship, eating away at each others insecurities. Secondly, you say you don't want this to be the "boring second time round" . . . cle... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just dumped me, and I just found out that his ex is his current housemate...
Q. My boyfriend just dumped me, and i found out that his housemate is actually his ex girlfriend, and he never told me. I got really angry. isn't that something you would tell a new girlfriend? he always had me stay over his house too, yet never told ...
A. 18 May 2010: The biggest thing in life for a woman to learn is that men and women are complete opposites. Different woman realise it at all different ages and through different situations but this is a classic, and a situation i have been in myself. In your e... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to date me because of our age difference, how should I act now?
Q. Hi everyone. I am interested in a colleague who is 7 years older than me. We went out few times for movies. One day I confessed but she rejected me due to age gap. However, she said she felt relaxed and comfortable with me, that's why she likes to...
A. 18 May 2010: Hi, obviously I don't know either of you so don't take this as gospel, but i hope it helps! If she has said that she felt relaxed with you and had a great time whilst she didn't know about the age gap i would say that it's not a big deal. I woul... (read in full...)
I don't love my boyfriend!
Q. Yes i have a bf, but i don't love him. .i know he loves me so much but i don't have feelings for him. .i really need someone to love,how do i get a guy to truely love....
A. 18 May 2010: Hi, does your boyfriend know you don't love him? How long have you been together? I don't think your main question should be how do i get a guy to truly love, it should be are you hurting your current boyfriend by stringing him along if he feels so ... (read in full...)
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