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| | *eautifulxxbrunette08's profile:Hello everyone! I go by Ashleigh, and I am 17 going on 25. ((lol)) I have a wonderful boyfriend whom I love very much and he is a year older than me. I love to shop, tan, talk on the phone, help friends through their dilemmas, and doing hair and makeup. I am "preppy" as today's society would call me. I am very excited to join Dear Cupid, and I hope that all of the advice that I give out is well answered and very helpful. I also hope that each and every one of you Agony Aunts find what you are looking for. If you need absolutely anything, you know where to come!
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He lost his family in a car accident and he's giving up. What can I do to help him?
Q. My friend and his wife where in a car accident on the day there baby was due. The baby died that day in his arms..Three days later his wife died..My friend no longer cares about life.. He is angry and I think sometimes looks for ways to end his ...
A. 20 December 2006: well i agree with aritstical bumblebee...really all you can do for your friend is let him know how much you appreciate him. of course this is very hard for him to cope with at the moment, but he has a better chance of getting through this with ... (read in full...)
I'm flying from the US to England to meet my bf's family - but they detest Americans! I'm so nervous!!
Q. Hi, I'm in an LDR with an English guy (I'm in New York) and over the Christmas holiday I'm flying over there to spend time with him. During that time I'm meeting his family. I'm really nervous. In addition to normal nerves when meeting a boy...
A. 20 December 2006: you know it is funny that you mention this. my best friend is from england. that is her home town, and when i became friends with her last year i asked some questions...she told me some things that were extremely different over there than what we ... (read in full...)
I'm married, but I'm sleeping w/ others! I feel so guilty but can't stop. What do I do??
Q. I am married to a fabulous woman but i am sleeping with a woman at work.I also have a lover off the internet and i have another lover who lives close by. I also have a fuck buddy lady who goes to swingers partys with me i sound like a rite scum...
A. 18 December 2006: you need to leave your wife. actually tell her what is going on and give her the chance to leave you. yes you are a scumbag for this, because you let it go too far. you need to honestly not put your wife in a position to get heart broken just ... (read in full...)
He buys another girl flowers, now he says I am playing games
Q. I have just found about 2 hours ago found out that my partner of 5 years had 2 - 3 weeks ago, a £50 bouquet delivered to a sales girl in a jewellers he bought an expenisive watch from. He told me she had flirted with him. He went missing a fe...
A. 17 December 2006: the problem with this is, he is the one playing games. if he is talking to another girl, that is one thing, but from talking to buying that girl a bouquet of flowers is another. i am sad to say but if he is blaming you for this nonsense then he is ... (read in full...)
We kissed alot an then ...I found out he's married. Is it best just to leave it?
Q. up until the other night this guy wasnt even on my radar, we work in different departments. but after the other night we kissed alot but i then found out he is married. he says its complicated but he really likes me and i really like him. is it...
A. 16 December 2006: i dont mean to make you mad, but think of this. think of...let's say you don't leave it...you and him begin to move further and further and you think his wife will never know, she WILL find out (they always do) and it will jump up and bite you in ... (read in full...)
I didn't answer the phone so he decided to not to come home. What is up with this guy?
Q. I thought my partner and I were getting on well, he said i was good to be with, relaxing, and good for him. Now he keeps saying he needs some space. He has been on a few nights away. I haven't a clue where he has stayed. He never answers his mobi...
A. 16 December 2006: well to be honest, if it were me in this situation, i would begin to doubt things. i mean my questions would be this... where have you stayed all this time?, are ya cheatin on me??, are you sure you want things to work between us..?, are you having ... (read in full...)
Ex gf was 'pulling' with a friend of mine while she and I were on a break. How do I forget about this?
Q. My ex-girlfriend pulled my so-called friend whilst we were on a break. how should i cut this out of my life and forget about it and what should i do about my friend?...
A. 14 December 2006: i am trying to understand the meaning of the term "pulling".
i am hoping it doesn't mean having sexual relations with someone, because if it does. you need to forget about it, yes. but you also should forget about her. being on a break isn't sayi... (read in full...)
I miss being touched and held and kissed.IS there anyway I can get the passion and affection back into my relationship with my boyfriend?
Q. IS there anyway I can get the passion and affection back into my relationship with my boyfriend? I feel like it's not really there anymore. He never wants to kiss me longer than a couple of seconds and usually when we are about to have sex we just ...
A. 14 December 2006: well to tell you the truth, talking makes a difference, you have to approach him with how you feel before anyone else can help you. once you have taken that first step and things still haven't changed, there could be something wrong. you should ask ... (read in full...)
When and how to make the 'first move' with her. Advice needed?
Q. ive been friends with this woman all my life n i really really love her and i no that she kinda feels the same way from whats gone on in the past. We are both virgins and have never had a bf/gf we spend loads of time together and we are extremly ...
A. 14 December 2006: well me being a girl, and having been in relationships, there are certain ways you go about making a move on a girl to make her like it. you dont want her getting creeped and then being weird around you from then on...so one day you take her out to ... (read in full...)
He lies all the time and I caught him texting women, at one point. Are these the signs of a cheater?
Q. My boyfriend used to work away a lot and he used to lie to me all of the time about going out, he'd phone me at three in the morning absolutely hammered and say he'd been in bed since early the night before. He's also always lied about small things ...
