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writes: Dear cupid, My situation seems to be about the same break up the same downer. I am at the moment VERY confused! my ex gives me mixed messages he acts like he loves me and when a situation arises so where he could share his feelings he tends to shut off. i sent him a diary entry but he didnt want to read it while he was "stoned" because he would get emotion. he still gets jealous, he still acts like he cares. but he says dat he doesnt love me anymore and bad memories is wat is holdin him bak from bein with me =S at some points i dont really mind the last 2 days have been great for me! happy and all but i dont know if its the fact that i am secure because of his flirtatious attitude lately or is it because im emotionally tired of bein upset? i want him back but i dont want to try because for nearly 2 months now i have! what is your advice?
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reader, Manya  +, writes (14 December 2006):
It worries me that he says he doesn't love you. But you said you've been feeling
happy and secure the last few days. It sounds like your relationship has
some kind of weird stability, even in break-up -- which I could'nt figure out
your exact situation.
Maybe it could turn into a really good friendship?
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (14 December 2006):
 Well darling, i do not think it would be wise for you to pursue this. he sounds like he is just playing mind games with you because he likes the attention, he likes girls to chase after him, HEY!...if it makes other guys envy him... the thing you have to let him know is that if he wants to play games with you, you are way too mature and smart for his childish games, so his 'games' are pointless. you just have to be smart, because getting back with him might disappoint you in the end, and you don't want to look back into your past with regrets, trust me.
good luck.
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