Was there anything going on with my boyfriend and his ex when we got together?
Q. Hey, I need some advice... I know I shouldn't have done it but (perhaps because I find it hard to trust people) but I looked at my boyfriend's email account. I found an email from his now ex girlfriend from a month ago. He and I got together a...
A. 18 February 2006: Do you know anything about this ex? How long they were going out etc..?
I think that he wouldn't be with you if he didn't want to be with you. In all relationships there is usually always someone more hurt than the other person and maybe this is ... (read in full...)
I think I *am* giving him space... but I want to win him back!
Q. me and my boyfriend of 4 months have just broke up. he said he still loves me but he wants a bit of space. I understand this and i am more than willing to give him space, i just don't understand why he cant be in a relationship with me and also have ...
A. 26 January 2006: Hi
That sounds like exactly the same situation I was in a few months ago, I ws going out with a guy for 3 years and I loved him very very very much. He needed space as everything was just stressing him out-exams,work..., he asked me to give tha... (read in full...)
He's with someone else but we were so good together...is there any chance for us in the future?
Q. Hi Sorry about such a long question. But I really need advice on my exs feelings! The guy I still believe is the love of my life, the one etc.. has just got a new girlfriend. I'm devasted! We were going out for 3 years, thought we loved eachot...
A. 25 January 2006: thanks very much for all advivce so far! i know its a very long questuon and i know its a hard one to answer as there's no specific question but I could really do with more advice.
I love him, I know we can work, i know I used to mean to world to... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get over him...
Q. Im 16 and my boyfreind was 18 we were together for a year and 2 monthes but it was quickly ended in one fight. we've argued before and this wasnt even the worst. that night another girl instantly falls in love out of nowhere and wants to spend the ...
A. 23 January 2006: Hi I do know what your going through, I loved my bf so much, he really was my world, we'd been going out for 3 years when he cheated on me, I have to say I was devasted! I cried and cried and cried spme more. I didn't want to see anyone. I loc... (read in full...)
I thought that he was the one, but he cheated on me twice! How do I avoid similar situations in the future?
Q. I'm just after finding out from my ex thats hes going out with the girl he cheated on me with just 6weeks ago. we were going out for 3 years and I really did think that he was the one!!! I'm heartbroken, we hadnt been getting on for sometime but...
A. 23 January 2006: i think, i really do think that he still loves me, am i a fool? ... (read in full...)
Any encouraging thoughts about this situation?
Q. So I've given my boyfriend a second chance after he's cheated on me by kissing a girl that I used to work with. To be honest with everyone, I've been a complete emotional rollercoaster... One minute, I can put everything behind me and I'm totally ...
A. 23 January 2006: Hiya,
Just to let you knoew bout my situation,going with sa guy for 3 yrs, things werent going the best, we'd broken up a few times but got back together to make a real go of it.
He then cheated on me with a girl at his christmas party,... (read in full...)
We had an argument and he slept with another girl. Do I forgive him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4yrs he is the love of my life, we recently had an argument and hadn't spoken in two months, within these two months he met this random girl and slept with her and now he wants to get back together and i am so ...
A. 15 December 2005: If you really do love him you'll forgive him!
4 years is a long time to go out with someone maybe he just had cold feet but that this time apart has made him see what he really wants!
He didn't sleep with that girl to hurt you, he didn't sleep ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but is just not sure if he's 'in love' with me!
Q. Just a quick question! Can a guy adore you, care a lot about you, be very physically attracted to you, be your best friend, tell you everything, love you but not know if he's in love with you???? My bf of 3 years and I recently broke up, I know...
A. 13 December 2005: thanks, i understand that he could have fallen out of love me although i don't personally believe that you can fall out of love with people!! really i don't!
if this is indeed the case, do you think there is any chance that he might fall back in ... (read in full...)
We loved. We rowed. We split up... But now I just slept with him again!
Q. I am a 21 yrs old female and was dating this amazing guy for 3 years (who is now 23). Things were always amazing in our relationship except that we would have "heated conversations" about how we would get married and how our kids would be raised ...
A. 12 December 2005: This is so freaky, I'm in the exact same situation, I'm 21 my bf 23 and we've been going out for 3 years. I should actually say my ex-bf! We weren't getting on, he needed space, I kept ringing, he got even more unsure, he kissed another girl at his ... (read in full...)
We love each other but he got drunk and kissed another girl.
Q. I really need help on this on. I'm extremely confused at mo. My bf of 3 yrs broke up recently, he kissed a girl from work, told me a few days later, said he had ruined it all, never thought he'd ever ever do such a thing, especially to me, doesn't ...
A. 7 December 2005: Thanks for your answer but will he really not respect me if i love him still!!! Thats just stupid!! I love him. I forgive him! I feel like I'm the one being punished here!! Hes the kind of guy who will move on so as he won't hurt me again not ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend would rather break up than work on our communication!
Q. Problem started when we really just stop communicating with each other. We were talking, but not really communicating. I was pretty fed up with that so I confronted her and gave her two options: - 1. We work hard to try to revive our relationship...
A. 25 October 2005: I'm in the exact same situation.
Well except my bf and I are best friends and it wasn't the communication that finished things. We were on again off again for 2 months and then last Fri on again but of course i went anhd told him to think about it... (read in full...)
He cheated, repeatedly and with multiple partners, but now he wants to come back...
Q. My fiance just told me he's been cheating for the past year - off and on, no one in particular. His job takes him away for the majority of the year and definately puts him in the position to cheat, musician. I've kicked him out and told him it's ...
A. 25 October 2005: I know this is hard but just ask yourself can you really not give him another chance? will you regret not trying it one last time? can you get on with your life not knowing if he was serious?
I think for your own piece of mind that you should g... (read in full...)
How can I persuade him to give us another chance?
Q. Myself and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up. We're best friends, are very attracted to each other and I love him like crazy. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore but that it doesn't matter as we'll never work out. I suspect ...
A. 19 October 2005: We still call eachother constantly, 3 times today so far and we still know everything thats going on in each others lives.
Should i try and stop ringing him as much and really give him space to see if I'm not there will he miss me or should I... (read in full...)
How can I persuade him to give us another chance?
Q. Myself and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up. We're best friends, are very attracted to each other and I love him like crazy. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore but that it doesn't matter as we'll never work out. I suspect ...
A. 19 October 2005: I suppose I should just let him be but the thing is he still rings me constantly and we talk like normal on the phone except without the whole we/us thing going on!
I'm possitive it'll work but he just won't think about it as I've made him so a... (read in full...)
How can I persuade him to give us another chance?
Q. Myself and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up. We're best friends, are very attracted to each other and I love him like crazy. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore but that it doesn't matter as we'll never work out. I suspect ...
A. 19 October 2005: I understand what your saying, I do know he loves me very much, its just that over the past few months between one thing and anotrher everything went crazy. He needed time to do his things and I needed him so we kinda both let eachother down.
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My girlfriend seems to be pulling away, but she insists that we're fine...
Q. I feel that my girlfriend and I are drifting apart. We are in college and live in the same apartment complex. She has a lot going on right now and we dont seem to see each other very much, especially romantically. I feel that we are more like ...
A. 19 October 2005: Starting college is a particularly difficult time for anyone especially when it involves being away from friends that she was so close too.
Try and understand her need not to lose touch with her friends, maybe just let her be for a while, let her ... (read in full...)
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