A. 14 December 2006: NoNoNo!!! GeT OuT! LeAvE HiiM...i am not just saying this or trying to hurt you, but if a man has lied to you plenty of times before and you KnOw he still does it, then no! you need to get far away from him. there is no reason why he should lie to ... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my ex?
Q. Dear cupid, My situation seems to be about the same break up the same downer. I am at the moment VERY confused! my ex gives me mixed messages he acts like he loves me and when a situation arises so where he could share his feelings he tend...
A. 14 December 2006: Well darling, i do not think it would be wise for you to pursue this. he sounds like he is just playing mind games with you because he likes the attention, he likes girls to chase after him, HEY!...if it makes other guys envy him... the thing you ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, he's 16 - I want a normal relationship w/ him but it's impossible b/c of our parents!
Q. Hi, I have a 16yr old bf and im 13, we cant tell our mums because of the age difference. But his mum found out we were meant to meet but my mum hasnt mentioned anything. We love each other so much and he has not asked for sex once. But i want...
A. 12 December 2006: well to tell you the truth, there is really nothing you can do. since you are a minor your parents are responsible for you unless you are emancipated. (legally seperated from the care of your parents) now even if you have tried talking to them (if ... (read in full...)
I ended a brief affair w/ my coworker, but I would like to hear others' opinions about it - any thoughts?
Q. I can't believe I'm writing this, my head must be mashed! Well, where do I start? I've been married for 4 years and have a beautiful daughter coming up to three years old. I care for my wife deeply but cannot honestly say I'm in love with her any ...
A. 12 December 2006: i do agree with eddie...a marriage cannot go on this way. don't stay together for your children, and just the security of a home. it isn't worth not being happy. although, you did cheat. it was wrong, yes...but ending it definately was the right ... (read in full...)
We argue and I want to leave...but I love him too much!
Q. me and my bf always argue a lot and we don't solve our problems coz we just don't understand each other and i can not take it anymore, i feel like leaving him but i couldn't do that coz i love him soo much. what do i do?...
A. 12 December 2006: well sweetie, i am going through this same issue here recently. but the thing is, i love him too much as well. the thing you must realize is that when you love someone, you love them enough to solve your issues no matter what it takes. i know that ... (read in full...)
I felt hurt and betrayed..I ended it! Did I over react?
Q. I really need some advice on a partner that I suspect of cheating. A few weeks ago(call it womans intuition)that I felt that something was not right in the relationship. To cut a long story short I confronted him about my feelings and he told me ...
A. 12 December 2006: hmm...dawl...this is so hard... it doesn't seem right to me either. when someone cares about you, they do not say the exact same things to another woman as they did to you. that just isn't how it 'should' work. i don't think you overreacted, to a ... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely at this time of year!
Q. I wanna 4get about my ex, i no i gotta move on but i cant stop thinkin of him. It doesn't help when most of my mates sell me out 4 their boyfriends. I feel so lonely especially at this time of yr! any suggestions?...
A. 12 December 2006: well sweetheart, it being this time of year and all...you must find peace. dwelling over your past can only drive you insane. i know it is hard. beleive me i do. but the thing is...you need to find an inner peace and happiness. go out a few times, ... (read in full...)
He says he needs time and space to resolve a past issue!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. He recently has said he needs a lot of space and time to himself. He is trying to figure out what to do. His head is all mixed up. He says he loves me and wants to be with me. He says he ...
A. 12 December 2006: Well hun...If you have been with him for 3 years and you are willing to wait for him because of the love that you hold for him, then that should be your best bet. i totally agree with you when you say 3 years is a long time to just throw ... (read in full...)
I'm 15-he's 23. We've had sex and we're very nervous as we're unsure if it was legal?
Q. Hey....I am currently 15, I will be 16 in 6 days. I have been seeing this guy who is 23 for the past 3 weeks and we have slept together. We are nervous about people finding out because we are unsure if it is legal. I was wondering if it is ok for ...
A. 11 December 2006: i live in florida. different laws apply to different states. i would have to know which state you live in to give you a perfect explainable answer. i know that it is completely illegal where i am to have sex with an adult at you age. i know that the ... (read in full...)
How can I get over her cheating on me? I can't stop crying.
Q. How can I stop the tears from falling? How can I get her out of my head? How could she cheat on me when all I did was love her? She was my world and now she has gone....
A. 11 December 2006: Well, it is her loss. Her putting you through this torture is very selfish on her part. If all you ever did was love her, then that is all you can do. For some people it just isn't enough. You have to find positive things in the situation, I know it ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with this hurt and pain and move on?
Q. A week ago I found out that my boyfriend of seven years who is also the father of my one year old son, has been cheating on me for a whole month! I moved out of our apartment and I've been miserable ever since. To make matters even worse, he's not ...
A. 11 December 2006: Sweetheart,
Unfortunately, this worl is full of ungrateful people. People who will hurt you and have no sorrow for it. The thing is this...Look at your son, and thank God for him. It is hard to get over such a hurtful situation with someone you had ... (read in full...)
My partner says if I keep the baby-I'm raising it on my own! I don't know what to do?
Q. ive been with my partner three and a half years and fell pregnant recently and my partner does not want the baby an dsays if i keep it ill be bringing it up on my own i love this man and dont wont to lose him butknowing i have to get rid of the baby ...
A. 11 December 2006: Darling girl,
This is very disturbing. Here you are pregnant, with a man who doesn't want you to keep this child. Does this or does this not sound a bit selfish to you? It does to me. Maybe you love this man, and you don't want to lose him.... (read in full...)
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