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writes: IS there anyway I can get the passion and affection back into my relationship with my boyfriend? I feel like it's not really there anymore. He never wants to kiss me longer than a couple of seconds and usually when we are about to have sex we just jump right into it. I miss being touched and held and kissed. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): Everything will work out. Talk to him and tell him you need to kissed and hugged. Reward him when he does.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 I sort of got into a situation a little similar. I just missed the kissing, and the touching. I felt like I might hurt my boyfriends feelings if I brought it up, or that he's feel like I was too needy. But he was really great about it. Sometimes you just get into a little rut.
All I had to do was say something earlier in the evening. It wasn't a whole sit-down talk... it was just me simply saying to him, "can we just kiss for awhile tonight? I miss just kissing you... and then after we makeout like crazy for awhile, we can move on to dessert."
(or something along those lines.)
I'm sure all you have to do is say something. Maybe ask him if you guys can "take it nice and slow" tonight. To avoid hurting feelings, make your voice all sultry and sexy.
Enjoy, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (14 December 2006):
 well to tell you the truth, talking makes a difference, you have to approach him with how you feel before anyone else can help you. once you have taken that first step and things still haven't changed, there could be something wrong. you should ask him if there is anything wrong and if there is to please tell you so you can see if it is something you can help fix. now if you have tried talking and it seems monotonous, then you should try it yourself...attempt to cuddle with him, hug and squeeze on him, kiss on him, talk to him...maybe it will help. i dont know the severity of the situation but from what it sounds to me, you must talk to him first, or things won't improve.
good luck darling.
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