A
female
age
41-50,
*hwoesme
writes:I think I need to stop falling for men that are not in my tax bracket and are "social or societal" role model's seeing as I am from a different time and place and different backround..Gram tell's me that they don't think like we do and I am just going to get hurt..It has taken me almost 2 year's to complete the college education I have and am not finished..she says to be happy with the bartending job I have..and secretly I think they all just want me to find a "nice boy" and settle down...and I should just go back to my shrink..because I just dont think like I used to..I like the ones that are analytical and sinister to a point...this is why I should get a dog...I have an incredible sense of moral's and know that if it came right down to it, I could never sleep with a married man...although it has begun to cross my mind often about this one and I know it has crossed his..maybe I should just stay away from him because..I will be the one to be hurt.
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reader, BreeBree +, writes (14 November 2007):
Stay away from a married man because of his wife. One day it could be you.
That's all I can say about that. Draw a limit. If you find yourself attracted to a married man avoid him, stay away!
As for your gram, college and liking sinister men. College gives you more opportunities. It costs a lot of money and time, but if you aren't happy with your bartending job and one day in the future would like to have the option to do something else, go through with it! It's easier when your young.
If you like sinister men and you are able to live with them and not feel hurt, that is fine as long as they are not married. Age really only should play a little part as well, just make sure if your family has doubts to consider them, but not too much. Date him for a while before you "settle down" with him.
And yes! See a counselor! They can be really helpful, no matter what the circumstance.
Good luck with all your internal conflicts!!
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