My ex is pregnant, has agreed to a abortion and I have no problem with it, am I a bad person
Q. I broke up with my ex as i found information she was cheating on me. she denies it and still does a month later (she was telling another guy "i love you"). the problem now is that she is pregnant. apparently the docs were able to tell her the exact ...
A. 16 November 2007: Of course you are not a bad person for thinking about what kind of life the baby would have.
There are many good reasons for getting an abortion and I don't think people who get them are "bad" in any way. It is very much so accepted in this soc... (read in full...)
Loss of sexual desire in loving relationship. Why? Just because it's good doesn't make me want it the next time and feel even more turned off by his desire for me.
Q. I have completely lost interest in sex, I feel no desire and do not masturbate anymore. I'm 36, I am not on the pill and haven't been for a number of years. I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years and love him loads, he is respectful, ...
A. 16 November 2007: I am so sorry you are going through this, how frustrating.
Now, this may sound like common sense or it may make me sound like a complete dunce. But, if you enjoy doing it once you do it, you just don't always feel like it before hand. I would ... (read in full...)
I love my bf but I don't know if he loves me too, I'm 12. Contemplating sex already...
Q. Hi i am 12 years old,I have this boyfriend that i love very much,but i dono if he love me too?and i was thinking of having sex with him help!...
A. 16 November 2007: All, I can say is don't do it. Don't have sex with a guy because you want to keep him around. This is the perfect situation for a women or girl to feel used and abandoned. No matter how much you love him you have a wonderful life ahead of you ... (read in full...)
How do I bring up his drug taking without damaging the relationship??
Q. I've been with my husband for over three years, but we've only been married about three months. He has been an amazing husband! He provides for me financially and is in school(even though I work, all my money goes towards savings), he helps around ...
A. 16 November 2007: Hi guys, I just wanted to let you know. I researched whip-its on the internet and got TONS of info - thanks for the name, who knows if I would have been able to find it. When he came home, he was in such a good mood, he gave me a bear hug and we ... (read in full...)
She wants to meet for coffee again. What's the most powerful and loving way to handle the situation?
Q. I have a friend who has cancelled our last two coffee appointments, either at the last minute or when she arrived at the cafe. I was angry with her the first time and angry with myself the second time. I believe in the sentiment behind the motto ...
A. 15 November 2007: I would say just be honest. Say, "I really wanted to have coffee with you, but I was really disappointed and kind of embarassed when it cancelled the last two times" And then I guess just saying, "I'm sorry, but I don't feel safe knowing that you ... (read in full...)
Did I break my own hymen with my self pleasuring?
Q. Hi I'm 24 years old. I'm doing self pleasuring since high school, and I clearly remember a time when right after I bled a little. Now I've almost had complete sex with my boyfriend, but all the three or four times we've tried I had to stop him ...
A. 15 November 2007: My first time, what hurt wasn't my hymen breaking (I think it already broke because of tampons, etc.), but just I don't know, the stretching? that is not technical, but something big going in something really little?. (and he had fingered me before ... (read in full...)
Can we restore our family unit or even our marriage or is it only a matter of time before he builds up the courage to leave me?
Q. I have recently caught my husband having an affair, we have been married 14 years and have 3 children. I told my husband I still love him and want him to stay, he said he would stay only to be with our children who he loves more than anything and ...
A. 15 November 2007: First of all, I am so sorry you are going through this pain.
I don't think forbidding your husband to see his new child is necessarily the right thing to do, although I know you are just doing your best. To forbid him to see the kid, you are depr... (read in full...)
Will he ever leave his wife for me???
Q. I'm in a relationship with a married man 25 years older than me. I fell in love with him almost 3 years ago, and tried (clearly unsuccessfully) to forget him. Then I gave him a letter in which I said that I feel something for him, ie love. His first ...
A. 15 November 2007: I suggest you break up with him. He is a married man. He may love you, but at one time he loved his wife too and if he has kids he loves them. The best decision for him on the overall is to not break up his family and to stay with them. It i... (read in full...)
I'm kind of scared, what will happen to me.
Q. Okay. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months, and asometimes I just wish I could have sex with him. But me and another friend made a pact not to do anything of the sort until after highschool. But I really love this guy, and he's really ...
A. 15 November 2007: Wait. Honor your agreement with your friend. It is natural to want to have sex or crave it. You will be proud of yourself for having the commitment to wait. Throughout high school you will grow and learn so much and through college too. Relish ... (read in full...)
