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writes: I am married to a fabulous woman but i am sleeping with a woman at work.I also have a lover off the internet and i have another lover who lives close by. I also have a fuck buddy lady who goes to swingers partys with mei sound like a rite scumbag but i cant help it . I am destroyed by guilt but cant stop what can i do? im begging for help
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reader, JTalbott  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 You sexual behavior sounds compulsive. Engaging in it has physically changed the way your brain funcions. Check out sexual addicts anonymous or sexaholics anonymous for behavioral change also, you might look into a mood stabilizer or anti-depressant to help calm your obsessive/compulsive thoughts.
I've been there done that. The common constant being that pain it caused the women I was in a relationship with.
Peace.
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reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 Man, you need to slap yourself in the face and then ask yourself how much you really love your wife and just how commited are you?(you obviously aren't commited at all.)If you don't really love her just stop hurting her and tell her whats going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): You made a commitment to your wife. you obviously loved her.. but the big question now is do you still truely love her?? in my eyes a man that can sleep with more than even 1 other woman does not care or respect any of them. YOUR MARRIED!! don't you feel anything would you like it if your wife went out and slept with numerous other men without you knowing.. im sure she wouldnt do that as she does love you she also made her commitment to you on your wedding day!
mke the right decision!!
i agree with beautiful brunette you should tell her and if she leaves you good for her she probably deserves some1 that will treat her with respect
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 Can I just ask how you have the energy and where do you find the time?
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (18 December 2006):
 you need to leave your wife. actually tell her what is going on and give her the chance to leave you. yes you are a scumbag for this, because you let it go too far. you need to honestly not put your wife in a position to get heart broken just because you have a sex fetish. the problem with this picture is...if your wife is so 'fabulous' then why are you screwing other women...do you realize how much that is going to hurt her. either way you have to tell your wife. now if she decides to leave you, then it was the best for her...but if she decides to stay with you, then you are going to need some serious help. please don't hurt her. i am a girl and i know how it feels to be heart broken. those are pretty much your options.
stop thinking about yourself for once and think about your wife and the effect this may have on her!
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