My husband is schizophrenic, I'm depressed. How can I stop cheating?
Q. I have a problem and I need help with this. I have been married for over 8 years and for 7 years, everything was pretty good - no marriage is perfect, but it was good enough that I was not really even thinking about flirting with danger or entertai...
A. 27 July 2008: Well first i want to say, i'm sorry about your husband and yourself. I'm happy to see that your at least your admitting how you feel instead of pushing it away, because we all know that doesn't help.
Unfortunately i've never been married, but i wi... (read in full...)
My friend turns against me when I protect him from the bullies, I'm confused!
Q. My friend is being bullied by a girl (just teasing) and told me not to tell. Should I tell anyway or listen to him? Once I stood up for him (he doesn't stand up for himself) and now the bullies thinks his "girlfriend" needs to protect him. He got ...
A. 27 July 2008: It doesn't matter what age a male is, you find something in him that women just aren't so bothered about...'ego'. To protect a boy is striping him of every piece of pride he has. They feel naked without this feeling of masculinity, and often hide ... (read in full...)
This guy dumps me out of the blue and then runs after me to say "hi" Why?
Q. Well it's been a month nearly since me and my bf of 10 months split. I'm 20, he's 22, and his reasons for ending it were contradictory to say the least. He told me his feelings for me hadn't changed but that he wasn't ready for a relationship this ...
A. 28 January 2008: It has nothing to do with other relationships, he already said he wouldn't have another g/f or be interested in anyone but me in a long time...what do you suggest?... (read in full...)
I really like him and we drunkenly fooled around; then he did the same with another girl
Q. Please help me, i'm really confused. A couple of weeks ago, i was very drunk and at my best friends 15th, me and a very close friend got very drunk and ended upstairs and doing everything but sex. I do really like him, because doing that much ...
A. 1 July 2007: To be completely honest with you, if i was in your situation i would accept what happened and try to move on. If it has been more than a couple of weeks and nothing has been mentioned then i would settle for it being a one off! I realise you must... (read in full...)
He says he had fun but doesn't want to date me; how can I win him over?
Q. Last night i spent them most amazing night of my life with a guy ive liked for ages now. It was just like we were going out (although we were both drinking and he said he probs wont remember it in the morning) however in the morning he woke up and ...
A. 1 July 2007: This is a horrible feeling for anyone to have to endure, and i hope you come to a solution but in answer to your question. If you want me to be honest, you can't win someone over by pretending to be something other than what you are. If he doesn... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on what type of 'curlers' I should get? Any good tips?
Q. hi i want curlers for my 15th birthday in a few weeks but not sure which ones to get. i would like ones that you heat up with different ends to put on. like one end to make big curls and another end to make small ones etc. but im not sure which o...
A. 20 October 2006: ask in boots or somewhere..i'm afraid i don't have this problem as i have naturally curly hair haha... (read in full...)
We split up and he still wanted to have sex....after turning him down he kisses someone else!
Q. i have been mates with a lad for over a year we met on line an recently met an ended up toghether relationship was brill then 1 day it just cum to an end so we stayed mates then few months ago he asked me for sex an no strings i ad to say no just ...
A. 20 October 2006: is he really worth all this worrying, let him do what he wants and u get on with ur life. ... (read in full...)
I have bad vaginal itching! What could be the problem?
Q. Hi, this is really embarassing. I've got very bad vaginal itching and I can't figure out why. It's always the same time in the month (two weeks before my period, and the whole week) It always goes away. I've been tested for STDs and it was all ...
A. 20 October 2006: the first thing that popped into my mind was thrush...thats generally irritating...but other than that i have no idea...if it continues i recommend seeking medical advice.... (read in full...)
I am still worried I could be pregnant even though I just finished a period...what's happening with me?
Q. Ok, I've been sexually active since 22nd of July this year, I've had my period every month since. I've always suffered from menhorration- bleeding heavily each month and this has not changed. I had a pregnancy scare in September, which thankfully...
A. 20 October 2006: Well if your worried i'd go to the doctor and get it tested properly. However if you are after an opinion i would say that it is nearly impossible for you to be pregnant...To be honest, if you can get a sexually active woman who hasn't had a ... (read in full...)
How do you get a boy to like you? Any tips?
Q. hi im 15... how do u get a teenage boy to fancy you?...
A. 20 October 2006: Basically be yourself. Don't make yourself out to be somebody that your not, because A) you don't want him liking that side of you and B) you are fine just the way you are, you don't need to change for anyone. If he doesn't like you the way you are, ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why my ex is acting like this! does he still like me?
Q. ohk so there is this guy i really really really like i mean we were friends and then lovers then friends then lovers then we broke up now he has a gf but he admitted last month he still had feelings for me he just for some reason didnt want to go ...
A. 20 October 2006: Have you ever heard of those relationships that could never work. I had a highschool sweetheart i suppose you could call him that. Anyways me and him were off and on again all the way through school, liked each other enough, it was just not good ... (read in full...)
I have sensitive glans..so would a handjob create a lot of pain for me?
Q. hi my problem is that i have a sensitive glans if i touch it i get a sharp pain that can make me scream. the doctor says that i should be ok. if i was to recieve a handjob would it be painful or would it be easier having sex? if you ge...
