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writes: me and my boyfriend of 4 months have just broke up. he said he still loves me but he wants a bit of space. I understand this and i am more than willing to give him space, i just don't understand why he cant be in a relationship with me and also have space at the same time!he said i was perfect for him, great personality and everything he could ever want in a girl, and he said i was the best thing that ever happened to him! i know for definite that there is no-one else on the scene.i would appreciate any advice on how to win him back.i know it sounds bad me trying to "win him back" but he said himself he loves me and i want to build on that as well as making sure he gets the space he needs. I am not going to contact him or pester and annoy him as i realise that would just push him away. i just want him to realise that i can make him happy.i would love any advice on how to win him back without annoying or pestering him, or just simply how to move on from the only guy that has ever treated me as i deservethanksxxx
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reader, brokenhearted +, writes (26 January 2006):
Hi
That sounds like exactly the same situation I was in a few months ago, I ws going out with a guy for 3 years and I loved him very very very much. He needed space as everything was just stressing him out-exams,work..., he asked me to give that to him... I didn't I rang and rang and rang some more.
The thing is we got back together after his exams and it seemed ok but he really never forgive me for not giving him space, he cheated on me a few weeks later, he said I just pushed him too far....
I know it sounds silly but guys need space and I understand now that this was one of the most important things he had ever asked me to do for him and I wouldn't....I thought at the time that I couldn't and again I thought if he could talk things over with me it'd be better for him plus I really wanted to talk to him...
Guys are strange creatures... give him his space... he does love you but he just needs some alone time.. please don't make the mistakes I've made no matter how hard it is for you...
Good luck
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