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writes:Okay. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months, and asometimes I just wish I could have sex with him. But me and another friend made a pact not to do anything of the sort until after highschool. But I really love this guy, and he's really special to me. He doesn't know of my thoughts of sex with him, he still thinks I'm totally against it. And lately, I've come to know a few of my friends have been having sex for the first time, but the majority of them think they're pregnant or thought they were. I'm kind of scared that'll happen to me. But yea, what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): You're a little young.
But if you really must. Try a blowjob or something.
They don't really count as sex, or you could just make-out and stuff. It gives the hotness of sex without the first time pain.
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (15 November 2007):
 If you really, love him there are ways you can get around not have intercourse and still enjoying each other physically. You can do mutual masturbation, oral sex, be creative ...use toys. Sex isnt always about the penetration, you can have fun with it and be safe. If you and he reach a good trust level you might have to move to penetration, but always use protection if you must.
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reader, BreeBree +, writes (15 November 2007):
Wait. Honor your agreement with your friend. It is natural to want to have sex or crave it. You will be proud of yourself for having the commitment to wait. Throughout high school you will grow and learn so much and through college too. Relish in that time. You will be a stronger woman and have more self-respect for yourself if you wait.
I actually waited until I was married to have sex. And so many woman have told me how they admire that and wish they hadn't done it. If your relationship with this man is meant to last, you will be with him after high school and get to experience it then. If it does not last, then you have saved yourself from further emotional grief.
If you do decide to do anything though, please protect yourself and do your research on what is safe birth control and not safe birth control.
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