Sex 2 weeks ago, and no period, WARRIED! HELP PLEASE!
Q. Hello! well im really woried cause im 14 and i had sex 2 weeks ago and my period is supposed to come at the begining of every month in this case nov 1 to nov 9 something like that and it hasnt came yet im starting to get worried but i dont get ...
A. 15 November 2007: I am sorry you are in this predicament. You must be very nervous and scared.
You may be pregnant or you may just be having an irregular cycle. Some women don't get nausea or fatigue right away or barely at all throughout the first trimeste... (read in full...)
He's sulky, and he says I nag him, how can I stop this?
Q. When sometimes me and my boyfriend are talking and I say something and either by the tone of his voice I realize he's upset or because he says something like "I have to go" or he suddenly has something else to do... when I ask him what's wrong he ...
A. 15 November 2007: Truthfully, I completely know where he is coming from. My husband is like that too and it is very easy for me to fall into a pattern of "nagging."
If he doesn't want to talk about it, really I think I should respect that. I will say in a qui... (read in full...)
Last night I experienced a bellyache after sex. Bad sign?
Q. iv been having unprotected sex since may and never got pregnant, afterwards i have pains or shaky leggs , but last night after sex i didnt have either of them til about an hour after i started to get belly ache. are those a bad thing and could their ...
A. 15 November 2007: I'm sorry I can't help you more. Go see a gynecologist he/she should be able to make some sense of it. Pain on a regular basis should be checked out.
Why you haven't gotten pregnant? Really you can only get pregnant 8 days during a 30 day cycl... (read in full...)
Average amount of sex partners in a lifetime.
Q. I was wondering whether anybody knew the average amount sexual partners men and women have in their lifetimes. Im 17 years old and only have had One, I know this is quite normal and am relatively happy about it. I suppose im asking, what can i ...
A. 15 November 2007: I think you have a huge influence over how many men you sleep with in the future. I knew I didn't want to sleep with a man until I got married, so for me it is only 1 man.
I have friends who have sex with someone at almost every party they go ... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe I am a virgin, how can I convince him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years have just started having sex this year. With my past boyfriend(s), I didn't have sex.My boyfriend Im with now seems to think I lost my virginity way before me and him started going together just because my "cherry" ...
A. 15 November 2007: There is probably a teen health website that will have it as a FACT for your boyfriend. But as stated before, the "cherry being popped" is your hymen being torn. This can happen by using tampons, riding a horse or as already said riding a bike. ... (read in full...)
I don't feel sexually attracted to my husband of 4 yrs. I'm not sure I can go on when I don't enjoy kissing and sex.
Q. I'm feeling very confused. I have been married for 4 years and have a beautiful 19 mth old girl. My problem is I don't feel sexually attractive to my husband. I don't enjoy kissing him and I don't enjoy having sex with him. He watches a lot of ...
A. 14 November 2007: You two need to work on this problem together.
He needs to start trying to seduce you again. Giving you flowers, chocolate, date nights, really doing a lot of foreplay before having sex. Seeing what will make this act pleasurable to you again.
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Do I give him another chance?
Q. hi,I dont know haw to start,just in this moment I need advise,I fall in love last year was nice and wonderfull everyting he came we stay together here in my country and I go to visit him in his country and I stay with him almous 5 months after I ...
A. 14 November 2007: I would say don't give him another chance.
He did not treat you with the love and respect you deserve and he chose someone else over you. He only wants to come back when that relationship is over?? no. There is a good chance he will do this ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a love triangle and need help!
Q. hey, i need some help. i used to be good close friends with a girl (girl a) but i liked her friend (girl b) who was in a relationship. i was always friends with her but never close friends. girl a i think had feelings for me but i didnt see her like ...
A. 14 November 2007: If girl A isn't talking to Girl B, she must already know something is going on.
Your choices are to
1) tell Girl A. going together in secret will probably just hurt her feelings even more because you both lied about it.
2) Don't go out... (read in full...)
A married man keeps crossing my mind...
Q. I think I need to stop falling for men that are not in my tax bracket and are "social or societal" role model's seeing as I am from a different time and place and different backround..Gram tell's me that they don't think like we do and I am just ...
A. 14 November 2007: Stay away from a married man because of his wife. One day it could be you.
That's all I can say about that. Draw a limit. If you find yourself attracted to a married man avoid him, stay away!
As for your gram, college and liking sinister ... (read in full...)
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