A. 16 October 2006: the best way is to experiment with yourself...letting a girl go loose on you when you can't take much isn't the best idea...learn what you like, what hurts and what makes you scream (with pain) and then there will be a little bit of direction for ... (read in full...)
Added information to question regarding how I can make sex last less time!
Q. how can i make my penis more sensitive? well i wacked off today and i didnt really want to do it because i was gonna have sex tomorrow. well everyone knows that when a guy cums hes less sensitive so he lasts longer. well i want the opposite. i ...
A. 16 October 2006: i agree with the person above....why masturbate so much if it takes you so long to cum? I would have thought u'd have put two and two together but somehow your making 5...
let you sexual frustration build up a little longer than a day and you'll b... (read in full...)
I'm always the matchmaker and never get the boys! How do I change this?
Q. I know this question is often asked, but I'm sick of being the match-maker, or the 'friend'. I'm told by lots of my female friends that I'm really pretty, and nice. I'm not bitchy, or fake or anything like that. But I never get boys. I'm always t...
A. 16 October 2006: haha deja-vu. The truth is, i haven't got an answer for you, i just understand exactly how you feel. If it makes you feel any better my mum once told me; lads are friends with girls that they can repect, and sleep with the girls that they don't. You ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of two years recently broke up with me...she says that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore!!!
Q. My gf of 2 years recently just broke up with me, she says that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore... I really love her and do not want this relationship to just end like this... She says i don't give her space... She moved in and lived with m...
A. 16 October 2006: I'm not an expert but to me it sounds like this girl is confused about something. She's asking for space so in my opinion i'd give it to her. I can't make up my mind whether she is going out with her ex's to get a reaction from you, or whether it's ... (read in full...)
He wants me to shave my fanny and I don't know how!
Q. hey i met this guy when i went to austria with the school and hes coming over to see me but he wants me to shave my vagina and i really dont no how to go about it please help its really embarsing!!!!x:X:x ...
A. 16 October 2006: the most important thing to remember is...don't do it because he demands it...do it because you want too, don't feel pressured into pleasing this guy. ... (read in full...)
I feel like my relationship is totally one sided, what can I do?
Q. I have a bf from 8 months now but things between us r so unstable, I feel that we'r not improving, like ok what's next?! Whenever I try and talk about "what's next?" he turns things against me and say that I always wanna make a fuss 4 no reason and ...
A. 9 October 2006: Well i'm sorry that this guy is messing you around like he so obviously is. Something completely and utterly smacks me in the face about what you wrote and how you wrote it, i may be wrong, but i would suggest that he has commitment issues.
Judg... (read in full...)
Am I right to be suspicious?
Q. hi--been with my b/f for a year and a half. He dropped me off last night around 10 or so..we spent the day at his house with his family for a relative's birthday--i said in the car--we will talk later and he just says maybe--and i guess he was joki...
A. 9 October 2006: Well firstly, it sounds like your tormenting yourself about this, which isn't healthy and right. Ok so i'm going to put myself in your situation...I would do one of two things, first off i would talk to him, explain that you felt there was something ... (read in full...)
What do guys want in girls?
Q. Im 15 and you know like basically all girls want to go out with a guy thats kind, sweet and funny. Well what do guys want from girls??? Girls want 'sweet and funny'. What do guys want in girls?...
A. 9 October 2006: yeh, helpful girl is right, in the same way that not all girls want a sweet and sensitive boy, there are no stereotypes in this subject. Everybody has their own taste. Not all men go for peroxide blonde extensions with fake massive boobs, not all go ... (read in full...)
Is 14 too young to go to 3rd base?
Q. is 14 too young to go to 3rd base ...? i have bin with my bf who is 2 years older than me for 5 months now and love and adore him very much!..i have been to 3rd with him...feeling confident and ready. He has never presured me and he respects me ...
A. 9 October 2006: I might sound thick but i do need to clarify what 3rd base is?
However, i'm pleased to see that a young girl is thinking through her actions before she takes them. Need i remind you that you are 14, and it wasn't long ago i was that age too, you... (read in full...)
My man is like a different person when he is drunk. He does not understand how I feel.
Q. my man drinks to much. well he doesnt drink everyday, but anytime he gets the chance he gets smashed. he said that he would try to cut down, but really he just hasnt tried. this is why i dont like to go to parties or go to the bar. he becomes a ...
A. 9 October 2006: I can understand entirely how you're feeling, my boyfriend is the same. He claims that he drinks (and this is at home) because he wants to relax and escape. I get the feeling that your boyfriend is running away from something. Do you and him talk? ... (read in full...)
He has trust issues from past bad relationships, but wants me in his life, I like him alot, is there anything I can do to make him feel at ease ?
Q. Hi everybody, hope you can help. I have a really good friend who I have known a few months and during this time I have developed strong feelings for him because he is an amazing, kind, funny guy. My problem is he was hurt in the worst way possible ...
A. 9 October 2006: It's not often you find a guy whose so sensitive (by the sounds of it). I have a similar problem except the boy is actually my boyfriend, and we have been together for over 10 months. It's not easy being there for someone when you have these ... (read in full...)
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