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My married boss wants to start dating me!

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Question - (18 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a 19 year old girl.I recently joined an office.The boss is really hot and has told me he has a huge crush on me and wants to start dating me.But he is 38 years old and married.What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

Since he doesn't respect his commitment to his wife nor the rule that he should not be fraternizing with a female member of his staff in the way he has done so far, he certainly won't respect you after he has sex with you. You need to quit this job immediately or get transferred as far away from his as possible.

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A female reader, ALINA Armenia +, writes (18 May 2010):

ALINA agony auntI think it is not so right to have relationship with a married man. It is not matter of age but the fact he is married. Before having affair put yourself in his wife's place. How would you feel?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2010):

You keep your dignity and self respect, and you have respect for his wife and DO NOT have an affair.

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A female reader, Cherry_Blossom99 United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2010):

Cherry_Blossom99 agony auntYour boss has nothing to lose, if you got into a relationship with him and then it ended badly it would only end badly for you, he's the boss.

Tell him that it's obviously not a good idea, and this is not why you wanted the job! x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010):

You are playing with fire and you have everything to lose and nothing to gain. If your office expels you later for mis-behaviour, you will find it hard to cover it up later. If you can't control your hormones, get a bf from outside the office. And tell your boss that have a bf.

You are risking so much for nothing.

Is this what you have studied/graduated for?

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