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writes: ive been friends with this woman all my life n i really really love her and i no that she kinda feels the same way from whats gone on in the past. We are both virgins and have never had a bf/gf we spend loads of time together and we are extremly close.We tend to stop over at each others houses so that we can see each other for longer and so that niether of us has to drive home if we want a drink. We do sometimes sleep together but nothing happens its just because we're so close friends that we can feel comfortable with just having a cuddle before we go to sleep. She as a 6 year old daughter(i get on with her really well) which is a long story.(she was her cousins daughter but when she died she brought her up and adopted her if you get me) But anyway i really like her and i really don't know how to make the first move or how to do it or where? please can you give me some advice. sorry about the long question
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (14 December 2006):
 well me being a girl, and having been in relationships, there are certain ways you go about making a move on a girl to make her like it. you dont want her getting creeped and then being weird around you from then on...so one day you take her out to dinner or something or you both can just hang around at your house or something, or a walk in the park is wonderful...i stop her dead in her tracks and place one hand under her hair on the side of her neck and the other resting on her waist...you lean in for a soft kiss and then you both share a wonderful moment together, and then you look deep into her eyes and tell her how you feel. don't worry about looking stupid...girls like guys who aren't too agressive but who know what they want. while you are explaining things to her, grab both of her hands and kiss them gingerly.
things should go swell, and i hope they do!!
Good luck!
xxxx
p.s.
the key thing to remember is to make her feel comfortable.
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