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writes:My girlfriend and I tried having sex about 2 weeks ago and it hurt her A lot because she started tearing up. We have not tried again since then because she said that she's kinda scared that it will hurt her a lot again. Do you have any suggestions as what we should do? Anything that could minimize her pain? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, it was our first tome for Both. And billy bilou, I already know alot of that having to do with her. We started with foreplay about 4 months ago and it was just recently that we decided we wated to do that. And at first she was wet, but after a while she got a little dry, which is why we used a lube, and Yes, it was Water Based, I'm not stupid you know. And as for listening to her, I do. We tried it 3 times, one time the first day and twice the second, and we haven't since then, but she said that both times hrt alot, so I don't know what it could be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): if she was a virgin, the pain was you breaking her hymen. the first time always hurts, but for the second, try lots of foreplay, oral on her, rubbing and using your fingers, then when SHE is ready, go SLOWLY and LISTEN to her! if she says it hurts, stop, and try another way.
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reader, Araelia V  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 first time always hurts. If it's not or even if it is her first time...different positions help different people.
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reader, billy bilou  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 You are still a young man and you may not know a lot of things on a woman's body and how to arouse her. You had painful sex with your girlfriend because maybe you did not excite her enough sexually and she was not wet down there. You should stop thinking about inseting your sex into her and learn more on her body, what she likes, what are the parts of her body that are sensitive. For sex to be less painful she needs to be wet down there as I told you and you should learrn how to do this.
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